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I know this might sound stupid but since my "ascension", I realized I have no real idea how to talk to girls in a normal way.
Before all this, I was practically invisible to women. Now, they look at me, talk to me, DM me. And yet, I feel like a robot in every interaction. I feel like my social skills are still stuck post ascension and my looks just dont match them.
Onto the main reason why i wrote this thread.
Recently, I was talking to this MTB (typical lightskin girl). Things were going alright. Casual flirting, decent vibes, etc. But then I reposted another girl on TikTok didn’t even think much of it since obviously ive never been in this type of situation before.
She saw it. Got mad. Blocked me on everything. Told all of her friends to start a hate train on me meanwhile i was still confused on why she blocked me and didnt give me any context. I didn’t understand why she reacted that strongly. I soon figured it out as one of my friends (mutual) had told me. So I tried to apologize in person.
Heres the main problem, I have some kind of issue I don’t really understand things like sympathy or guilt the way I’m supposed to. I know what to say logically, but it never feels real to me And i feel like ive been this way my entire life even as a kid.
okay so back on track, I just stood there saying “I’m sorry” over and over. in a monotone deadpan voice. No emotion. she walked off angrily. I didn’t know what to do. It’s like I was trying to play a role I’d never rehearsed. Or like i was trying to present infront of a class on a topic that i dont give a fuck about.
Anyways this keeps happening. I’m not trying to be cold or edgy, I genuinely don’t know what the right emotion or reaction is. I copy what I think a normal guy would do but it never hits right.
and its never genuine.
It feels like I unlocked the "looks" part of life but forgot to install the rest of the game personality, empathy, emotional IQ. I’m stuck at Level 1 socially.
Anyone else been through this post-ascension? How do you learn to feel or even fake the right social behavior if it doesn’t come naturally?
Not looking for pity. Just tired of ruining connections because I’m stuck in my head and can't process emotions the way I’m expected to. Ive ruined like 7 talking stages because of this im tired of going through that process again
. If anyone’s dealt with this, I’m open to hearing how you handled it. thanks for taking the time to read my lil rant
. responses are appreciated!
Before all this, I was practically invisible to women. Now, they look at me, talk to me, DM me. And yet, I feel like a robot in every interaction. I feel like my social skills are still stuck post ascension and my looks just dont match them.
Onto the main reason why i wrote this thread.
Recently, I was talking to this MTB (typical lightskin girl). Things were going alright. Casual flirting, decent vibes, etc. But then I reposted another girl on TikTok didn’t even think much of it since obviously ive never been in this type of situation before.
She saw it. Got mad. Blocked me on everything. Told all of her friends to start a hate train on me meanwhile i was still confused on why she blocked me and didnt give me any context. I didn’t understand why she reacted that strongly. I soon figured it out as one of my friends (mutual) had told me. So I tried to apologize in person.
Heres the main problem, I have some kind of issue I don’t really understand things like sympathy or guilt the way I’m supposed to. I know what to say logically, but it never feels real to me And i feel like ive been this way my entire life even as a kid.
okay so back on track, I just stood there saying “I’m sorry” over and over. in a monotone deadpan voice. No emotion. she walked off angrily. I didn’t know what to do. It’s like I was trying to play a role I’d never rehearsed. Or like i was trying to present infront of a class on a topic that i dont give a fuck about.
Anyways this keeps happening. I’m not trying to be cold or edgy, I genuinely don’t know what the right emotion or reaction is. I copy what I think a normal guy would do but it never hits right.
and its never genuine.
It feels like I unlocked the "looks" part of life but forgot to install the rest of the game personality, empathy, emotional IQ. I’m stuck at Level 1 socially.
Anyone else been through this post-ascension? How do you learn to feel or even fake the right social behavior if it doesn’t come naturally?
Not looking for pity. Just tired of ruining connections because I’m stuck in my head and can't process emotions the way I’m expected to. Ive ruined like 7 talking stages because of this im tired of going through that process again
. If anyone’s dealt with this, I’m open to hearing how you handled it. thanks for taking the time to read my lil rant. responses are appreciated!
