need relationship advice

[iblamealen]

So, a few months ago I met this girl online, and we started talking. At that time, she seemed to really like me. She would call and text me all day, constantly sending me reels, snaps, and messages. However, I was talking to another girl back then, so I friend-zoned her.

Later, we coincidentally ended up taking admission to the same university. Since then, we've been hanging out a lot . We go for lunch, dinner, shopping, walks, and spend a lot of time together.

The thing that confused me is that I found out she's also talking to another guy who lives around 1,000 miles away in a different state. She'll even skip classes to spend the whole day with me, but as soon as we both get home, she barely texts or calls me anymore like she used to. I happened to see her phone and noticed that she's texting and calling this other guy once she's back home.

My question is: do I have a better chance than that guy, or should I just move on and find someone else? I also think she has feelings for him, while she probably sees me as just a friend now.

he's wealthy, has a very muscular physique, is a professional MMA fighter, and she's into that kind of guy—someone who's muscular and can fight.

so what you all think I should do? Any suggestions?

 

[TunisianLTN]

Just leave her alone and find urself a new girl

 

[cpedy]

Idk bro just keep talking to her if she prob just keeping you around as a backup or she just sees you as a friend and also why would you friendzone her and not just talk to both girls lol

 

[cpedy]

Just leave her alone and find urself a new girl

Yeah he just gonna end up being orbit cuck

 

[vexd]

Just leave her be
say your wishes and move on and find a new girl

 

[vexd]

may this luck never find me

 

[WilhelmThyWizard]

take halotestin, genetics matter more in a fight then training

 

[iblamealen]

Just leave her alone and find urself a new girl

i already have a gf but because of uni i am unable to see her every day and with in few months she is moving to germany so thats why i am planning for backup

 

[thodian]

hit her.

 

[iblamealen]

Idk bro just keep talking to her if she prob just keeping you around as a backup or she just sees you as a friend and also why would you friendzone her and not just talk to both girls lol

i was retarded back then i thought she is just someonline bih that i would never meet irl so no point in talking to her

 

[iblamealen]

take halotestin, genetics matter more in a fight then training

he is a manlet i can kill him 1 on 1 but he has medals trophies and shi

 

[WilhelmThyWizard]

he is a manlet i can kill him 1 on 1 but he has medals trophies and shi

whats the weight difference, wish you luck in murdering him and conquiering thee foid

 

[iblamealen]

Just leave her be
say your wishes and move on and find a new girl

she is not letting me leave as well . from few days i try my best to ignore her and leave uni asap without seeing her . but then she would find me somehow and take me with her on lunch shopping etc

 

[iblamealen]

whats the weight difference, wish you luck in murdering him and conquiering thee foid

i am 72kg 6'1 he is 53 kg 5'6

 

[vexd]

she is not letting me leave as well . from few days i try my best to ignore her and leave uni asap without seeing her . but then she would find me somehow and take me with her on lunch shopping etc

thats called lovebombing that's not love she just wants your attention without being your gf because your not chad for her
speak to her tell her its done and dont be a cuck Orr it will punch you in the stomach later on

 

[cpedy]

i was retarded back then i thought she is just someonline bih that i would never meet irl so no point in talking to her

Just stay friends with her now don’t focus on her lol get some bitches

 

[vexd]

whats the weight difference, wish you luck in murdering him and conquiering thee foid

fighting a fellow brother for a evil foid roastie
speaks volumes

 

[iblamealen]

y

thats called lovebombing that's not love she just wants your attention without being your gf because your not chad for her
speak to her tell her its done and dont be a cuck Orr it will punch you in the stomach later on

yeah that's what i was thinking like she is using me should i talk to her and make it clear that either we are dating or not . or i just ghost her without saying anything

 

[arkzy7]

So, a few months ago I met this girl online, and we started talking. At that time, she seemed to really like me. She would call and text me all day, constantly sending me reels, snaps, and messages. However, I was talking to another girl back then, so I friend-zoned her.

Later, we coincidentally ended up taking admission to the same university. Since then, we've been hanging out a lot . We go for lunch, dinner, shopping, walks, and spend a lot of time together.

The thing that confused me is that I found out she's also talking to another guy who lives around 1,000 miles away in a different state. She'll even skip classes to spend the whole day with me, but as soon as we both get home, she barely texts or calls me anymore like she used to. I happened to see her phone and noticed that she's texting and calling this other guy once she's back home.

My question is: do I have a better chance than that guy, or should I just move on and find someone else? I also think she has feelings for him, while she probably sees me as just a friend now.

he's wealthy, has a very muscular physique, is a professional MMA fighter, and she's into that kind of guy—someone who's muscular and can fight.

so what you all think I should do? Any suggestions?

Jesus Christ man these foids r fucking evil

 

[arkzy7]

i am 72kg 6'1 he is 53 kg 5'6

Same stats as me twin

 

[arkzy7]

So, a few months ago I met this girl online, and we started talking. At that time, she seemed to really like me. She would call and text me all day, constantly sending me reels, snaps, and messages. However, I was talking to another girl back then, so I friend-zoned her.

Later, we coincidentally ended up taking admission to the same university. Since then, we've been hanging out a lot . We go for lunch, dinner, shopping, walks, and spend a lot of time together.

The thing that confused me is that I found out she's also talking to another guy who lives around 1,000 miles away in a different state. She'll even skip classes to spend the whole day with me, but as soon as we both get home, she barely texts or calls me anymore like she used to. I happened to see her phone and noticed that she's texting and calling this other guy once she's back home.

My question is: do I have a better chance than that guy, or should I just move on and find someone else? I also think she has feelings for him, while she probably sees me as just a friend now.

he's wealthy, has a very muscular physique, is a professional MMA fighter, and she's into that kind of guy—someone who's muscular and can fight.

so what you all think I should do? Any suggestions?

Also the guy shes speaking to is a manlet i honestly dont know whats going on there, fuck these foids man they confusing asf

 

[vexd]

y

yeah that's what i was thinking like she is using me should i talk to her and make it clear that either we are dating or not . or i just ghost her without saying anything

talk to her and assert dominance and be cold to flip the script like you dont need her attention anymore she's lvoebombing you point it out be masculine and confident and tell her that its loveombign and that u dont find it cool that she's acting all chill with u but obsessing over another guy

 

[iblamealen]

Just stay friends with her now don’t focus on her lol get some bitches

staying friends is costing me lot of $$$$ should i still stay friends ?

 

[vexd]

staying friends is costing me lot of $$$$ should i still stay friends ?

like I say talk to her and be direct and cold

talk to her and assert dominance and be cold to flip the script like you dont need her attention anymore she's lvoebombing you point it out be masculine and confident and tell her that its loveombign and that u dont find it cool that she's acting all chill with u but obsessing over another guy

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[cpedy]

staying friends is costing me lot of $$$$ should i still stay friends ?

How is it costing you money?

 

[iblamealen]

Also the guy shes speaking to is a manlet i honestly dont know whats going on there, fuck these foids man they confusing a

How is it costing you money?

She's from a very wealthy family. Her father owns six companies and several gyms in our state. Whenever we go out, she only wants to eat at expensive restaurants or visit high-end places. And i end up paying the bill.

 

[arkzy7]

She's from a very wealthy family. Her father owns six companies and several gyms in our state. Whenever we go out, she only wants to eat at expensive restaurants or visit high-end places. And i end up paying the bill.

BRo dump that dumbass foid she dont deserve u wtf

 

[cpedy]

She's from a very wealthy family. Her father owns six companies and several gyms in our state. Whenever we go out, she only wants to eat at expensive restaurants or visit high-end places. And i end up paying the bill.

Bro just don’t pay for her like I’m not buying some bitch that isn’t even my girl dinner bro

 

[iblamealen]

talk to her and assert dominance and be cold to flip the script like you dont need her attention anymore she's lvoebombing you point it out be masculine and confident and tell her that its loveombign and that u dont find it cool that she's acting all chill with u but obsessing over another guy

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she doesnt know that i checked her phone and know about that other guy so she is acting all innocent and chill and when i asked her are u seeing or dating anyone she saidd nooo . then i asked about the guy and she said he is just a online friend . still next time we meet i will make everything clear between us . and i do have other options as well i dont even like her that much so it doesnt matter if she leaves

 

[iblamealen]

BRo dump that dumbass foid she dont deserve u wtf

Yeah, that's exactly what I was thinking. It feels like she's taking up way too much of my time and attention at this point in my life.
She isn't even that attractive, to be honest. My IRL friends have been telling me to stop wasting my time on her and focus on my girlfriend instead. My girlfriend loves me, buys me expensive gifts almost every week, and we even have sex several times a week.
i dont even need this stupid bih

 

[iblamealen]

Bro just don’t pay for her like I’m not buying some bitch that isn’t even my girl dinner bro

so whenever we go out we just split the bill ? wont it look stupid ?

 

[arkzy7]

Yeah, that's exactly what I was thinking. It feels like she's taking up way too much of my time and attention at this point in my life.
She isn't even that attractive, to be honest. My IRL friends have been telling me to stop wasting my time on her and focus on my girlfriend instead. My girlfriend loves me, buys me expensive gifts almost every week, and we even have sex several times a week.
i dont even need this stupid bih

Yeah bro. Idek why ur on here if u have a gf

 

[cpedy]

so whenever we go out we just split the bill ? wont it look stupid ?

No that’s not stupid at all bro I feel like that would be extremely normal. If it was a male friend would you guys not split the bill?

 

[vexd]

she doesnt know that i checked her phone and know about that other guy so she is acting all innocent and chill and when i asked her are u seeing or dating anyone she saidd nooo . then i asked about the guy and she said he is just a online friend . still next time we meet i will make everything clear between us . and i do have other options as well i dont even like her that much so it doesnt matter if she leaves

shes using you for attention and wasting your time be direct and talk to her and be a lil heartless for the aura be a lil rude dont be a cuck stuttering or apologizing

 

[iblamealen]

Yeah bro. Idek why ur on here if u have a gf

brooo she is moving to different country with in next few months and we will broke up when she leaves

 

[arkzy7]

brooo she is moving to different country with in next few months and we will broke up when she leaves

Fuck

 

[slendermanmax]

Fuck

nigger faggot

 

[iblamealen]

No that’s not stupid at all bro I feel like that would be extremely normal. If it was a male friend would you guys not split the bill?

Yeah, I wouldn't mind splitting the bill if it were just a guy friend or another female friend. But this girl acts like she's into me. She will feed me, hold my hand while we're hanging out, and do a lot of things that feel more like dating than friendship. That's why I feel awkward asking her to split the bill.

 

[vexd]

Yeah, I wouldn't mind splitting the bill if it were just a guy friend or another female friend. But this girl acts like she's into me. She will feed me, hold my hand while we're hanging out, and do a lot of things that feel more like dating than friendship. That's why I feel awkward asking her to split the bill.

for your sanity talk to her directly

 

[cpedy]

Yeah, I wouldn't mind splitting the bill if it were just a guy friend or another female friend. But this girl acts like she's into me. She will feed me, hold my hand while we're hanging out, and do a lot of things that feel more like dating than friendship. That's why I feel awkward asking her to split the bill.

Ngl bro stop paying for it unless she atleast gives you head or fucks you.

You don’t think she would do all that just for a free meal. But I also don’t know her I don’t know your situation you know it best

 

[cpedy]

for your sanity talk to her directly

Yeah I agree

 

[mangotimer]

just rape her and be redpilled

 

[iblamealen]

shes using you for attention and wasting your time be direct and talk to her and be a lil heartless for the aura be a lil rude dont be a cuck stuttering or apologizing

thankksss braa got the same advice from a lot of my friends. I'm just going to ghost her ass and see if she keeps chasing and gives good roi and is worth the time and efforts .

Either way, I'll keep you guys updated. Thanks for all the advice and suggestions!

 

[iblamealen]

Ngl bro stop paying for it unless she atleast gives you head or fucks you.

You don’t think she would do all that just for a free meal. But I also don’t know her I don’t know your situation you know it best

The best she will probably give me is a kiss for now .

 

[vexd]

thankksss braa got the same advice from a lot of my friends. I'm just going to ghost her ass and see if she keeps chasing and gives good roi and is worth the time and efforts .

Either way, I'll keep you guys updated. Thanks for all the advice and suggestions!

yea keep me updated and tag me very interesting story and good user

 

[cpedy]

The best she will probably give me is a kiss for now .

Not worth it bro I mean you said that she was talking to some other guy or smthing next time you guys are at dinner u should say somthing like oh why isn’t he paying for you but idk if you say it wrong it might sound retarded

 

[iblamealen]

Not worth it bro I mean you said that she was talking to some other guy or smthing next time you guys are at dinner u should say somthing like oh why isn’t he paying for you but idk if you say it wrong it might sound retarded

I mean that nig is rich too, and he pays for a lot of her expenses. Also, whenever we're out together, he'll call her and ask who she's hanging out with. She always tells him, "No one, I'm alone."

and At this point, though, I don't think there will be a next time.