nd foid sent me her thigh scars we are sooo back

[sillybilly]

the person i know who went to therapy and still went back to sh had a perfect environment

they would go to therapy for an hour

have actual conversations with the therapist and talk about stuff she never told anyone else just yk stuff you do in therapy

its not like she was putting on an act and secretly hated it she would tell me it wasnt and act

also she only cut it was never drug use.

she WOULD put the effort in but im just trying to say people have different ways of coping

if one thing works for someone it doesnt mean it will work for another

good point tbh

its true that people have different ways of coping but the unhealthy ways only work because it lets you avoid confronting trauma and problems

the only way to fix these problems and remove the need to use these "copes" is to confront them directly and yes it can be done without therapy but it does help a lot in figuring out how is best to do it

 

[pawn]

good point tbh

its true that people have different ways of coping but the unhealthy ways only work because it lets you avoid confronting trauma and problems

the only way to fix these problems and remove the need to use these "copes" is to confront them directly and yes it can be done without therapy but it does help a lot in figuring out how is best to do it

good point i agree but its easier said than done i think thats why alot of ppl avoid it

 

[sillybilly]

good point i agree but its easier said than done i think thats why alot of ppl avoid it

yea improving your life especially when the conditions are so bad is difficult

people need to understand that it will never get better unless you make the effort

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

ocd makes u cut urself does it

It depends on what your obsession is. Mine is cleanliness. I guess that also extends to bodies; seeing scars is a mark of uncleanliness. According to my OCD. That’s probably why I’m repulsed by it.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

said no one ever btw

Hi, my name is No One Ever BTW.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

i see scars in the same way as earrings as they arent the main reason u find someone attractive there js there

Each to their own. All I see is imperfections.

 

[lafort2000]

i don’t know why but i find that shit so hot
I Mentally ill bitches