NEED HELP.GIRLFRIEND CHIMPING OUT CUZ I WONT LET HER GO TO A PARTY

[7nclave]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

 

[theonlytallirish]

niggatron……

 

[iabsolvenico]

Asking org for relationship advice

 

[Vannx]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

break up

 

[7nclave]

Asking org for relationship advice

there are some experienced guys on here bro

 

[7nclave]

break up

i’m very much contemplating it

 

[Vannx]

i’m very much contemplating it

do it its just gna get worse from there shes for the strreet

 

[2s2f]

your girlfriend sounds like a bitch

 

[mewzilla]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

if youve set up a clear boundary about parties, and if you've upheld that boundary previously to this, ask to meet up with her

if shes drunk or something then she isnt thinking clearly and theres no reason to do anything drastic, if she isnt drunk and is still insisting on going to the party, remind her of the boundary you guys set up.

if she still goes, blames you for her not going, or worse, goes behind your back, break up.

 

[loneiqlet]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

 

[7nclave]

if youve set up a clear boundary about parties, and if you've upheld that boundary previously to this, ask to meet up with her

if shes drunk or something then she isnt thinking clearly and theres no reason to do anything drastic, if she isnt drunk and is still insisting on going to the party, remind her of the boundary you guys set up.

if she still goes or worse, goes behind her back, break up.

thank you,i been thinking this too if she goes i’m gonna uphold it
she isn’t drunk and ive upheld the boundary but now for her she doesn’t want to so it’s unfair

 

[mewzilla]

thank you,i been thinking this too if she goes i’m gonna uphold it
she isn’t drunk and ive upheld the boundary but now for her she doesn’t want to so it’s unfair

when is the party

if it isnt tomorrow, let her think about it for a day then ask her if she still thinks about going.
this may seem like a stupid thing to break up about, but if she's willing to go against something she's agreed to in a relationship, theres no reason for her not to start breaking other boundaries.

you'll feel like shit after, you'll feel like it was your fault, but give it a week or two and you'll realise it was the right choice. (if you do end up breaking up with her.)

 

[jayk11x3]

Keep getting cucked or end this imaginary "relationship"

 

[Divineincel]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

You have to beat her, it’s just the way it is, I’m just the messenger

 

[7nclave]

You have to beat, it’s just the way it is, I’m just the messenger

beat her?

 

[Joeseminate]

Lowk need to beat her up and dick her down, bitch needs to shut up

 

[miserycel]

break up

she’s sounds like a dumb non-sentient whore

 

[7nclave]

(if you do end up breaking up with her.)

i will,i’m ready for a new chapter in my life anyways
if she chooses to go it shows how much she values our relationship anyways

 

[Divineincel]

beat her?

Beat her, I mean she started the fight, you are just defending yourself

 

[7nclave]

Lowk need to beat her up and dick her down, bitch needs to shut up

i already have,and she did shut up.
until her idiot friend messaged her again crying when she said she’s not going

 

[7nclave]

Beat her, I mean she started the fight, you are just defending yourself

i have,should i make a thread on when i did?
it was crazy

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

A party should never be this big of a deal, I'd be worried with this behavior and start looking for a new girl

If this happens year one, she will act up worse later

 

[7nclave]

A party should never be this big of a deal, I'd be worried with this behavior and start looking for a new girl

If this happens year one, she will act up worse later

this isn’t even year one,we been on and off a lot for 4 years
as i said she previously never let me go to a party so this is a double standard which i will adress
she really wants to go but doesn’t want to lose me so i told her to make her decision and i was sticking firm to it