My relationship with my first ever girlfriend ended after 2 years, because she didn’t want to lose weight

[.*my*.]

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[polonaecel]

Now for the record I’m 6’2 185, not fat, decent build.

mogs my build to death, im 6'1.5 147lbs

 

[polonaecel]

I’ve been battling for over a year to get her to lose weight, and it was a bunch of tricks the whole time to make me think like she’s doing something. She’s 220 at 5’7. Many health issues because of that.

Last time we argued she told me that “since you are forcing me to lose weight, I will do so only if you gymmaxx (she didn’t say it like that) and gain muscle. why should I be the only one to put in the effort?”

Why didnt you agree to gymmaxx with her?

 

[hye732]

good. going to the gym wasnt going to change anything for her, she obv wasnt going to be 220 pounds of pure muscle at 5'7. she just didnt want to put down the fork

 

[Deleted member 349198]

She’s 220 at 5’7

look i get breaking up can hurt but why are you even worrying about someone who doesnt even respect their own body, 220 at 5´7 is diabolical

 

[.*my*.]

Why didnt you agree to gymmaxx with her?

1. Because I’m at a healthy weight
2. I have a physically active job
3. I would gladly do so, but I had to leave for my service, and I can’t do it at the moment. But even if I did, low activity isn’t the problem, it’s lack of appetite control

 

[polonaecel]

1. Because I’m at a healthy weight
2. I have a physically active job
3. I would gladly do so, but I had to leave for my service, and I can’t do it at the moment. But even if I did, low activity isn’t the problem, it’s lack of appetite control

Understandable

 

[.*my*.]

good. going to the gym wasnt going to change anything for her, she obv wasnt going to be 220 pounds of pure muscle at 5'7. she just didnt want to put down the fork

Yes. She can’t control her appetite.

 

[.*my*.]

look i get breaking up can hurt but why are you even worrying about someone who doesnt even respect their own body, 220 at 5´7 is diabolical

Because she was the perfect girlfriend. I was always fed, fucked, sucked off, did whatever I wanted (sexually), shared hobbies, taken care of, protected, valued, talked well of behind my back etc. which makes it really hard since 99% of people here will never find even half of the mentioned qualities.