My social skills are so poor + I am a ND

[Deleted member 284000]

I always have a crush on girls but I never approach any of them, not a single one. Even my ex is the one that made the first move and confess to me. I transferred to a new school(same school but different campus) 2 weeks ago and when I step in the class my inhib are so highhhh. 2 girls that sit next to me talk to me and it's very hard for me to communicate with them, I was so nervous + I am ND, I don't know what to do without making things awkward. And 2 more days is my second day in class and I am so nervous because I feel like I am descending because of the Chinese new year

 

[goonderp55]

same bro, just practice approaching random girls ur not attracted to

 

[merit]

just stop giving a shit and you'll become low inhib

 

[Deleted member 291046]

I always have a crush on girls but I never approach any of them, not a single one. Even my ex is the one that made the first move and confess to me. I transferred to a new school(same school but different campus) 2 weeks ago and when I step in the class my inhib are so highhhh. 2 girls that sit next to me talk to me and it's very hard for me to communicate with them, I was so nervous + I am ND, I don't know what to do without making things awkward. And 2 more days is my second day in class and I am so nervous because I feel like I am descending because of the Chinese new year

DNRD gook.

 

[Deleted member 322807]

99% of people dont care about what you say/do after 3 mins of it happening

 

[Deleted member 284000]

same bro, just practice approaching random girls ur not attracted to

I couldn't even talk to a guy

 

[kaydd]

How old are you? You talk like a middle schooler. Pretty embarrassing to be anything older than that and still be so high inhib. Are you that ugly that you cant simply train yourself to be more social?

 

[Deleted member 284000]

How old are you? You talk like a middle schooler. Pretty embarrassing to be anything older than that and still be so high inhib. Are you that ugly that you cant simply train yourself to be more social?

16½

 

[Deleted member 284000]

How old are you? You talk like a middle schooler. Pretty embarrassing to be anything older than that and still be so high inhib. Are you that ugly that you cant simply train yourself to be more social?

I never leave my house or go to any events since I was born

 

[emo-ogre666]

just stop giving a shit and you'll become low inhib

hell yeah brah. been saying this for ages

 

[kaydd]

I never leave my house or go to any events since I was born

Then proudly admit that its your own fault.
Go fix yourself before its too late.

 

[CramL]

Best method just fake it till you make it, just pretend to be low inhib, after a while it just becomes natural

 

[merit]

hell yeah brah. been saying this for ages

has anyone you've ever told this actually done it?

 

[emo-ogre666]

has anyone you've ever told this actually done it?

Yes. My friends all joined me in not giving a fuck. I literally took my introverted, quiet friend to being outgoing and extroverted.

 

[Deleted member 284000]

Then proudly admit that its your own fault.
Go fix yourself before its too late.

I feel I wasn't good enough yet to talk to them. I fear of rejected. They are the one that made the move but most of the time they're not the one I like

 

[mavJJ]

pregab

 

[merit]

Yes. My friends all joined me in not giving a fuck. I literally took my introverted, quiet friend to being outgoing and extroverted.

shits crazy man, I've been telling people this is the easiest and simplest way to stop being an autist and they never listen

 

[emo-ogre666]

shits crazy man, I've been telling people this is the easiest and simplest way to stop being an autist and they never listen

Yeah it is. And yeah ikr mainly my friends listened because they saw my success socially

 

[kaydd]

I feel I wasn't good enough yet to talk to them. I fear of rejected. They are the one that made the move but most of the time they're not the one I like

So people come up to you to talk? And somehow you expect people to feel bad for you? Are you genuinely retarded

 

[peacefulgreycell]

I feel I wasn't good enough yet to talk to them. I fear of rejected. They are the one that made the move but most of the time they're not the one I like

"I don't talk to girls and expect them to confess" nice saying retard . Instead of talkign to girls right away ,talk to a boy or something first .You can't even communicate lol

 

[merit]

Yeah it is. And yeah ikr mainly my friends listened because they saw my success socially

It hasn't been long since I've been doing this, maybe the longer I do it and when they realize they'll join in jfl

 

[Deleted member 284000]

So people come up to you to talk? And somehow you expect people to feel bad for you? Are you genuinely retarded

I want to be the one who made the first move without high inhib

 

[emo-ogre666]

It hasn't been long since I've been doing this, maybe the longer I do it and when they realize they'll join in jfl

yeah probably lol. if you slay a girl while not giving a fuck they will rush to join lol

 

[merit]

yeah probably lol. if you slay a girl while not giving a fuck they will rush to join lol

yea lmao I would hope so

 

[Luquier]

shits crazy man, I've been telling people this is the easiest and simplest way to stop being an autist and they never listen

How do you avoid crippling inhib from being aware of your deep unfixable inadequacies and low status

 

[merit]

How do you avoid crippling inhib from being aware of your deep unfixable inadequacies and low status

Just don't think about it, if your constantly reminding yourself of these things you'll stay being an autist. Just relax and don't use ur mind unless needed