Need advice with situationship

[Saint]

So I’ve been going out with this girl 4 times for around 3 weeks. We don’t really text each other other than after the date we joke on text or before the date to confirm stuff. During the dates it’s amazing we have really fun and good time as we have good chemistry.

I haven’t slayed her yet due to inconvenience as we both live with our parents so I was thinking for the 5th date I get an airbnb. I met her on Tuesday it was chill but on Thursday she started to DNR me and left me on 33 hours delivered.

She added me to her close friends story on IG and when she responded she wasn’t dry tbh.

I’ve never make it clear to her that I desire her a lot but I genuinely think about her daily, it’s over for my braincells .

I met her on a dating app too which makes me think it’s over as she’s probs found a chad.

 

[Gobnull]

i'm not giving u any advice

 

[Saint]

i'm not giving u any advice

 

[Saint]

@Lefty Rankin unc I need help

@Swarthy Knight @Blackpillirony

 

[Lefty Rankin]

So I’ve been going out with this girl 4 times for around 3 weeks. We don’t really text each other other than after the date we joke on text or before the date to confirm stuff. During the dates it’s amazing we have really fun and good time as we have good chemistry.

I haven’t slayed her yet due to inconvenience as we both live with our parents so I was thinking for the 5th date I get an airbnb. I met her on Tuesday it was chill but on Thursday she started to DNR me and left me on 33 hours delivered.

She added me to her close friends story on IG and when she responded she wasn’t dry tbh.

I’ve never make it clear to her that I desire her a lot but I genuinely think about her daily, it’s over for my braincells .

I met her on a dating app too which makes me think it’s over as she’s probs found a chad.

I don't know man. I've never used social media.

 

[Saint]

So I’ve been going out with this girl 4 times for around 3 weeks. We don’t really text each other other than after the date we joke on text or before the date to confirm stuff. During the dates it’s amazing we have really fun and good time as we have good chemistry.

I haven’t slayed her yet due to inconvenience as we both live with our parents so I was thinking for the 5th date I get an airbnb. I met her on Tuesday it was chill but on Thursday she started to DNR me and left me on 33 hours delivered.

She added me to her close friends story on IG and when she responded she wasn’t dry tbh.

I’ve never make it clear to her that I desire her a lot but I genuinely think about her daily, it’s over for my braincells .

I met her on a dating app too which makes me think it’s over as she’s probs found a chad.

Bump

 

[whatsamaxilla]

So I’ve been going out with this girl 4 times for around 3 weeks. We don’t really text each other other than after the date we joke on text or before the date to confirm stuff. During the dates it’s amazing we have really fun and good time as we have good chemistry.

I haven’t slayed her yet due to inconvenience as we both live with our parents so I was thinking for the 5th date I get an airbnb. I met her on Tuesday it was chill but on Thursday she started to DNR me and left me on 33 hours delivered.

She added me to her close friends story on IG and when she responded she wasn’t dry tbh.

I’ve never make it clear to her that I desire her a lot but I genuinely think about her daily, it’s over for my braincells .

I met her on a dating app too which makes me think it’s over as she’s probs found a chad.

Give her clearer signals that you desire her

 

[Saint]

Give her clearer signals that you desire her

idk if this would be the move.

 

[whatsamaxilla]

idk if this would be the move.

Idk then man i can hardly talk to girls anyway lmao

 

[Saint]

Bump

 

[Saint]

@Sayori @formershortcel @notagreycell @Sub5kang
Tagging online niggas

 

[notagreycell]

So I’ve been going out with this girl 4 times for around 3 weeks. We don’t really text each other other than after the date we joke on text or before the date to confirm stuff. During the dates it’s amazing we have really fun and good time as we have good chemistry.

I haven’t slayed her yet due to inconvenience as we both live with our parents so I was thinking for the 5th date I get an airbnb. I met her on Tuesday it was chill but on Thursday she started to DNR me and left me on 33 hours delivered.

She added me to her close friends story on IG and when she responded she wasn’t dry tbh.

I’ve never make it clear to her that I desire her a lot but I genuinely think about her daily, it’s over for my braincells .

I met her on a dating app too which makes me think it’s over as she’s probs found a chad.

Nigga asking incels for advice

 

[notagreycell]

So I’ve been going out with this girl 4 times for around 3 weeks. We don’t really text each other other than after the date we joke on text or before the date to confirm stuff. During the dates it’s amazing we have really fun and good time as we have good chemistry.

I haven’t slayed her yet due to inconvenience as we both live with our parents so I was thinking for the 5th date I get an airbnb. I met her on Tuesday it was chill but on Thursday she started to DNR me and left me on 33 hours delivered.

She added me to her close friends story on IG and when she responded she wasn’t dry tbh.

I’ve never make it clear to her that I desire her a lot but I genuinely think about her daily, it’s over for my braincells .

I met her on a dating app too which makes me think it’s over as she’s probs found a chad.

But honestly not slaying after the 3rd date is a red flag you should probably let her go its over

 

[Sub5kang]

I met her on a dating app too which makes me think it’s over as she’s probs found a chad.

Might be over

 

[suv]

nigga dont get a fucking airbnb immediately,otherwise its smarter to avoid contact with foids since they are dangerous

 

[ltn gooner]

So I’ve been going out with this girl 4 times for around 3 weeks. We don’t really text each other other than after the date we joke on text or before the date to confirm stuff. During the dates it’s amazing we have really fun and good time as we have good chemistry.

I haven’t slayed her yet due to inconvenience as we both live with our parents so I was thinking for the 5th date I get an airbnb. I met her on Tuesday it was chill but on Thursday she started to DNR me and left me on 33 hours delivered.

She added me to her close friends story on IG and when she responded she wasn’t dry tbh.

I’ve never make it clear to her that I desire her a lot but I genuinely think about her daily, it’s over for my braincells .

I met her on a dating app too which makes me think it’s over as she’s probs found a chad.

Make yo intentions clear and clear your mind. Prepare for the worst thing possible (she dumbs you and gets fucked by chad). After that you'll slay or you'll get dumbed by her. Id say its 70/30 chance for you to slay bcs its the 5th date.

 

[Saint]

Might be over

But honestly not slaying after the 3rd date is a red flag you should probably let her go its over

Ama call her today and tell her I’ve got an apartment. I won’t make it clear tho.We’ll see how it goes

 

[Saint]

Make yo intentions clear and clear your mind. Prepare for the worst thing possible (she dumbs you and gets fucked by chad). After that you'll slay or you'll get dumbed by her. Id say its 70/30 chance for you to slay bcs its the 5th date.

Yep I’ll let you know how it goes. I’m prepared for the worst tbh

 

[ltn gooner]

Yep I’ll let you know how it goes. I’m prepared for the worst tbh

Tag me when you make the update thread . And don't worry so much. In the end, shes only another human being and there are many other fish in the water . Ltngooner out

 

[Saint]

Tag me when you make the update thread . And don't worry so much. In the end, shes only another human being and there are many other fish in the water . Ltngooner out

I will defo update you, I love you brother

 

[ltn gooner]

I will defo update you, I love you brother

Love you too brodie, keep yo head up

 

[Saint]

Love you too brodie, keep yo head up

 

[notagreycell]

Yep I’ll let you know how it goes. I’m prepared for the worst tbh

Honestly if you wanna become a slayer you should be prepared for rejections and unsuccessful attempts so dont worry you should maybe pursue her for now if it doesn't workout then find someone else you also shouldn't only focus on 1 person if you wanna slay

 

[Blackpillirony]

@Lefty Rankin unc I need help

@Swarthy Knight @Blackpillirony

Try to write her something super romantic about how you think about her most of the time and that you've loved going in dates with her.

 

[nbcoi]

Just ssay that you wanna fuck she is gonna fall

 

[Saint]

Try to write her something super romantic about how you think about her most of the time and that you've loved going in dates with her.

that would NOT work bro

 

[Saint]

Love you too brodie, keep yo head up

Honestly if you wanna become a slayer you should be prepared for rejections and unsuccessful attempts so dont worry you should maybe pursue her for now if it doesn't workout then find someone else you also shouldn't only focus on 1 person if you wanna slay

Try to write her something super romantic about how you think about her most of the time and that you've loved going in dates with her.

update:

I called her around half an hour ago she still has me on delivered from 22 hours ago.

She picks up
I say “yo wsp how you doing”
She says “hi I’m doing fine wbu”
I say “I’m doing well doing well, so you free Tuesday”
She “no I’m working”
I “ok so what day you free”
She “I’m free Thursday I think”
I “ok perfect, I’ve got this apartment near (x) place, meet me at (x).
I didn’t say meet me at my apartment it’s bit wierd I said meet me at (x).
She “mhmm”
I “ok meet me Thursday then”
She “I might be free Thursday”
I “ok lemme know”
Her “ok I’ll let you know”
I “ok bye”
Her “bye”

I think it’s over totally. Tbh I’m not that sad because I’d rather know it’s over than think there’s hope. I was expecting the worst outcome anyways. This time when we called she seemed abit off as well.

She usually messages me a day before or on the day of the dates to confirm. I never confirm with her she always confirms with me. So if she doesn’t confirm by Wednesday or on the day I’ll know it’s over 100%.

She still has me on delivered it’s been around 23 hours now .

 

[chadtears88]

So I’ve been going out with this girl 4 times for around 3 weeks. We don’t really text each other other than after the date we joke on text or before the date to confirm stuff. During the dates it’s amazing we have really fun and good time as we have good chemistry.

I haven’t slayed her yet due to inconvenience as we both live with our parents so I was thinking for the 5th date I get an airbnb. I met her on Tuesday it was chill but on Thursday she started to DNR me and left me on 33 hours delivered.

She added me to her close friends story on IG and when she responded she wasn’t dry tbh.

I’ve never make it clear to her that I desire her a lot but I genuinely think about her daily, it’s over for my braincells .

I met her on a dating app too which makes me think it’s over as she’s probs found a chad.

She probably just got another nigga just get a better bitch they're worthless anyways

 

[ltn gooner]

update:

I called her around half an hour ago she still has me on delivered from 22 hours ago.

She picks up
I say “yo wsp how you doing”
She says “hi I’m doing fine wbu”
I say “I’m doing well doing well, so you free Tuesday”
She “no I’m working”
I “ok so what day you free”
She “I’m free Thursday I think”
I “ok perfect, I’ve got this apartment near (x) place, meet me at (x).
I didn’t say meet me at my apartment it’s bit wierd I said meet me at (x).
She “mhmm”
I “ok meet me Thursday then”
She “I might be free Thursday”
I “ok lemme know”
Her “ok I’ll let you know”
I “ok bye”
Her “bye”

I think it’s over totally. Tbh I’m not that sad because I’d rather know it’s over than think there’s hope. I was expecting the worst outcome anyways. This time when we called she seemed abit off as well.

She usually messages me a day before or on the day of the dates to confirm. I never confirm with her she always confirms with me. So if she doesn’t confirm by Wednesday or on the day I’ll know it’s over 100%.

She still has me on delivered it’s been around 23 hours now .

Its prob over. If you can't cancel the bnb, just hoste a house Party there and slay some foid there

 

[Saint]

She probably just got another nigga just get a better bitch they're worthless anyways

Yep , what’s sad is that I got too emotionally invested in her because I used to not get any female attention. And when I did get female attention they’d be whores from the club

 

[Saint]

Its prob over. If you can't cancel the bnb, just hoste a house Party there and slay some foid there

I don’t even have an Airbnb . I just larped it.
If she does somehow confirm then I’ll book it a day before

 

[ltn gooner]

I don’t even have an Airbnb . I just larped it.
If she does somehow confirm then I’ll book it a day before

Smart move ngl, gotta take notes here . Im sorry tho, its prob over but u can prob slay some other foid in no time

 

[Saint]

Smart move ngl, gotta take notes here . Im sorry tho, its prob over but u can prob slay some other foid in no time

Thank you bhai I appreciate your support. I’m just mad at myself for spending quite abit on the dates and being very very emotionally invested in her. I never made it clear to her as well JFL. I feel like my retarded ass will call her again next week or smth and ask her to hang out because I left my cigarettes with her and she promised she won’t smoke them

 

[Saint]

@Wuzzdio

 

[Wuzzdio]

I don’t have any advice but bump

@Wuzzdio

 

[ltn gooner]

Thank you bhai I appreciate your support. I’m just mad at myself for spending quite abit on the dates and being very very emotionally invested in her. I never made it clear to her as well JFL. I feel like my retarded ass will call her again next week or smth and ask her to hang out because I left my cigarettes with her and she promised she won’t smoke them

Don't be mad at yourself tho, you made that experience and learned your lesson . Try to meet up w her and get yo cigaretts back. Then you can communicate your intensions to her to clear it all up. Shes probably gonna reject you but atleast you made sure that you later don't regret not making your intensions clear.

 

[Saint]

Don't be mad at yourself tho, you made that experience and learned your lesson . Try to meet up w her and get yo cigaretts back. Then you can communicate your intensions to her to clear it all up. Shes probably gonna reject you but atleast you made sure that you later don't regret not making your intensions clear.

Thanks bhai I’ll defo let you know what happens next.

 

[notagreycell]

update:

I called her around half an hour ago she still has me on delivered from 22 hours ago.

She picks up
I say “yo wsp how you doing”
She says “hi I’m doing fine wbu”
I say “I’m doing well doing well, so you free Tuesday”
She “no I’m working”
I “ok so what day you free”
She “I’m free Thursday I think”
I “ok perfect, I’ve got this apartment near (x) place, meet me at (x).
I didn’t say meet me at my apartment it’s bit wierd I said meet me at (x).
She “mhmm”
I “ok meet me Thursday then”
She “I might be free Thursday”
I “ok lemme know”
Her “ok I’ll let you know”
I “ok bye”
Her “bye”

I think it’s over totally. Tbh I’m not that sad because I’d rather know it’s over than think there’s hope. I was expecting the worst outcome anyways. This time when we called she seemed abit off as well.

She usually messages me a day before or on the day of the dates to confirm. I never confirm with her she always confirms with me. So if she doesn’t confirm by Wednesday or on the day I’ll know it’s over 100%.

She still has me on delivered it’s been around 23 hours now .

She is ghosting you and when she said "Tuesday i think" that literally gave it off she is probably gonna make another excuse on Tuesday and ghost you you probably should stop pursuing her and find another foid, its ovER

 

[Saint]

She is ghosting you and when she said "Tuesday i think" that literally gave it off she is probably gonna make another excuse at Tuesday and ghost you you probably should stop pursuing her and find another foid, its ovER

Yep it’s over I just know but I’ve accepted. I’m not sad but I feel a sense of relief because I know the ending. I looked through her ig following she has like 300 and not a single male comes close to mogging me in SMV or facially. Maybe at the end of the day it’s about familiarity and not looks . I had good times with her that made me believe she was the one and I knew her for a couple of weeks JFL. For example, we sat in a park bench and she had her head on my lap and she was just talking and we then kissed. It’s fine tho because we live and we learn. It’s over buddy boyos. This whole experience made me realise I need to fix my own mental state and looksmax even further so then I can reject women and become stone cold volcel

 

[Saint]

Yep it’s over I just know but I’ve accepted. I’m not sad but I feel a sense of relief because I know the ending. I looked through her ig following she has like 300 and not a single male comes close to mogging me in SMV or facially. Maybe at the end of the day it’s about familiarity and not looks . I had good times with her that made me believe she was the one and I knew her for a couple of weeks JFL. For example, we sat in a park bench and she had her head on my lap and she was just talking and we then kissed. It’s fine tho because we live and we learn. It’s over buddy boyos. This whole experience made me realise I need to fix my own mental state and looksmax even further so then I can reject women and become stone cold volcel

Sorry for long yap

 

[vortex878]

So I’ve been going out with this girl 4 times for around 3 weeks. We don’t really text each other other than after the date we joke on text or before the date to confirm stuff. During the dates it’s amazing we have really fun and good time as we have good chemistry.

I haven’t slayed her yet due to inconvenience as we both live with our parents so I was thinking for the 5th date I get an airbnb. I met her on Tuesday it was chill but on Thursday she started to DNR me and left me on 33 hours delivered.

She added me to her close friends story on IG and when she responded she wasn’t dry tbh.

I’ve never make it clear to her that I desire her a lot but I genuinely think about her daily, it’s over for my braincells .

I met her on a dating app too which makes me think it’s over as she’s probs found a chad.

fuck you

 

[notagreycell]

Yep it’s over I just know but I’ve accepted. I’m not sad but I feel a sense of relief because I know the ending. I looked through her ig following she has like 300 and not a single male comes close to mogging me in SMV or facially. Maybe at the end of the day it’s about familiarity and not looks . I had good times with her that made me believe she was the one and I knew her for a couple of weeks JFL. For example, we sat in a park bench and she had her head on my lap and she was just talking and we then kissed. It’s fine tho because we live and we learn. It’s over buddy boyos. This whole experience made me realise I need to fix my own mental state and looksmax even further so then I can reject women and become stone cold volcel

Maybe you were too desperate or pushing it but anyways it's over buddy boyo find another becky and slay her but honestly maybe try another app made specifically for hooking up if you really wanna slay

 

[Saint]

fuck you

Nooo don’t fuck me

 

[vortex878]

Nooo don’t fuck me

oh since you asked nicely okay

 

[Saint]

Maybe you were too desperate or pushing it but anyways it's over buddy boyo find another becky and slay her but honestly maybe try another app made specifically for hooking up if you really wanna slay

I’ve slayed a couple girls in the past from clubs or hookups. I ghost them after and I don’t feel anything inside of me. When I was having dates with this girl I felt genuine pure happiness even though the maximum I’d get was a 1 min kiss. It was fun while it lasted ig

 

[notagreycell]

I’ve slayed a couple girls in the past from clubs or hookups. I ghost them after and I don’t feel anything inside of me. When I was having dates with this girl I felt genuine pure happiness even though the maximum I’d get was a 1 min kiss. It was fun while it lasted ig

You want an ltr?

 

[Saint]

You want an ltr?

Yes but at the same time I want to only slay her. I’m sensitive whilst theyrneveil

 

[notagreycell]

Yes but at the same time I want to only slay her. I’m sensitive whilst theyrneveil

Ah then you're asking the wrong guy for advice because im 16 incel

 

[iqletandrew73]

read through every post above and my advice:
don't get too attached for girls you meet from dating apps, if you can't get to know her by the 3rd date and you don't feel like she likes you back (trust your guts) just move on onto the next one and try again. You won't meet your wife on Tinder, she might just go out with you for free food or to waste time (she might be bored). Don't take this granted, maybe she's just insecure, likes you and don't want to rush it but yh if you're the one who keeps the conversations going and she doesn't take interest in you on her own just move on.
Good luck tho g, wish you all the luck, love

 

[Swarthy Knight]

Just keep pushing. And press her about it too (for leaving you on read). If she hung out with you that many times then clearly she has interest.

Sometimes foids just go cold for a while for no apparent reason (even as a Chadfish I do this quite often). Don't always assume the worst