my standards were ruined in 2017

[TheVoidInside]

the first girl i went out, though not good looking, fogged most girls her age. she was skinny but she had nice tits and was rather tall. i was in awe when we went out for first time, i had never seen anything like her in my school or college. she had a very girly voice too despite smoking. textbook art hoe.

it didnt go well with her. i saw her with a chad a few weeks after the last time we met. i rly never stood a chance though she wouldnt admit she didnt like my looks. she also told me to try going for girls i have stuff in common with.

took a long time to find someone better than her and move on. and the next girl raised the bar too high sadly. naturally, she didnt like me either.

if you get into this process, going for girls above your league for almost a decade, it will ruin you. but tbh ngl, the first girl, was making it easy for me in the beggining so i thought i had a chance (@Primalsplit i was naive lol).

 

[Primalsplit]

the first girl i went out, though not good looking, fogged most girls her age. she was skinny but she had nice tits and was rather tall. i was in awe when we went out for first time, i had never seen anything like her in my school or college. she had a very girly voice too despite smoking. textbook art hoe.

it didnt go well with her. i saw her with a chad a few weeks after the last time we met. i rly never stood a chance though she wouldnt admit she didnt like my looks. she also told me to try going for girls i have stuff in common with.

took a long time to find someone better than her and move on. and the next girl raised the bar too high sadly. naturally, she didnt like me either.

if you get into this process, going for girls above your league for almost a decade, it will ruin you. but tbh ngl, the first girl, was making it easy for me in the beggining so i thought i had a chance (@Primalsplit i was naive lol).

Poor poor you. How can you ever recover from this?

 

[Minnie lacking]

It's okay man hope it'll get better

 

[TheVoidInside]

Poor poor you. How can you ever recover from this?

she offered me some chewing gum so i immidiately trusted her

 

[KT-34]

Holy fuck man, of all of us I feel like you're the most traumatized

 

[TheVoidInside]

Holy fuck man, of all of us I feel like you're the most traumatized

i spent way too much time with women who had 0 intentions of having sex with me but at the same time, these women would do mental gymnastics to convince me that i had a chance. like it was very hard for them to say "you aint my type" but then they wouldnt be able to justify why they bothered with me in the first place. women will never admit that they wanted to toy with you, they always gotta perserve their image. my old itis wants me to believe she is some HQNP princess lol

 

[KT-34]

i spent way too much time with women who had 0 intentions of having sex with me but at the same time, these women would do mental gymnastics to convince me that i had a chance. like it was very hard for them to say "you aint my type" but then they wouldnt be able to justify why they bothered with me in the first place. women will never admit that they wanted to toy with you, they always gotta perserve their image. my old itis wants me to believe she is some HQNP princess lol

I feel you bro

Happened to me a bunch of time with people thinking we were dating and the girl even bringing it up

Everytime I get rejected when I make a real move, so this is BS, when I ask people they always tell me they wanted my attention

Like wtf, my attention is not that special for you to fail classes and hang out with me instead then reject me and pretend there wasn't a thing when everyone thought we were a couple

 

[TheVoidInside]

when I ask people they always tell me they wanted my attention

yeah same, they just keep me around as a joke

my attention is not that special for you to fail classes and hang out with me instead then reject me and pretend there wasn't a thing when everyone thought we were a couple

maybe attention and sex are not the same need so they need different guys for each thihg?

 

[KT-34]

yeah same, they just keep me around as a joke

maybe attention and sex are not the same need so they need different guys for each thihg?

Had three girls like this

All would be very touchy, like one would ask me to lift her or rest on her thighs, the other one would ask to give me massages and bite me etc...

Idk how their fucked up brain works but I was not even this close physically with most dudes I consider my friends, so this is just fucked up

 

[Primalsplit]

she offered me some chewing gum so i immidiately trusted her

You're like a dog.
Just a bit of a food is enough to gain your trust.

 

[TheVoidInside]

All would be very touchy, like one would ask me to lift her or rest on her thighs, the other one would ask to give me massages and bite me etc.

meanwhile the girls i met wouldnt touch me with a stick lol

Idk how their fucked up brain works but I was not even this close physically

women have 0 inhibitions

 

[TheVoidInside]

Just a bit of a food is enough to gain your trust.

like how my old itis paid for the first date and i was like "This girl cannot have evil in her". different girl, same story

 

[KT-34]

meanwhile the girls i met wouldnt touch me with a stick lol


women have 0 inhibitions

The inhibition would be inconsistent, one time she just let play around with her face while I had my arms around her, another time she got angry when I touched her face

Like wtf.

 

[Primalsplit]

The inhibition would be inconsistent, one time she just let play around with her face while I had my arms around her, another time she got angry when I touched her face

Like wtf.

Which instance was first?

 

[KT-34]

Which instance was first?

In the order I gave it, but after getting angry with me the following day we started playing around like she'd push me grab my hand, tickle her etc....

Very weird stuff

 

[Primalsplit]

In the order I gave it, but after getting angry with me the following day we started playing around like she'd push me grab my hand, tickle her etc....

Very weird stuff

When you played around with her face did you guys fuck after that?

 

[KT-34]

When you played around with her face did you guys fuck after that?

Nope

All that for nothing, even for women she was a schizo

 

[Primalsplit]

Nope

All that for nothing, even for women she was a schizo

I mean, that's kinda on you tbh. You should have sexed her then and there. When you didn't she realized you were a major pussy and she got the ick from you. That's why she rejected you after that. After you escalate the situation to a certain point, you must sex her that very night. Otherwise she's lost forever. This is like hardcoded into women and it can not be reasoned with no matter what.

It's honestly a tantamount to your looks that you still managed to talk with her after this, let alone get to be touchy again.

 

[TheVoidInside]

When you didn't she realized you were a major pussy and she got the ick from you. That's why she rejected you after that.

do you think this would have worked for me too?

 

[Primalsplit]

do you think this would have worked for me too?

I don't know about you. You're a special case unto yourself.

 

[KT-34]

I mean, that's kinda on you tbh. You should have sexed her then and there. When you didn't she realized you were a major pussy and she got the ick from you. That's why she rejected you after that. After you escalate the situation to a certain point, you must sex her that very night. Otherwise she's lost forever. This is like hardcoded into women and it can not be reasoned with no matter what.

It's honestly a tantamount to your looks that you still managed to talk with her after this, let alone get to be touchy again.

She used to compliment a lot too, honestly I dragged it for like 5 months, the super touchy phase was like after 2 months, was still close enough to touch her legs, face belly and stuff until month 5, she'd touch my head too

 

[Primalsplit]

She used to compliment a lot too, honestly I dragged it for like 5 months, the super touchy phase was like after 2 months, was still close enough to touch her legs, face belly and stuff until month 5, she'd touch my head too

Jesus! You dragged it for 5 months? You know that Chad gets it at day 1, right?

 

[KT-34]

Jesus! You dragged it for 5 months? You know that Chad gets it at day 1, right?

Honestly she wasn't even my main target, I knew she was psychotic I just wanted to be fwb instead of dating her

 

[KT-34]

Jesus! You dragged it for 5 months? You know that Chad gets it at day 1, right?

Plus she told me she had a bf so I had to thread delicately

 

[TheVoidInside]

You're a special case unto yourself.

whats so special about me lol?

 

[TheVoidInside]

ou know that Chad gets it at day 1, right?

buuuuut not all girls are like that....

 

[Primalsplit]

whats so special about me lol?

Something in your internal being resists good fortune. Even if you were to somehow wake up at 8+PSL tomorrow, you would still not manage to get laid.