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So recently I’ve met this one girl and I’ve been going out with her this week twice and last week once so 3 times in total.
I haven’t slayed because we live far away and at parents houses but I’ve practically done everything else.
During the dates we have a really good fun time and we are always talking about stuff so it’s not dry at all.
On Thursday I went out with her and I made an org thread saying where to go and I eventually found a nice restaurant, we were meant to go to a bar before but I was half an hour late whilst she waited for me at the train station
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I’ve never been out with a girl more than once. I usually go out with a girl and then DNR her after first date because she’s insufferable or I would have a 1 night stand from club or something. This is my first time going out with a girl that is nice more than once.
the thing is we don’t really text or call which I don’t really mind at all because we’re both busy and I’ve noticed having a good time with a girl irl and then DNR and both not texting means you’ll miss each other for the next time.
There’s a lot of things that make me believe she’s really into me too like how we were sitting on the bench and she put her head on my lap and was talking to me and then kissed. Or when we were eating ice cream I ate hers and she ate mine. Idk nigga this is cringe asf but it’s nice in the moment
Also in all the dates im always always “toxic” idk how to describe it. Like I always tell her how she’s wrong and one time we’re at the river Thames and tell her how if she’s drowning I’d be scrolling on reels and then maybe call the ambulance. She knows it’s jokes and just laughs.
What should I do moving forward
I haven’t slayed because we live far away and at parents houses but I’ve practically done everything else.
During the dates we have a really good fun time and we are always talking about stuff so it’s not dry at all.
On Thursday I went out with her and I made an org thread saying where to go and I eventually found a nice restaurant, we were meant to go to a bar before but I was half an hour late whilst she waited for me at the train station
. I’ve never been out with a girl more than once. I usually go out with a girl and then DNR her after first date because she’s insufferable or I would have a 1 night stand from club or something. This is my first time going out with a girl that is nice more than once.
the thing is we don’t really text or call which I don’t really mind at all because we’re both busy and I’ve noticed having a good time with a girl irl and then DNR and both not texting means you’ll miss each other for the next time.
There’s a lot of things that make me believe she’s really into me too like how we were sitting on the bench and she put her head on my lap and was talking to me and then kissed. Or when we were eating ice cream I ate hers and she ate mine. Idk nigga this is cringe asf but it’s nice in the moment
Also in all the dates im always always “toxic” idk how to describe it. Like I always tell her how she’s wrong and one time we’re at the river Thames and tell her how if she’s drowning I’d be scrolling on reels and then maybe call the ambulance. She knows it’s jokes and just laughs.
What should I do moving forward
Hopefully your date goes well and i wish you two a great future 
