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idk what i should do anymore.

today I wanted to go with a female colleague to the club and she said yes. about 2-3 hours before she wrote that she had stress with her family and parents a bit and lost the desire to come.

after that i‘ve written a friend if he would come with me and he replied that he would come later because he is at a dinner.
I wrote him like 3-4 messages and after waiting about 2 hours outside I went home – he didn’t look at the chat.
a couple of minutes later I‘ve saw at snap that he is in the club.

While waiting outside in the city in the cold I saw 3 girls, 2 of them I know very good and they walked past me.
I was a bit ashamed or sad, that they‘ve seen me again alone at night in the city.

I am at home now and I am tbh sad.
I just don’t know.
I am often alone and yeah…
Could give me somebody some good advice.

I am 17 at about 173cm. and I thought if I should hop on riods when I am 18 to get aesthetic and shredded to finally be noticed.

But still the sadness is in my heart.

I am thankful for every good advice
 
I am sorry man

Roids won't make you happy unless you have a good frame

I suggest trying to find fulfillment outside of social relationships

Find a hobby
 
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idk what i should do anymore.

today I wanted to go with a female colleague to the club and she said yes. about 2-3 hours before she wrote that she had stress with her family and parents a bit and lost the desire to come.

after that i‘ve written a friend if he would come with me and he replied that he would come later because he is at a dinner.
I wrote him like 3-4 messages and after waiting about 2 hours outside I went home – he didn’t look at the chat.
a couple of minutes later I‘ve saw at snap that he is in the club.

While waiting outside in the city in the cold I saw 3 girls, 2 of them I know very good and they walked past me.
I was a bit ashamed or sad, that they‘ve seen me again alone at night in the city.

I am at home now and I am tbh sad.
I just don’t know.
I am often alone and yeah…
Could give me somebody some good advice.

I am 17 at about 173cm. and I thought if I should hop on riods when I am 18 to get aesthetic and shredded to finally be noticed.

But still the sadness is in my heart.

I am thankful for every good advice
I get it bro
I'm also 173cm
Life begins at 6"
we need to ascend gng
 
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I am 17 at about 173cm. and I thought if I should hop on riods when I am 18 to get aesthetic and shredded to finally be noticed.
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hey man sorry to hear i know what it's like when you message people especially guy friends and they do anything but respond or want to hang out. i would advise finding new guy friends and you will know they are good when you can open up and have serious conversations with them about life and such.

i have not had a women flake on me with a fake excuse like that, but just leave her don't waste your time. whenever they cancel a date or tell you some shit about how they need to think of a time just take their hint and don't message them again. if they are really interested, they would message you eventually asking to reschedule.

i think a part of both of these is a lack of respect people have for you. i've struggled with the same and still do with some old friends ive had before really dialing in on my looks, which i hope to drop soon as they are only a net negative on my life as they have no desire to improve themselves or have any shared goals/desires as me. roids will help but you need to do your research and know how to mitigate aging. you can make lots of progress on medium-high dose test only and aging on a close to TRT dose is unlikely even with few protocols.

good luck
 
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hey man sorry to hear i know what it's like when you message people especially guy friends and they do anything but respond or want to hang out. i would advise finding new guy friends and you will know they are good when you can open up and have serious conversations with them about life and such.

i have not had a women flake on me with a fake excuse like that, but just leave her don't waste your time. whenever they cancel a date or tell you some shit about how they need to think of a time just take their hint and don't message them again. if they are really interested, they would message you eventually asking to reschedule.

i think a part of both of these is a lack of respect people have for you. i've struggled with the same and still do with some old friends ive had before really dialing in on my looks, which i hope to drop soon as they are only a net negative on my life as they have no desire to improve themselves or have any shared goals/desires as me. roids will help but you need to do your research and know how to mitigate aging. you can make lots of progress on medium-high dose test only and aging on a close to TRT dose is unlikely even with few protocols.

good luck
I am really thanking you for your effort.❤️
Gonna take that advice.
 
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I get it bro
I'm also 173cm
Life begins at 6"
we need to ascend gng
fr bro but tbh we can fraud to 175-176cm with shoes and after that if your facecard is good, it doesn’t matter a lot.
 
I am sorry man

Roids won't make you happy unless you have a good frame

I suggest trying to find fulfillment outside of social relationships

Find a hobby
thanks buddy
 
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