Need help with how to act around a girl

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She’s vry into me but still don’t want to Fuck this up.

On friday after school we’re gonna take the buss togheter to her place and then bake brownies N shit.

When i first meet her what do i do? I think i can handle small talk fairly well but i have No idea what to do when i meet her in city also should i try to look more approachable with clothing and shit?

 

[MrGlutton]

you can only help yourself Arvid

 

[Deleted]

you can only help yourself Arvid

True true choose life
@Swolepenisman

 

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Bump

 

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[Deleted member 3556]

Shit thread apply dark triad theory

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

Honestly this will never help. Social interactions are mostly novel situations and any advice you get here cannot cover the 10,000 different possibilities for these interactions. Maybe you could have something good to say when youre greeting, or a good topic outlined, but what do you do when the conversation changes? You have to be able to come up with stuff on the spot and reading online forums are no good for that

 

[sensen]

She’s vry into me but still don’t want to Fuck this up.

On friday after school we’re gonna take the buss togheter to her place and then bake brownies N shit.

When i first meet her what do i do? I think i can handle small talk fairly well but i have No idea what to do when i meet her in city also should i try to look more approachable with clothing and shit?

Just go into it not thinking about it. No expectations. Not thinking about the potential for sex or relationships or what it all means. Just act like you would around your homies except a bit more reserved. Be charming. Open her up. Make her feel comfortable in your presence. She will be intimidated because there's a chance you mog. Make her laugh. Everything will fall into place.

And lastly, enjoy those brownies.

 

[Deleted member 1813]

Bro don’t overthink and literally just go with the flow, literally impossible to plan an interaction it comes off as robotic. Girls are regular people just be normal theory and act like a regular person is legit

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Arvids nervous for his little date

 

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Arvids nervous for his little date

Indeed son its over

 

[MarstonAlloy]

Honestly this will never help. Social interactions are mostly novel situations and any advice you get here cannot cover the 10,000 different possibilities for these interactions. Maybe you could have something good to say when youre greeting, or a good topic outlined, but what do you do when the conversation changes? You have to be able to come up with stuff on the spot and reading online forums are no good for that

 

[Deleted]

Honestly this will never help. Social interactions are mostly novel situations and any advice you get here cannot cover the 10,000 different possibilities for these interactions. Maybe you could have something good to say when youre greeting, or a good topic outlined, but what do you do when the conversation changes? You have to be able to come up with stuff on the spot and reading online forums are no good for that

Ok but what to say when i first meet her tbh That’s the problem i think i might be able to hold a convo

 

[PetitusMeatus2]

Ok but what to say when i first meet her tbh That’s the problem i think i might be able to hold a convo

u guys are probably gonna be looking for each other at first so when u see her just be like "oh are you ____" with like a smile or something and hug her, then basic small talk and what not and the conversation should flow from there

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

Ok but what to say when i first meet her tbh That’s the problem i think i might be able to hold a convo

Just say “what’s up” , or whatever casual greeting you have in swedish and just talk, you dont need to say anything substantial or interesting, you just need to fill the void so that you arent silently standing around. She obviously is into you so she will talk, you wont have to come up with new stuff to say as she gives you bored one word responses. Just today I talked to some 50 year old lady for 10 minutes about nothing but the weather and shit like that, “oh yeah its cold..haha yeah its warming up though. The sun is shining now everyone is out, just a few more weeks and it will be spring..yeah it was pretty warm this winter..” 99% of conversations are like this, totally bland, you cant talk about anything serious with women and they dont care anyways, they just want to talk

 

[Wallenberg]

Wtf are these questions?

 

[Deleted]

Just say “what’s up” , or whatever casual greeting you have in swedish and just talk, you dont need to say anything substantial or interesting, you just need to fill the void so that you arent silently standing around. She obviously is into you so she will talk, you wont have to come up with new stuff to say as she gives you bored one word responses. Just today I talked to some 50 year old lady for 10 minutes about nothing but the weather and shit like that, “oh yeah its cold..haha yeah its warming up though. The sun is shining now everyone is out, just a few more weeks and it will be spring..yeah it was pretty warm this winter..” 99% of conversations are like this, totally bland, you cant talk about anything serious with women and they dont care anyways, they just want to talk

Im mirin how she applied an extra kilogram of makeup for today

 

[Gonthar]

Need help with how to act around a girl​

If you need help with this then it's over...

 

[Deleted member 8775]

She’s vry into me but still don’t want to Fuck this up.

On friday after school we’re gonna take the buss togheter to her place and then bake brownies N shit.

When i first meet her what do i do? I think i can handle small talk fairly well but i have No idea what to do when i meet her in city also should i try to look more approachable with clothing and shit?

Just be you. Seeming nt and energetic is my way to go when i go out and about. Im not exoverted much but usually i drink a Red Bull and watch some run aways of opry and put my pussy magnet mode on

 

[Deleted member 8775]

She’s vry into me but still don’t want to Fuck this up.

On friday after school we’re gonna take the buss togheter to her place and then bake brownies N shit.

When i first meet her what do i do? I think i can handle small talk fairly well but i have No idea what to do when i meet her in city also should i try to look more approachable with clothing and shit?

Sometimes i create a new personality on 1st dates. Its more entertaining when u become good at it ngl, its like a movie at that point