My whole life, only one girl liked me and I fumbled hard

[Gengar’s Ghost]

This took place in high school. Basically I made a great first impression on her, got her female friends’ approval, but I fumbled hard. After that day, I saw her smiling at me from afar during our lunch break, but I ignored her. From that day, she pretended as if I didn’t exist. Never looked at me once. The thing is, I was just insecure about my looks, so I didn’t think she liked me, but she did.

 

[slaviccartfiend]

canon event

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

I mentioned her to one of my friends and he gave me some big news about her. Apparently she’s trans now. I could’ve saved her.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

canon event

What does this mean?

 

[americanpakitruvcel]

I mentioned her to one of my friends and he gave me some big news about her. Apparently she’s trans now. I could’ve saved her.

Can’t save people from trooning out

 

[BecomingX]

What does this mean?

Comes from the new spider verse movies. Basically a defining moment in time that shapes the future of someone.

 

[americanpakitruvcel]

What does this mean?

Everyone goes through something similar at some point in their life

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Can’t save people from trooning out

She would have probably recited the shahada years ago if I wasn’t such an insecure little bitch boy at the time. Now I’m just a little bitch man.

 

[Mogs Me]

I mentioned her to one of my friends and he gave me some big news about her. Apparently she’s trans now. I could’ve saved her.

Bitch turned into a femcel after getting rejected by you and transitioned

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Comes from the new spider verse movies. Basically a defining moment in time that shapes the future of someone.

I see! Well, I guess you could say that. My life could have looked so much different if I hadn’t been an insecure guy back then.

 

[them streets b cold]

If she's a trans it means She was looking for someone to peg and your ass looked juicy?

 

[slaviccartfiend]

What does this mean?

this or some variation of this happens to most people, its an influential turning point

 

[BecomingX]

Also yeah, this pain is something I don't wish on anyone. I've only had like about 2 maybe 3 people express genuine interest and attraction in me but I have screwed up so many times. And knowing where im at looks wise, it's going to be hard for me to attract anyone else with the same level of desire that I had experienced before. this shit succksss

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Bitch turned into a femcel after getting rejected by you and transitioned

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JFL. She was a cute brunette. But she was tall, like 6’0”. Imagine that, I could’ve gotten a dom mommy but instead I’m a 30 year old virgin. Maybe this is the punishment I deserve.

 

[Adamadas]

This took place in high school. Basically I made a great first impression on her, got her female friends’ approval, but I fumbled hard. After that day, I saw her smiling at me from afar during our lunch break, but I ignored her. From that day, she pretended as if I didn’t exist. Never looked at me once. The thing is, I was just insecure about my looks, so I didn’t think she liked me, but she did.

i am currently in a relatiosnhip been dating for 3 months now and she really likes me but shes very good looking and i dont think im good enough for her ive blocked her 3 times now and she reaches out from another account her family is goated and she trusts me deeply but i feel insecure about my looks and im ignoring her texts rn its been an hour idk what to do considering blocking her again but shes just too good to do this to

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

If she's a trans it means She was looking for someone to peg and your ass looked juicy?

Pretty sure she became trans like ten years after high school or something.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

this or some variation of this happens to most people, its an influential turning point

I see, thanks!

 

[eyenerf]

I mentioned her to one of my friends and he gave me some big news about her. Apparently she’s trans now. I could’ve saved her.

i think this is cope

she wouldve been trans etiher way

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Also yeah, this pain is something I don't wish on anyone. I've only had like about 2 maybe 3 people express genuine interest and attraction in me but I have screwed up so many times. And knowing where im at looks wise, it's going to be hard for me to attract anyone else with the same level of desire that I had experienced before. this shit succksss

Man, it really does suck. I forgot about this mainly but sometimes it comes back to haunt me. Like, guys like this rarely experience this and then we do and we fumble. I really regretted this when it first came back to me years later.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

i am currently in a relatiosnhip been dating for 3 months now and she really likes me but shes very good looking and i dont think im good enough for her ive blocked her 3 times now and she reaches out from another account her family is goated and she trusts me deeply but i feel insecure about my looks and im ignoring her texts rn its been an hour idk what to do considering blocking her again but shes just too good to do this to

Learn from my mistakes and trust her. Don’t fuck it up like I did. The fact you got into a relationship with her already proves you’re doing much better than I ever did handling this situation.

 

[Lord Vader]

This took place in high school. Basically I made a great first impression on her, got her female friends’ approval, but I fumbled hard. After that day, I saw her smiling at me from afar during our lunch break, but I ignored her. From that day, she pretended as if I didn’t exist. Never looked at me once. The thing is, I was just insecure about my looks, so I didn’t think she liked me, but she did.

the first few girls that you fumble were trial runs, and that it just means that it was never meant to be.

things have a funny way of working out in the end.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

i think this is cope

she wouldve been trans etiher way

I don’t think so. My friend said she struggled with dating because she was tall (she was like 6’0”) and guys didn’t like tall girls. But I did, I just didn’t think she liked me back then.

 

[ＩＣＲ]

This took place in high school. Basically I made a great first impression on her, got her female friends’ approval, but I fumbled hard. After that day, I saw her smiling at me from afar during our lunch break, but I ignored her. From that day, she pretended as if I didn’t exist. Never looked at me once. The thing is, I was just insecure about my looks, so I didn’t think she liked me, but she did.

Halal MAXXING did u dirty that time

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

the first few girls that you fumble were trial runs, and that it just means that it was never meant to be.

things have a funny way of working out in the end.

I appreciate the pep talk but I don’t believe in phrases like “meant to be,” we are the ones who make a choice. It’s just that the other person didn’t want it.

 

[them streets b cold]

Pretty sure she became trans like ten years after high school or something.

she was gay/mentally ill in the first place. These girls typically wanna be the man in the relationship and only go after young juicy prettyboys

 

[Adamadas]

Learn from my mistakes and trust her. Don’t fuck it up like I did. The fact you got into a relationship with her already proves you’re doing much better than I ever did handling this situation.

Bro whenever she tells me i made her cry it twitches something in me makes me wanna make her cry again and shit i talk to soo many other girls man i am as guilty as a fucking i can possibly get idk what im doing do i deserve prosecution?

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

she was gay/mentally ill in the first place. These girls typically wanna be the man in the relationship and only go after young juicy prettyboys

From what I know, she moved to America for some time after graduating from high school, so she probably became influenced by Americans where LGBT propaganda is rife.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Bro whenever she tells me i made her cry it twitches something in me makes me wanna make her cry again and shit i talk to soo many other girls man i am as guilty as a fucking i can possibly get idk what im doing do i deserve prosecution?

Are you secretly a prettyboy? If you got a gl girl, and you’re talking to others, that shows you’re probably betterlooking than you think you are.

 

[them streets b cold]

From what I know, she moved to America for some time after graduating from high school, so she probably became influenced by Americans where LGBT propaganda is rife.

This is why I only deal with mature women

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

This is why I only deal with mature women

A wise choice, they aren’t the ones to fall for propaganda like that.

 

[Adamadas]

Are you secretly a prettyboy? If you got a gl girl, and you’re talking to others, that shows you’re probably betterlooking than you think you are.

I dont wanna send her pic but if i were to scale her shes pretty high like perfect ratios id say htb her only flaw puppy eyes but they are green and so fucking good. and nah im sub 5 or ltn i just have a good harmony im essentially boneless also im iqlet and just have a sexy type of deep voice all the girls ive dated they say your voice is so fucking hot and shit so nah im a cope

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

I dont wanna send her pic but if i were to scale her shes pretty high like perfect ratios id say htb her only flaw puppy eyes but they are green and so fucking good. and nah im sub 5 or ltn i just have a good harmony im essentially boneless also im iqlet and just have a sexy type of deep voice all the girls ive dated they say your voice is so fucking hot and shit so nah im a cope

I am not asking you for her pic, I was talking about you. I highly doubt you’re a sub 5 if she’s good looking like you say she is (I’m giving you the benefit of the doubt).

 

[Adamadas]

I am not asking you for her pic, I was talking about you. I highly doubt you’re a sub 5 if she’s good looking like you say she is (I’m giving you the benefit of the doubt).

this is me tho idk i look way better whenever i lose weight also shes italian and australian so mix of blonde and wtv else

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

this is me tho idk i look way better whenever i lose weight also shes italian and australian so mix of blonde and wtv else

I think you look good. You give me kpop idol vibes and girls love that. I don’t think you’re sub 5.

 

[Adamadas]

I think you look good. You give me kpop idol vibes and girls love that. I don’t think you’re sub 5.

Thanks i think my voice and being an "iqlet" helps me more than my looks they really do matters ngl we are coping putting everything at 0 while only looking out for looks these new gen copes like that.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Thanks i think my voice and being an "iqlet" helps me more than my looks they really do matters ngl we are coping putting everything at 0 while only looking out for looks these new gen copes like that.

Imo, as an ugly guy, I think looks is all that matters. Yours aren’t holding you back at all. What’s your ethnic background? Are you Latino?

 

[95iu]

these new gen copes like that.

Joined: Aug 19, 2026


sorry man i just had to

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Joined: Aug 19, 2026


sorry man i just had to

JFL I can pull this off with anyone here.

Joined Nov 28, 2025

 

[95iu]

JFL I can pull this off with anyone here.

Joined Nov 28, 2025

i was like 7 in 2018 bro

 

[Adamadas]

Joined: Aug 19, 2026


sorry man i just had to

Ik that lol i joined recently but people who agressively only push looks are cope im sure a lot of ppl agrees with me including the ogs on this site

 

[Adamadas]

Imo, as an ugly guy, I think looks is all that matters. Yours aren’t holding you back at all. What’s your ethnic background? Are you Latino?

im hazara so like mix mongolian and mix turkic type not even sure

 

[95iu]

Ik that lol i joined recently but people who agressively only push looks are cope im sure a lot of ppl agrees with me including the ogs on this site

for me as well, like gengar said, it is all about looks, ur looks can benefit in so many ways that u dont realise

 

[Gobnull]

Mera Bhai has so many regrets

 

[Adamadas]

for me as well, like gengar said, it is all about looks, ur looks can benefit in so many ways that u dont realise

respectful ideology i think australia in general isnt hypergamous and stuff

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

i was like 7 in 2018 bro

Jeez. And I joined .is the year before.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

im hazara so like mix mongolian and mix turkic type not even sure

Hazara? Wow, that’s super cool. From Afghanistan or Pakistan? Hazaras are basically half Mongol. I am from Pakistan and they have a lot of Hazaras living in Quetta, the capital of Balochistan.

 

[Roara]

WTFLIP you were a VOLCEL THIS WHOEL TIME?!!?!?!? NOOOOO BRAHH!!!!

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Mera Bhai has so many regrets

Sometimes I am drowning in them, it makes me suicidal.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

WTFLIP you were a VOLCEL THIS WHOEL TIME?!!?!?!? NOOOOO BRAHH!!!!

I am a volcel since recent years, yes. Before that, I was an incel (as in, I wanted a gf but I couldn’t get one, but also didn’t try much).

 

[95iu]

Jeez. And I joined .is the year before.

bro was on .is whilst i was playing hide and seek with my friends in primary school jfl