Need high IQ psychologist cels GTFIH

[.*my*.]

A while ago I was friendless and I felt very insecure about that. I decided enough was enough and I made some friends, and I felt very good about myself, but only temporarily. I noticed that despite the fact that I have many friends that care about me I was still unhappy. Even the fact that 3 of my major goals have been accomplished I still miss something, and that is a companion.

Could the lack of a long term relationship be the cause of my unhappiness? What if I still remain lonely even after finding a good woman?

 

[.*my*.]

Bumperino

 

[WadlowMaxxing]

because you achieved goals by what is perceived to be valued, not what you feel. you did so with ease as well. there's no rewarding feeling when it's so easy. challenge yourself. I have the same thing, tbh

 

[Deleted member 9274]

You achieved what you missed. Now you are fullfilled, but soon those goals will lack value, because you will get used to or have even bigger goals. Always set the bar high. Basically delusionmaxx with goals and actively reach them

 

[.*my*.]

because you achieved goals by what is perceived to be valued, not what you feel. you did so with ease as well. there's no rewarding feeling when it's so easy. challenge yourself. I have the same thing, tbh

Making friends was challenging, gaining muscle mass was challenging, making money was challenging. What do you want me to do, walk on coals?

 

[Deleted member 5656]

it wasn't the lack of validation from friends that made you feel inferior but rather your lack of validation from yourself. you could have all the friends in the world but if you keep abiding by the ridiculous autist standards here and telling yourself you're not good enough for not fitting them of course you won't be happy.

 

[Deleted member 9274]

Just read the whole post tbh, but you need to 'self love'. People will call it bluepilled cope, but otherwise u will never be happy. Its a step to acceptence

 

[.*my*.]

it wasn't the lack of validation from friends that made you feel inferior but rather your lack of validation from yourself. you could have all the friends in the world but if you keep abiding by the ridiculous autist standards here and telling yourself you're not good enough for not fitting them of course you won't be happy.

It’s not that I don’t feel good enough, although these thoughts come from time to time, the problem is that having friends didn’t make me a lot happier. Sure it probably stopped me from committing suicide, but now that I know that I can make friends I realized that I don’t even need friends to be honest, I’m just focused on my own shit, but I feel lonely sometimes and that’s where I suspect a woman could solve my problem.

 

[Deleted member 9274]

It’s not that I don’t feel good enough, although these thoughts come from time to time, the problem is that having friends didn’t make me a lot happier. Sure it probably stopped me from committing suicide, but now that I know that I can make friends I realized that I don’t even need friends to be honest, I’m just focused on my own shit, but I feel lonely sometimes and that’s where I suspect a woman could solve my problem.

Ur right. U value women and feel empty when you dont have one. If u get one the feeling will go away, but will be replaced by something else if you dont accept the position ur in

 

[.*my*.]

Ur right. U value women and feel empty when you dont have one. If u get one the feeling will go away, but will be replaced by something else if you dont accept the position ur in

You know what? I think I understand where that loneliness came from. Growing up I wasn’t close to any of my relatives besides the whore who turned me away from them. Like most people have aunts, uncles, grandpas, grandmas, cousins etc. I didn’t have that. That’s probably the cause of my loneliness and suffering.

 

[.*my*.]

B

 

[.*my*.]

B

 

[.*my*.]

Bump

 

[Deleted member 9274]

You know what? I think I understand where that loneliness came from. Growing up I wasn’t close to any of my relatives besides the whore who turned me away from them. Like most people have aunts, uncles, grandpas, grandmas, cousins etc. I didn’t have that. That’s probably the cause of my loneliness and suffering.

Meditation is key. Deep down there is an underlying problem. It probably isnt women, but validation or something else. You need to find out yourself. Good luck

 

[Deleted member 5656]

It’s not that I don’t feel good enough, although these thoughts come from time to time, the problem is that having friends didn’t make me a lot happier. Sure it probably stopped me from committing suicide, but now that I know that I can make friends I realized that I don’t even need friends to be honest, I’m just focused on my own shit, but I feel lonely sometimes and that’s where I suspect a woman could solve my problem.

yeah you probably just need to get a gf then

it fixes everything pretty much