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The blackpill. About 80% of what inkwells and lurkers here believe is actually true. So most of what you guys believe about women is true. Looks are very important. Personally I would give the black pill a 90% importance for short term relationships and maybe 50-70% importance in long term relationships.
The redpill. Not every PUA or internet coach is a scam. A lot of what they say is true. What’s probably not true is the idea that looks don’t matter at all and that just by saying certain words and having a certain amount of confidence you can get any chick you want. That’s straight up bullshit.
Where PUA don’t lie though is that if you’re average looking or anywhere in between (not ugly but not conventionally handsome) you can get with a wide variety of women. I would say up to a stacylite if you play what they call “the numbers game” and try enough times. Personally I would give the redpill 10-30% importance in short term relationships and about 30-50% in long term relationships. If you suck as a partner and can’t protect, provide or please your girl sexually what does it matter that you’re good looking?
The bluepill. Aka meeting the love of your life in kindergarten and living happily ever after.
Despite how harsh things are, the blue pill is real. An example of that is probably Elliott Hulse. He met his wife and they “fell in love” with each other when they were 14. And they’re still together in their 40s and they never argue or fight. And there are a few other examples of that.
Now the bluepill is rare and you can’t count on it as it probably happens to maybe 1 in 150 people, and looks are definitely a factor that determines the likelihood of that happening.
The bluepill is a part of a successful relationship. Despite your knowledge about the fucked up reality of the world and women, you sometimes need to chill and understand that your girl is not always hoping to ride a chad thundercock’s dick. She’s probably in love with you and wants this to continue forever. HOWEVER if you neglect your looks, don’t act like a man, don’t protect and provide and don’t fuck the shit out of her the bluepill stops existing.
Personally I would give the bluepill maybe 0.5% in short term relationships and 5-10% in long term relationships.
The redpill. Not every PUA or internet coach is a scam. A lot of what they say is true. What’s probably not true is the idea that looks don’t matter at all and that just by saying certain words and having a certain amount of confidence you can get any chick you want. That’s straight up bullshit.
Where PUA don’t lie though is that if you’re average looking or anywhere in between (not ugly but not conventionally handsome) you can get with a wide variety of women. I would say up to a stacylite if you play what they call “the numbers game” and try enough times. Personally I would give the redpill 10-30% importance in short term relationships and about 30-50% in long term relationships. If you suck as a partner and can’t protect, provide or please your girl sexually what does it matter that you’re good looking?
The bluepill. Aka meeting the love of your life in kindergarten and living happily ever after.
Despite how harsh things are, the blue pill is real. An example of that is probably Elliott Hulse. He met his wife and they “fell in love” with each other when they were 14. And they’re still together in their 40s and they never argue or fight. And there are a few other examples of that.
Now the bluepill is rare and you can’t count on it as it probably happens to maybe 1 in 150 people, and looks are definitely a factor that determines the likelihood of that happening.
The bluepill is a part of a successful relationship. Despite your knowledge about the fucked up reality of the world and women, you sometimes need to chill and understand that your girl is not always hoping to ride a chad thundercock’s dick. She’s probably in love with you and wants this to continue forever. HOWEVER if you neglect your looks, don’t act like a man, don’t protect and provide and don’t fuck the shit out of her the bluepill stops existing.
Personally I would give the bluepill maybe 0.5% in short term relationships and 5-10% in long term relationships.
