Myth #1 about incels: The idea that we're unable to attract foids

[Deleted member 439950]

No, it's not all in my head

neurologically

nigga what do you think “neurologically” means

where is your brain
in your HEAD

all mental illness is neurochemical

 

[BadLuck7892]

nigga what do you think “neurologically” means

where is your brain
in your HEAD

all mental illness is neurochemical

Ok, I've since looked up the definition of mentalcel. You're right

Before I looked up the definition, I thought mentalcel essentially meant "he could totally do well with foids; he simply thinks he can't"

 

[Deleted member 439950]

Ok, I've since looked up the definition of mentalcel. You're right

Before I looked up the definition, I thought mentalcel essentially meant "he could totally do well with foids; he simply thinks he can't"

Nah a mentalcel is someone that is an incel due to neurological/psychological incapability to attain a relationship, regardless of looks
You probably fit the bill
Very much valid but face/heightcels will probably still call you a fakecel

 

[hopecel]

"Just be more assertive" is worthless advice to me

I need an exact script; not vague advice

Without a script, I can't function in terms of pursuing foids

just grow a pair of balls

 

[BadLuck7892]

Nah a mentalcel is someone that is an incel due to neurological/psychological incapability to attain a relationship, regardless of looks
You probably fit the bill
Very much valid but face/heightcels will probably still call you a fakecel

There's no such thing as being an incel because of height or looks (except in extreme cases like being severely physically disfigured/handicapped, being below 5 feet, etc)

An able-bodied 5'5" obese ugly NT man with no disfigurements would get laid much than a 5'9" HTN autist like me

 

[BadLuck7892]

just grow a pair of balls

Fuck you

I am the way I am because of a neurological disability; not a lack of balls

I don't deny the fact foids are turned on by assertiveness

All I'm saying is I need to know exactly what to say to convince foids to fuck me

Telling me "just be more assertive" doesn't tell me exactly what to say

 

[armemann]

Extremly low IQ post

Your fakecel anecdotes dont have meaning for the generality of incels

 

[BadLuck7892]

Extremly low IQ post

Your fakecel anecdotes dont have meaning for the generality of incels

You're tall and have good looks, yet are still struggling. I'd think you'd understand looks alone won't help a man get laid

Furthermore, how am I a fakecel?

Even if I have opportunities, the opportunities are meaningless if I have a social disability preventing me from acting on the opportunities

 

[sonic55555]

KITCHENCELS

 

[armemann]

You're tall and have good looks, yet are still struggling. I'd think you'd understand looks alone won't help a man get laid

Furthermore, how am I a fakecel?

Even if I have opportunities, the opportunities are meaningless if I have a social disability preventing me from acting on the opportunities

Okay yeah fakecel is the wrong term

I meant mentalcel


For the first part i meant there are defintely a lot of incel incapable of attracting foids

And yes i have the height and looks, still struggeld often but thats not what this is about

 

[Raimaxxing]

ER would've hated this post bro

 

[BadLuck7892]

ER would've hated this post bro

ER probably got IOIs

He had good looks. Yet like me, he wasn't cut out to make the 1st move

His strategy was to sit on a bench and hope foids came up to him to offer him sex

 

[karmacitathugmaxx]

No, it's not all in my head

I truly am neurologically incapable of acting on IOIs

how tf is this possible

If you understand how it's done then you can find a way to do it.

 

[BadLuck7892]

how tf is this possible

If you understand how it's done then you can find a way to do it.

I don't understand how it's done

I can read the IOI, yet acting on the IOI is a foreign language to me

As an analogy, noticing that the house across the street is on fire doesn't mean you have the firefighting ability to put out the fire

 

[karmacitathugmaxx]

I don't understand how it's done

I can read the IOI, yet acting on the IOI is a foreign language to me

As an analogy, noticing that the house across the street is on fire doesn't mean you have the firefighting ability to put out the fire

No but you know that firefighting is a skill that you could learn if you had to, and you understand the basic concepts of fire types and what active agent would be needed to put them out

If you can understand your reaction to an ioi as 'wrong' that means you understand on some level what 'right' is, and could make it happen if you had some way to train consistently

 

[milkshake_addict]

do you know what the defintion of incel is?

 

[Raimaxxing]

His strategy was to sit on a bench and hope foids came up to him to offer him sex

 

[BadLuck7892]

No but you know that firefighting is a skill that you could learn if you had to, and you understand the basic concepts of fire types and what active agent would be needed to put them out

If you can understand your reaction to an ioi as 'wrong' that means you understand on some level what 'right' is, and could make it happen if you had some way to train consistently

Firefighting is a concrete skill

Once you learn how to put out a fire, problem solved

With IOIs, every scenario is different. There is no one-size-fits-all "right" answer

The "right" answer in any given scenario with foids is something neurotypical men instinctively know, yet is beyond my capability

 

[BadLuck7892]

do you know what the defintion of incel is?

Involuntarily celibate

The reason for celibacy is irrelevant. As long as his celibacy is involuntary, the man is an incel

 

[hopecel]

Fuck you

I am the way I am because of a neurological disability; not a lack of balls

I don't deny the fact foids are turned on by assertiveness

All I'm saying is I need to know exactly what to say to convince foids to fuck me

Telling me "just be more assertive" doesn't tell me exactly what to say

you're a disappointment, imagine being 35 and asking 15+ years younger guys for advice on how to be a man

 

[BadLuck7892]

you're a disappointment, imagine being 35 and asking 15+ years younger guys for advice on how to be a man

My chronological age is irrelevant

My foid-pursuing ability is perpetually stunted at the level of a 14 year old boy (thanks to a social disability)

The average 20 year old dude is leaps and bounds above me in terms of ability to pursue foids

 

[hopecel]

My chronological age is irrelevant

My foid-pursuing ability is perpetually stunted at the level of a 14 year old boy (thanks to a social disability)

The average 20 year old dude is leaps and bounds above me in terms of ability to pursue foids

never began for you, unc

you need to man up asap

 

[BadLuck7892]

never began for you, unc

you need to man up asap

The Balkans are a much different dating climate

Autism doesn't hold a man back as much

 

[hopecel]

The Balkans are a much different dating climate

Autism doesn't hold a man back as much

lmfao nah you can't be serious on this one, you're twisting it entirely

mate, you live in a country where majority of women are tolerant of autistic men as long as they're respectful, there's literally millions of American women diagnosed with some sort of mental issues and you compare that to Balkan women who pretend to be Latinas but are worse than Latinas, they literally treat you as a loser if you don't have a car and don't drink in 20's let alone if you give yourself a right to say that you feel that you're under pressure or something

say you're autistic or anxious or depressed here and be ready to get called a loser, pussy, coward, faggot, slacker, weakling and whatnot

you're not a man here if you don't dominate and if you complain... whereas in America, you've got tolerant and supportive women

 

[BadLuck7892]

@hopecel

If American foids were as supportive/tolerant as you claim, I wouldn't have had only 1 instance of free sex (and a mere 4 dates) in the past decade (For that matter, my 1 instance of free sex this decade was a Mexican immigrant. So zero American foids have fucked me for free this past decade)

What holds me back the most is my direct communication style (a result of autism)

I did some research online. Apparently Balkan foids appreciate a direct communication style. Yet American foids don't