My social skills have improved so much

[confirmgy]

nt ramblings:

idk last year i was genuinely scared of girls and even just conversations with people who weren't my friends. my jokes never landed and in group meets i was scared to talk so i wouldn't say anything which people found awkward. i found a new popular friendgroup and frauded social skills for a bit and started talking to girls. like there wasn't a single girl on the planet who i had more than 3 conversations with before the age of 17. then within the last year i can hold conversations with anyone, even groups of hot girls and im just so confident with talking.

thing is social awareness isn't something you can learn on purpose, you just need months if not years of experience learning how different people interact, what sorts of jokes go down well with which people, how to handle different situations and when to chime in with jokes etc.

this also went hand in hand with my looks ascension. looking better definitely helped significantly.

 

[confirmgy]

bump

 

[anphamer]

That’s great- struggled with the same also at 17. People started including me in activities ( thanks for that ) and I opened up. Eventually even hot girls started showing and I felt comfortable interacting with these people. Confidence feels so good honestly. Mirin progress

 

[confirmgy]

That’s great- struggled with the same also at 17. People started including me in activities ( thanks for that ) and I opened up. Eventually even hot girls started showing and I felt comfortable interacting with these people. Confidence feels so good honestly. Mirin progress

thanks, your right about the necessity of getting lucky with good friends helping out. and how girls just start showing up

 

[synx_]

nt ramblings:

idk last year i was genuinely scared of girls and even just conversations with people who weren't my friends. my jokes never landed and in group meets i was scared to talk so i wouldn't say anything which people found awkward. i found a new popular friendgroup and frauded social skills for a bit and started talking to girls. like there wasn't a single girl on the planet who i had more than 3 conversations with before the age of 17. then within the last year i can hold conversations with anyone, even groups of hot girls and im just so confident with talking.

thing is social awareness isn't something you can learn on purpose, you just need months if not years of experience learning how different people interact, what sorts of jokes go down well with which people, how to handle different situations and when to chime in with jokes etc.

this also went hand in hand with my looks ascension. looking better definitely helped significantly.

W bro

 

[anphamer]

thanks, your right about the necessity of getting lucky with good friends helping out. and how girls just start showing up

for me they didn’t just appear but my friend has a twin sister and she frequently includes us in her activities as well.

 

[crazyguy]

nt ramblings:

idk last year i was genuinely scared of girls and even just conversations with people who weren't my friends. my jokes never landed and in group meets i was scared to talk so i wouldn't say anything which people found awkward. i found a new popular friendgroup and frauded social skills for a bit and started talking to girls. like there wasn't a single girl on the planet who i had more than 3 conversations with before the age of 17. then within the last year i can hold conversations with anyone, even groups of hot girls and im just so confident with talking.

thing is social awareness isn't something you can learn on purpose, you just need months if not years of experience learning how different people interact, what sorts of jokes go down well with which people, how to handle different situations and when to chime in with jokes etc.

this also went hand in hand with my looks ascension. looking better definitely helped significantly.

imagine having friends

 

[Hess]

I feel like I have become decently socially aware over the years but no matter what there is always that gap that i cant cross with it so I just gave up and stuck with a close irl friends

 

[confirmgy]

for me they didn’t just appear but my friend has a twin sister and she frequently includes us in her activities as well.

i kinda just joined a high-status group that floats between different girl groups at school and got very close with some of the girls. we're really lucky because one girl has a free house all the time so hosts a lot. sadly her mum died and her dad just spends all his time with his girlfriend who lives an hour away. its unfortunate for the girl but there are so many meets and parties which is nice

 

[january]

mirin

 

[stonecold trucel]

wish I, was like you..

 

[confirmgy]

wish I, was like you..

blue eyed blondie, perfect body

 

[stonecold trucel]

blue eyed blondie, perfect body

maybe I should try harder.

 

[anphamer]

i kinda just joined a high-status group that floats between different girl groups at school and got very close with some of the girls. we're really lucky because one girl has a free house all the time so hosts a lot. sadly her mum died and her dad just spends all his time with his girlfriend who lives an hour away. its unfortunate for the girl but there are so many meets and parties which is nice

That sounds incredible lowkey. For you guys not for her doe :/