My sister (who is Ashkenazi Jewish-passing) started to get insecure about her race when I showed her a video of a mixed brown GL guy with an actual WW

What would you advise my sister to do? I will tell her.


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no (she said she likes mixed guys with coloured eyes but not black mixed)
Brutal never seen women not like mullatos. Isn’t she into Meeks types Aka mullatos that kinda look white ish features like light hair and eyes ? Or she like nah brah
 
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Brutal never seen women not like mullatos. Isn’t she into Meeks types Aka mullatos that kinda look white ish features like light hair and eyes ? Or she like nah brah
IIRC she said she's okay with mixed black-white men "as long as they look mostly Caucasian"
 
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IIRC she said she's okay with mixed black-white men "as long as they look mostly Caucasian"
Then she’s a dog that cried wolf. How can she blame men for having a preferenfe that ain’t her when she does the same thing

“TFW your preference doesn’t prefer you
 
so sorry man. But what should I advise her to do based on that poll? She's had a little bit of a sad (and to be honest, jealous-sounding) rant, and asked Mum "why did she marry Dad". She shouldn't put herself down like that.
She should find herself a nice Arab guy :Comfy: :Comfy:
 
IIRC she said she's okay with mixed black-white men "as long as they look mostly Caucasian"
How do I make a poll? Can you instruct me with some screenshots?
 
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Then she’s a dog that cried wolf. How can she blame men for having a preferenfe that ain’t her when she does the same thing

“TFW your preference doesn’t prefer you
She's white passing. She wants white passing men.
 
How do I make a poll? Can you instruct me with some screenshots?
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@datboijj why should she settle for non passing men
 
When you say your sister unsuccessful at dating Edomite (so-called White) men do you mean she wants to date them but they don’t want her?
 
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so why did that ethnics choice hurt her
Because she seems that people like him are her preference and that people like him "typically" choose white-white girls.
 
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Because she seems that people like him are her preference and that people like him "typically" choose white-white girls.
btw this is still funny af
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@emeraldglass she is very white-passing with blonde curly hair, but holy shit she started going on an insecure rant about how white-passing ethnic men or biracial men with coloured eyes will always choose "actual white women" (which I assume means of full European descent) or "extremely pretty nonwhite women" over her "like she saw at university". She thinks that people will view her as a "fake blonde" (when she's a natural blonde) because of her ethnicity, despite the fact she's half-white, and hence "self hating". Ironically, she told me I was "dating and eventually marrying down" (since my gf is mixed black and Arab) which is colourist.

She used to identify as white all the time, but stopped in late 2022 and now identifies as "a white-passing Arab woman".

She's a Becky, and I know she's unsuccessfully dated white men at university before. Her type is good-looking white-passing men or biracial men with coloured eyes (used to be full white men).

A Sims equivalent of how she looks like:
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@Ozell Israelite
 
@emeraldglass she is very white-passing with blonde curly hair, but holy shit she started going on an insecure rant about how white-passing ethnic men or biracial men with coloured eyes will always choose "actual white women" (which I assume means of full European descent) or "extremely pretty nonwhite women" over her "like she saw at university". She thinks that people will view her as a "fake blonde" (when she's a natural blonde) because of her ethnicity, despite the fact she's half-white, and hence "self hating". Ironically, she told me I was "dating and eventually marrying down" (since my gf is mixed black and Arab) which is colourist.

She used to identify as white all the time, but stopped in late 2022 and now identifies as "a white-passing Arab woman".

She's a Becky, and I know she's unsuccessfully dated white men at university before. Her type is good-looking white-passing men or biracial men with coloured eyes (used to be full white men).

A Sims equivalent of how she looks like:
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@frenchmaxxing why
 
@emeraldglass she is very white-passing with blonde curly hair, but holy shit she started going on an insecure rant about how white-passing ethnic men or biracial men with coloured eyes will always choose "actual white women" (which I assume means of full European descent) or "extremely pretty nonwhite women" over her "like she saw at university". She thinks that people will view her as a "fake blonde" (when she's a natural blonde) because of her ethnicity, despite the fact she's half-white, and hence "self hating". Ironically, she told me I was "dating and eventually marrying down" (since my gf is mixed black and Arab) which is colourist.

She used to identify as white all the time, but stopped in late 2022 and now identifies as "a white-passing Arab woman".

She's a Becky, and I know she's unsuccessfully dated white men at university before. Her type is good-looking white-passing men or biracial men with coloured eyes (used to be full white men).

A Sims equivalent of how she looks like:
View attachment 2342080
If she appears white-passing, it wouldn't be challenging for her to attract ethnic men, even though she's half Arab. The idea that ethnic men only prefer fully white women is a baseless stereotype. If she can pass as white, she shouldn't worry because she could easily deceive guys into thinking she is fully white. However, I suggest she explore dating beyond just white men to expand her dating pool and avoid limiting her options.
 
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If she appears white-passing, it wouldn't be challenging for her to attract ethnic men, even though she's half Arab. The idea that ethnic men only prefer fully white women is a baseless stereotype. If she can pass as white,
she can pass as an Ashkenazi Jew
she shouldn't worry because she could easily deceive guys into thinking she is fully white. However, I suggest she explore dating beyond just white men to expand her dating pool and avoid limiting her options.
she didn't say she wants white, she says she wants biracial (with coloured eyes) or white-passing ethnic men.
Explain your choice in the poll?
 
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she can pass as an Ashkenazi Jew
Like this?
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she didn't say she wants white, she says she wants biracial (with coloured eyes) or white-passing ethnic men.
Explain your choice in the poll?
What do you think influences her preferences? Could something from her youth have shaped this, or is it purely based on what she finds attractive? In my opinion, she should focus on enhancing her looks and personality. The Sims you made show her looking like an MTB or HTB, which is hard to assess accurately.

Nevertheless, she already has good potential and options, she simply needs to broaden her preference for males beyond just whites or white-passing individuals. However, changing preferences is not something that can happen easily.
 
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If she appears white-passing, it wouldn't be challenging for her to attract ethnic men, even though she's half Arab. The idea that ethnic men only prefer fully white women is a baseless stereotype. If she can pass as white, she shouldn't worry because she could easily deceive guys into thinking she is fully white. However, I suggest she explore dating beyond just white men to expand her dating pool and avoid limiting her options.
before I return would you say I'm white passing?
 
before I return would you say I'm white passing?
To some extent, you have a more ambiguous and mixed-race appearance, leaning towards a mulatto or mixed-race look.
 
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@frenchmaxxing why
Im not against race mixing or mixed people but it would be better to do it less. Mixed children often have trouble socializing with other children, are more likely to be sick and have more trouble to find blood donors. It’s not that big of a deal, but for a child it’s better to have both parents of the same ethnicity or atleast of similar culture and ethnicity. It is less confusing for a kid to grow up looking like their parents. Also if we want diversity to keep being a thing, we should not race mix otherwise everyone will be the same ethnic mutt by 2300
 
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Im not against race mixing or mixed people but it would be better to do it less. Mixed children often have trouble socializing with other children, are more likely to be sick and have more trouble to find blood donors. It’s not that big of a deal, but for a child it’s better to have both parents of the same ethnicity or atleast of similar culture and ethnicity. It is less confusing for a kid to grow up looking like their parents. Also if we want diversity to keep being a thing, we should not race mix otherwise everyone will be the same ethnic mutt by 2300
How is looking mixed = more likely to be sick? I thought the opposite
To some extent, you have a more ambiguous and mixed-race appearance, leaning towards a mulatto or mixed-race look.
In what way would you say so?
My sis says the furthest she'd go is a guy who is biracial but with light eyes.
 
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Yes but blonde
What do you think influences her preferences? Could something from her youth have shaped this, or is it purely based on what she finds attractive?
I think media and the fact she grew up watching Disney and listening to boy bands and emo.
In my opinion, she should focus on enhancing her looks and personality.
Does she seem to have a bad personality and looks?
The Sims you made show her looking like an MTB or HTB, which is hard to assess accurately.
No worries and you're spot on, she's MTB to htb.
Nevertheless, she already has good potential and options, she simply needs to broaden her preference for males beyond just whites or white-passing individuals. However, changing preferences is not something that can happen easily.
Exactly. Do you think such individuals have too many options for her?
 
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Yes but blonde
Well I think she can pas as white without problems.
I think media and the fact she grew up watching Disney and listening to boy bands and emo.
Media is a hypnotic tool these days. I knew this was one of the reasons for her preference.
Does she seem to have a bad personality and looks?

No worries and you're spot on, she's MTB to htb.
I don't believe she has a bad personality. Instead, it seems like she's facing conflicts regarding her race, almost like an identity crisis. When she spends time with too many white individuals, she tries to fit in, but her Arab side remains, and she perceives it as an obstacle to fitting in completely. As for her looks, I can't say for sure since I've never seen her, but I would assume she looks at least normal, so she can't be considered bad looking.
Exactly. Do you think such individuals have too many options for her?
She got enough options to choose from. But she makes it harder on her self by limiting her potential suitors.
In what way would you say so?
My sis says the furthest she'd go is a guy who is biracial but with light eyes.
You have tanned skin but light eyes. More Eurocentric bone structure but Arab features like lip size.

Are there many of these guys in London? I went there but I did not see much of those over there.
 
Then she’s a dog that cried wolf. How can she blame men for having a preferenfe that ain’t her when she does the same thing

“TFW your preference doesn’t prefer you
It benefits her to neg men who are above her. One might feel guilty and date her. It also benefits her to not date men deemed as unattractive because she might have children with low smv.
 
How is looking mixed = more likely to be sick? I thought the opposite

In what way would you say so?
My sis says the furthest she'd go is a guy who is biracial but with light eyes.
The genes are tood different, there’s american university studies out here who shows that mixed children are more likely to have infections and blood diseases.
 
The genes are tood different, there’s american university studies out here who shows that mixed children are more likely to have infections and blood diseases.
And there are many that debunk that study.
 

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