Narcissism is NOT dark triad / attractive to women

[Deleted member 16204]

A wery key feature in narcissistic personality disorders is a wery poor self esteem, where the pathological selfishness stems from. And the entire disorder is often caused by childhood traumas, bullying, bad parents and upbringing and overall lack of positive validation.

So my claim is that narcissism isn't a "positive mental illness" that makes you dark triad and attractive to women, like psychopathy. Perhaps in some cases it may be, but usually it's instead strongly linked with life-long lack of positive social validation and overall BETANESS in males. At least in my case. I got anti-social personality disorder and I'm basically a full-on socially stunted autist.

 

[Deleted member 16530]

Well it’s not if the guy is ugly of course

 

[turkproducer]

on average they earn more and slay more though.

 

[DivineBeing]

A wery key feature in narcissistic personality disorders is a wery poor self esteem, where the pathological selfishness stems from. And the entire disorder is often caused by childhood traumas, bullying, bad parents and upbringing and overall lack of positive validation.

So my claim is that narcissism isn't a "positive mental illness" that makes you dark triad and attractive to women, like psychopathy. Perhaps in some cases it may be, but usually it's instead strongly linked with life-long lack of positive social validation and overall BETANESS in males. At least in my case. I got anti-social personality disorder and I'm basically a full-on socially stunted autist.

i got 0 positive validation in my life

 

[ropemax]

Cope

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

nah narcissism is good ol' confidence on gl men

 

[Deleted member 16204]

on average they earn more and slay more though.

It's honestly hard to believe that, as the cause and key feature in narcissistic personality and behaviour is poor self esteem and lack of positive validation, which is the exact opposite of what are considered chad/slayer traits.
Perhaps some narcissists somehow have those narcissistic traits without having shit self esteem and childhood traumas. But that's not the case with me.
And of course like with everything else in life, looks matter the most.

 

[Deleted member 15338]

Pseudo science based on pseudo science

 

[Deleted member 12217]

A wery key feature in narcissistic personality disorders is a wery poor self esteem, where the pathological selfishness stems from. And the entire disorder is often caused by childhood traumas, bullying, bad parents and upbringing and overall lack of positive validation.

So my claim is that narcissism isn't a "positive mental illness" that makes you dark triad and attractive to women, like psychopathy. Perhaps in some cases it may be, but usually it's instead strongly linked with life-long lack of positive social validation and overall BETANESS in males. At least in my case. I got anti-social personality disorder and I'm basically a full-on socially stunted autist.

Narcissism is the chad disorder number one

 

[turkproducer]

It's honestly hard to believe that, as the cause and key feature in narcissistic personality and behaviour is poor self esteem and lack of positive validation, which is the exact opposite of what are considered chad/slayer traits.
Perhaps some narcissists somehow have those narcissistic traits without having shit self esteem and childhood traumas. But that's not the case with me.
And of course like with everything else in life, looks matter the most.

It doesn’t matter about anecdotes, girls prefer cocky guys

They also seem more competent just because of their delusional fantasies

 

[Chinacurry]

Got diagnosed with Avoidant personality disorder and stage 2 narcissistic personality disorder

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Narcissism means you are validated on a daily basis which is a chad trait.