need advice on girl problem

[Deleted member 11336]

ok, so i met this gl chick, in the start she was into me like crazy and we fucked, i met her a couple times, but I got stupid and started becoming a semi simp and talking to her all day and showing high interest, cuz my coworker said that I should try to show high interest for once and see what happens, he swore that it would work.
But obv she lost abit of interest, since I showed too much interest.
Ive been trying to set dates to meet her, she lives 50 min away, but most of the time there is something else she gotta do.
I think thats because she thinks she can have me whenever since I showed too much intereset, that she now think she doesnt need to try. BUt fuck that,

my question is wtf do I do now, after screwing up and showing too much interest.
do I ignore her snaps for a couple days and after that say that I have found someone else and that she doesnt show as much interest as she used to so I moved on to somone else, or what, because she is actually mirin me, cuz i look like a god, and when I dont answer her messeages for a day she starts sending more, so I just want some tips so that I can get shit to the way they were, where I dont need to pursure for shit and she is chasing me like crazy again
anyone got experience with this? thx

 

[Deleted member 7753]

reply once per day for a week, if she suggest you meet up say you have other things planned (just like that, so she thinks you fuck other women) then schedule to meet up again. i highly recommend you dont see her again though, you catch feelings for a whore and youll have a lot worse things to worry about sooner than you realise.

 

[Deleted member 11336]

reply once per day for a week, if she suggest you meet up say you have other things planned (just like that, so she thinks you fuck other women) then schedule to meet up again. i highly recommend you dont see her again though, you catch feelings for a whore and youll have a lot worse things to worry about sooner than you realise.

if she asks why you dont respond to my snapchats, what do I say to that?

 

[Deleted member 7753]

if she asks why you dont respond to my snapchats, what do I say to that?

if she says that she thinks she has you hooked . tell the bitch you are busy and that you have other things going on

 

[Deleted member 11336]

if she says that she thinks she has you hooked . tell the bitch you are busy and that you have other things going on

yeah, thanks bro

 

[BigBiceps]

Simple, start showing the same minimum amount of interest you were showing originally and act like nothing happened prior.

 

[Deleted member 11336]

Simple, start showing the same minimum amount of interest you were showing originally and act like nothing happened prior.

Okay

 

[RAITEIII]

I wonder if low interest is a meme or not

 

[Zias]

I wonder if low interest is a meme or not

Low interest is not a meme, for various reasons. It is the way.

 

[RAITEIII]

Low interest is not a meme, for various reasons. It is the way.

But greycel would it make YOU lose interest if a perfect girl was showing high interest? I think it works the other way too...?

 

[Deleted member 11336]

But greycel would it make YOU lose interest if a perfect girl was showing high interest? I think it works the other way too...?

i figured it out dw

 

[vaninskybird]

But greycel would it make YOU lose interest if a perfect girl was showing high interest? I think it works the other way too...?

she wants what she cant have

 

[Deleted member 11336]

she wants what she cant have

yep

 

[Zias]

But greycel would it make YOU lose interest if a perfect girl was showing high interest? I think it works the other way too...?

Don't try to make a point when you use two different situations. OP isn't perfect either. Male and female pysche works different.

You really need to delve in female psyche to get answers to this. Women usually have a lot of options regarding men. They line up for women who are pretty. If a girl thinks she can have you whenever she wants she will treat you as such.

I'm very serious. I ruined intimacy with a model who was on the cover of fucking vogue because I showed too much interest.

Look at what this becky said to me the other week.