Need porn addiction/ fetish advice(any nofappers / ex-coomers)

[DawgyDawg]

So I'm currently 19 but when I was around 14-16, I had a really bad porn addiction where I would come home from school a jerk off every single day maybe even 3 times in one day. Throughout watching porn I started off with the vanilla stuff for awhile, then lead to anal then to gangbangs, bukkakes (still relatively normal), then started watching interracial porn (I'm a white guy), then cuckold/sissy porn, and then sph (my dick isn't even small).
During this time, I definitely had more anxiety and was more more high inhib. Most of these porn genre have to do with the watcher having sort of inferiority complex and getting off on it.
I know its bad. But since then I improved, I only jerk off like 5-10 times per month max. This also came with less anxiety and less inhib. Occasionally maybe like 3 sessions out of the 5-10, I go back to one those fetishes, and most of the time I feel guilty either right after or after some time passes. I want to quit porn whilst ridding of the fetishes.
Should I quit porn cold turkey (straight to nofap) OR jerk off to strictly normal porn like r/pawgs or something?

tldr: After prolonged usage of porn I acquired fetishes that I am ashamed of, I now use porn way less but still have get off to those same fetishes sometimes. Should i just jerk off to normal porn for a couple months then quit (to try and rewire the brain) or just quit cold turkey right now?

 

[Indeed]

When you do jerk off only watch straight vanilla porn, preferrably POV. In your mind imagine that you seduced this woman and you are fucking her. Repeat this thought to yourself. You got brainwashed into liking fucked up shit and you can brainwash yourself out of it

 

[Deleted member 14693]

Watch BDSM Porn where the women gets abused to get this cuck/inferior mindset out of your head.

 

[DawgyDawg]

When you do jerk off only watch straight vanilla porn, preferrably POV. In your mind imagine that you seduced this woman and you are fucking her. Repeat this thought to yourself. You got brainwashed into liking fucked up shit and you can brainwash yourself out of it

What I was thinking of doing, hope it works. Any idea how long it would take?

Watch BDSM Porn where the women gets abused to get this cuck/inferior mindset out of your head.

This is like the complete opposite of the fetishes, so man dominating women and bdsm porn seems like a good alternative to watch to rid of the old fetishes.

 

[2d v2]

just dont watch it

 

[Dragon5000]

cut off your dick

 

[lcberg04]

Preferably stop watching porn. I dont think you can completely remove these fetishes from you head if youre still visiting porn sites. Since every time you will visit one of these pages you will probably come across some type of fetish-porn since it often normalized by these sites.

 

[Smoke Fanboy]

I think its ok as long as you stay away from CP

 

[Deleted member 15669]

I think its ok as long as you stay away from CP

dont advocate for addictions

 

[Danish_Retard]

EasyPeasy

Painlessly quit pornography immediately, without willpower or any sense of deprivation or sacrifice.

easypeasymethod.org

Heard this should be good but I've never used it. I just stopped watching porn and only use imagination now. VR porn is by far the hardest to quit.

 

[PURE ARYAN GENETICS]

just go all in on the fetishes here are some more to keep you going: rimming, chastity, ballbusting, pegging, ruined orgasm

 

[White Swordsman]

Guys, I only ever watched vanilla shit like POV gifs and amateur, is there a reason I didn’t become this megacoomer with 15 fetishes like all the nofappers say? I have been a pretty big coomer too imo, so what kept me from experiencing this ”more fucked up shit as time goes on” phenomenon

Or am I just genetically superior so that my brain can’t be fried by the porn industry jfl

 

[HOLYFUARK]

Almost same experience here , i think decreasing frequency and having an orgasm to vanilla stuff is the way to go to rewire your brain , but bear in mind it will not be easy , i didnt feel completely satisfied to vanilla stuff

 

[DawgyDawg]

Preferably stop watching porn. I dont think you can completely remove these fetishes from you head if youre still visiting porn sites. Since every time you will visit one of these pages you will probably come across some type of fetish-porn since it often normalized by these sites.

Yea this is true. I feel like a lot of my fetishes even though are taboo and looked down upon but are featured on porn sites enough where you can accidentally run into them and relapse on them.

EasyPeasy

Painlessly quit pornography immediately, without willpower or any sense of deprivation or sacrifice.

easypeasymethod.org

Heard this should be good but I've never used it. I just stopped watching porn and only use imagination now. VR porn is by far the hardest to quit.

I actually have a VR and was curious the other day and used it the other day to watch VR porn. Definitely not at the point where I'm addicted to it (used it once for that) but I will definitely stop. I did not know it was more harmful then standard laptop screen/phone porn.

Guys, I only ever watched vanilla shit like POV gifs and amateur, is there a reason I didn’t become this megacoomer with 15 fetishes like all the nofappers say? I have been a pretty big coomer too imo, so what kept me from experiencing this ”more fucked up shit as time goes on” phenomenon

Or am I just genetically superior so that my brain can’t be fried by the porn industry jfl

When you first look into the fucked up shit you think you wouldn't like it but you end up liking it. I one of those type of people who gets curious and go down rabbit holes on topics for hours. I guess it was a mix of curiosity, horniness, and impressionable mind leading me to find satisfaction from the fetishes. As well as the positive reinforcement from ejaculating because of the dopamine boost.

Almost same experience here , i think decreasing frequency and having an orgasm to vanilla stuff is the way to go to rewire your brain , but bear in mind it will not be easy , i didnt feel completely satisfied to vanilla stuff

I feel like this experience is very common but depending on the fetishes can be embarrassing to talk about. I feel like only jerking off to vanilla porn at your horniest point during the week where you will literally get hard to anything. Only jerking off on occasions like these might help combat the not being completely satisfied with vanilla stuff.

 

[khvirgin]

Get on fin

 

[Danish_Retard]

I actually have a VR and was curious the other day and used it the other day to watch VR porn. Definitely not at the point where I'm addicted to it (used it once for that) but I will definitely stop. I did not know it was more harmful then standard laptop screen/phone porn.

You should stay away from it. Also, isn't it obvious that something that's 100 times more immersive than normal pornography will have a bigger impact on your brain?

When I watched VR porn I'd have an urge to watch it again for weeks after. I've not watched it for months now and the urge is mostly gone. It's best to not get the urge at all.

 

[Deleted member 795]

One day (on last september) I just decided to quit porn.
I never jerked off on a porn since then.

Buy a fleshlight and just try using imagination.
If you fell off again, do not get depressed, man up and try again

 

[thereallegend]

just quit cold turkey right now

You gave yourself the answer.

Your NoFap/Semen Retention journey awaits.

 

[Lygodactylus]

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You should stay away from it. Also, isn't it obvious that something that's 100 times more immersive than normal pornography will have a bigger impact on your brain?

When I watched VR porn I'd have an urge to watch it again for weeks after. I've not watched it for months now and the urge is mostly gone. It's best to not get the urge at all.

VR porn is a gift from the gods

 

[TrestIsBest]

So I'm currently 19 but when I was around 14-16, I had a really bad porn addiction where I would come home from school a jerk off every single day maybe even 3 times in one day. Throughout watching porn I started off with the vanilla stuff for awhile, then lead to anal then to gangbangs, bukkakes (still relatively normal), then started watching interracial porn (I'm a white guy), then cuckold/sissy porn, and then sph (my dick isn't even small).
During this time, I definitely had more anxiety and was more more high inhib. Most of these porn genre have to do with the watcher having sort of inferiority complex and getting off on it.
I know its bad. But since then I improved, I only jerk off like 5-10 times per month max. This also came with less anxiety and less inhib. Occasionally maybe like 3 sessions out of the 5-10, I go back to one those fetishes, and most of the time I feel guilty either right after or after some time passes. I want to quit porn whilst ridding of the fetishes.
Should I quit porn cold turkey (straight to nofap) OR jerk off to strictly normal porn like r/pawgs or something?

tldr: After prolonged usage of porn I acquired fetishes that I am ashamed of, I now use porn way less but still have get off to those same fetishes sometimes. Should i just jerk off to normal porn for a couple months then quit (to try and rewire the brain) or just quit cold turkey right now?

Ok you wanna know what helped me with excessive porn and fapping?

I nuked my estrogen with Letrozole for a couple of months (2-3, can't remember exactly). This almost deleted sexual desire which allowed me to abstain from porn and cooming easily. Definitely normalized my sexuality to a significant degree

 

[Chadethnic101]

Basically I used to have a college porn fetish, coz I never got laid at uni lol

Porn is really cucked really best to quite it entirely and fap to imagination or girls you wanna fuck

 

[coolguy1]

When you do jerk off only watch straight vanilla porn, preferrably POV. In your mind imagine that you seduced this woman and you are fucking her. Repeat this thought to yourself. You got brainwashed into liking fucked up shit and you can brainwash yourself out of it

This is porn addict cope, you shouldn’t watch porn at all but you’re too addicted so you are making things up to still watch porn.

OP what you need to do is keep masturbating but without porn. If you quit fapping too what will happen is that u’ll get really fucking horny and then start searching for shit on the interwebs and then bam ur fapping to porn. If u just masturbate whenever ur really horny, but to ur imagination instead of porn, it will be easy to quit porn.

 

[Ricochet]

Being busy is the most important thing for me. Gymmaxxing, bookmaxxing, workmaxxing, don't look at phone in bed. Start streaks

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

do other stuff so it isn't on ur mind 24/7

 

[reputation]

So I'm currently 19 but when I was around 14-16, I had a really bad porn addiction where I would come home from school a jerk off every single day maybe even 3 times in one day. Throughout watching porn I started off with the vanilla stuff for awhile, then lead to anal then to gangbangs, bukkakes (still relatively normal), then started watching interracial porn (I'm a white guy), then cuckold/sissy porn, and then sph (my dick isn't even small).
During this time, I definitely had more anxiety and was more more high inhib. Most of these porn genre have to do with the watcher having sort of inferiority complex and getting off on it.
I know its bad. But since then I improved, I only jerk off like 5-10 times per month max. This also came with less anxiety and less inhib. Occasionally maybe like 3 sessions out of the 5-10, I go back to one those fetishes, and most of the time I feel guilty either right after or after some time passes. I want to quit porn whilst ridding of the fetishes.
Should I quit porn cold turkey (straight to nofap) OR jerk off to strictly normal porn like r/pawgs or something?

tldr: After prolonged usage of porn I acquired fetishes that I am ashamed of, I now use porn way less but still have get off to those same fetishes sometimes. Should i just jerk off to normal porn for a couple months then quit (to try and rewire the brain) or just quit cold turkey right now?

If you want to ascend with a girl then it doesn't even matter and if you don't want to ascend either then shift your mind into something cool and stick to it