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ascendinggerman
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If you look at my life from an outside point of view you might think I am living a great life. I live in a big ass house with a garden and pool, I have friends I talk to everyday at school, sometimes I go to the club with big groups and make out with multiple girls, I am on very good terms with most girls and I am always with someone. I am Mid/High Mid tier normie, people tell me I look good ocassionally.
For context. I just lived a year abroad in the united states and gained a bit of weight, lost it again and the only real thing left over is the acne I gained. I am in puberty aswell so it isnt all because of that year. After coming back I met with my friend group and everything seemed well. School started again and it was the last few weeks before summer. I decide to throw a party and everything goes well and people say it was the best one in a while. After that I meet with friends from my old school and they seem hyped to see me aswell. I am thinking that everything is great after this time away and ill have a great summer.
But now that summer has started, things have begun to change. I have gone out once with my group to the club, but it felt wierd because the kid that arranged the pregaming, didnt really want me there. It seemed wierd but I think it might be because I stole the girl he wanted 2 weeks after I arrived and now he is pissed even though we were just some small thing and dont even see each other anymore. Anyways, I still went because another girl told me to come because else her guy friend would be lonely. I went, me and the guy friend had a succesfull 2 man night and both made out with 3 girls.
After this I thought id get invited more often because maybe the rest of the group now knew me, but this is the opposite. I see snaps how they all go to the lake, or drink and I never even got asked if I wanted to come (same group as the club) and I dont think its about that girl anymore, even though the guy is always there, we play games together and talk like normal friends. The only time I did something with friends this summer was when I invited people to my crib, and this has lowkey been like that for the last 2 years. About 90% of the group hangouts I am involved in I have to plan. It just feels wierd and idk what to do. My Friends from my Old school also dont invite me, I see their snaps of their group hanging out, same thing as with the people from my school. We had a great time at the party and they told me we should do more together, yet I am not invited.
As a addon. Almost all the people keep asking me when the next party is. It feels like they only like me because I can get girls to pull up and have a big crib.
You might say alsong as I have girls nothing matters, the problem is that Im not that goodlooking that the girls would ditch a hangout to hang with me. and the dont know me that well to just invite me to their home. Only enough to come to my house if I host something.
Anything I could do? Next school year all the classes get split up so maybe ill find new friends. But my school is small and basically a big friendgroup of the popular people and the NPCs as the other.
For context. I just lived a year abroad in the united states and gained a bit of weight, lost it again and the only real thing left over is the acne I gained. I am in puberty aswell so it isnt all because of that year. After coming back I met with my friend group and everything seemed well. School started again and it was the last few weeks before summer. I decide to throw a party and everything goes well and people say it was the best one in a while. After that I meet with friends from my old school and they seem hyped to see me aswell. I am thinking that everything is great after this time away and ill have a great summer.
But now that summer has started, things have begun to change. I have gone out once with my group to the club, but it felt wierd because the kid that arranged the pregaming, didnt really want me there. It seemed wierd but I think it might be because I stole the girl he wanted 2 weeks after I arrived and now he is pissed even though we were just some small thing and dont even see each other anymore. Anyways, I still went because another girl told me to come because else her guy friend would be lonely. I went, me and the guy friend had a succesfull 2 man night and both made out with 3 girls.
After this I thought id get invited more often because maybe the rest of the group now knew me, but this is the opposite. I see snaps how they all go to the lake, or drink and I never even got asked if I wanted to come (same group as the club) and I dont think its about that girl anymore, even though the guy is always there, we play games together and talk like normal friends. The only time I did something with friends this summer was when I invited people to my crib, and this has lowkey been like that for the last 2 years. About 90% of the group hangouts I am involved in I have to plan. It just feels wierd and idk what to do. My Friends from my Old school also dont invite me, I see their snaps of their group hanging out, same thing as with the people from my school. We had a great time at the party and they told me we should do more together, yet I am not invited.
As a addon. Almost all the people keep asking me when the next party is. It feels like they only like me because I can get girls to pull up and have a big crib.
You might say alsong as I have girls nothing matters, the problem is that Im not that goodlooking that the girls would ditch a hangout to hang with me. and the dont know me that well to just invite me to their home. Only enough to come to my house if I host something.
Anything I could do? Next school year all the classes get split up so maybe ill find new friends. But my school is small and basically a big friendgroup of the popular people and the NPCs as the other.
