need advice: insecure about my ex dating my best friend

[gay retard]

i'm in a tough spot and could use some advice. my ex-girlfriend (let's call her emily) is now dating my best friend (let's call him alex), and it's messing with my head.

we ended things on good terms, but their relationship has triggered my insecurities. i can't help but compare myself to alex and worry i've been replaced.

being around them is uncomfortable. it reminds me of what we had. i'm afraid they talk about our past, which makes me feel exposed.

should i talk to alex about my feelings or focus on healing? any similar experiences or advice would help.

tl;dr: insecure about ex dating best friend. need advice on coping and preserving friendship.

 

[Deleted member 21735]

i will neve rhave an ex

 

[InSplit]

If my friend does that he is no longer my friend tbh. I dont know how the "values" goes in west but that is fucked up and you are saying it is your best friend lol.

 

[BoredPrince]

Time to break up with your friend too or start dating his ex