Ndpill is raping me, need help

[TrueChanglite]

Sober, my social battery is extremely low. I do not feel like talking much, I do not want to initiate, and I burn out fast in social situations. On top of that I have high inhibition and ADHD, so even when there is an opening I freeze, overthink, or fail to push it forward.

pregab used to help with sociability and lowering inhib, but tolerance is starting. I do not want to build my whole social life around a chemical crutch that is already fading.

Main problem:

• very low baseline drive to socialize
• high inhib
• ADHD makes it harder to stay engaged and carry interactions
• once the drug effect weakens I revert hard

What I actually want:

• higher sober social battery
• lower inhibition
• to be able to talk / flirt / socialize without needing a drug

 

[Lamskiiii]

find a therapist we not here for the sad shit brotha we all got problems be a man and tuff up

 

[paulcel]

if ur hot and quiet, even cuz its related to u being nd, girls will think ur mysterious and hot and will come up to you. and then it doesnt matter if you suck at talking to them they'll find it cute that this hot guy is "shy" or nervous around them cuz it plays into their fantasy of a guy who looks like a player or traditionally a "bad boy" having a sweet side to them only for the girl to see. focus on getting better looking above all.

 

[TrueChanglite]

if ur hot and quiet, even cuz its related to u being nd, girls will think ur mysterious and hot and will come up to you. and then it doesnt matter if you suck at talking to them they'll find it cute that this hot guy is "shy" or nervous around them cuz it plays into their fantasy of a guy who looks like a player or traditionally a "bad boy" having a sweet side to them only for the girl to see. focus on getting better looking above all.

Ive already had a girl come up to me but thats not the point
I have a shit social life and no friends
also I dont really like most girls anyways so its not about pulling

 

[paulcel]

Ive already had a girl come up to me but thats not the point
I have a shit social life and no friends
also I dont really like most girls anyways so its not about pulling

brutal pill to swallow, though idk what to name it, is the fact that since you are quiet now you'll probably face much more struggle getting any kind of social life or friends. i was like you before but rather than being quiet i was known as loud and obnoxious and annoying. i switched schools and now im friends with most people and they have no idea about my past. since you don't have any friends all ready and dont care about the girls in your school, if there is another one close by depending on ur age id suggest asking your parents to switch you. maybe say you're getting bullied recklessly or something but that might cause them to go to the school rather than just accepting your request. my parents dont care much so they just let me switch but i understand its different for everyone.

 

[271shouldabeenmore]

Sober, my social battery is extremely low. I do not feel like talking much, I do not want to initiate, and I burn out fast in social situations. On top of that I have high inhibition and ADHD, so even when there is an opening I freeze, overthink, or fail to push it forward.

pregab used to help with sociability and lowering inhib, but tolerance is starting. I do not want to build my whole social life around a chemical crutch that is already fading.

Main problem:

• very low baseline drive to socialize
• high inhib
• ADHD makes it harder to stay engaged and carry interactions
• once the drug effect weakens I revert hard

What I actually want:

• higher sober social battery
• lower inhibition
• to be able to talk / flirt / socialize without needing a drug

just dont, life is better off alone even if it doesnt seem like it, but if you do want to get better at socializing, maybe go to the gym and work out, compliment others about anything even if its hard. i do it and i look retarded but its helped my social battery alot

 

[TrueChanglite]

brutal pill to swallow, though idk what to name it, is the fact that since you are quiet now you'll probably face much more struggle getting any kind of social life or friends. i was like you before but rather than being quiet i was known as loud and obnoxious and annoying. i switched schools and now im friends with most people and they have no idea about my past. since you don't have any friends all ready and dont care about the girls in your school, if there is another one close by depending on ur age id suggest asking your parents to switch you. maybe say you're getting bullied recklessly or something but that might cause them to go to the school rather than just accepting your request. my parents dont care much so they just let me switch but i understand its different for everyone.

Im a senior in hs bro, no point in switching
but yeah I cant go through life like this
I want like not even many friends just 1 close one
anyways ur advice is kinda dogshit bc even if i did go to a new school I still wouldnt wanna talk to people

 

[TrueChanglite]

just dont, life is better off alone even if it doesnt seem like it, but if you do want to get better at socializing, maybe go to the gym and work out, compliment others about anything even if its hard. i do it and i look retarded but its helped my social battery alot

I was robbed of a NT life I feel lonely most days and I would rather off myself then compliment others or make small talk its just shallow and Id rather go in to my sets and leave

 

[KB_maxxer]

Sober, my social battery is extremely low. I do not feel like talking much, I do not want to initiate, and I burn out fast in social situations. On top of that I have high inhibition and ADHD, so even when there is an opening I freeze, overthink, or fail to push it forward.

pregab used to help with sociability and lowering inhib, but tolerance is starting. I do not want to build my whole social life around a chemical crutch that is already fading.

Main problem:

• very low baseline drive to socialize
• high inhib
• ADHD makes it harder to stay engaged and carry interactions
• once the drug effect weakens I revert hard

What I actually want:

• higher sober social battery
• lower inhibition
• to be able to talk / flirt / socialize without needing a drug

Talk nigga, literslly go and so random approaches and talk, go far away from your house so you wont cringe meeting these people every again