
WhyNotMe_
6'3 FT MTN MK677 + RAW MEAT ND
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So I can’t say I can't talk to people I can. I talk to my friends every day, my classmates too. I come across as a confident guy when I’m around them. I even talk to my female classmates easily I ask for help, and if the teacher tells them to sit with me, they never say “eww” or “I don’t want to.” They always sit down like it’s no big deal. They’re not disgusted by my face or height or anything.
In class, I sit with my friends, talk every period, joke around, do dumb teenage stuff, and try to make money just regular things. I don’t feel excluded from the class. I seem confident, I talk and laugh a lot. But sometimes, when people laugh at my jokes, a part of me thinks they’re actually laughing at me at my “MTN face” or at my flaws that i see.
When I walk alone, I tend to put my head down. I avoid looking people in the eyes because I’m scared they’ll think I’m ugly or judge me but it's kinda hard because i'm 1.90m because when i put my head down they can still see me. But when I’m with my friends, I don’t care I hold my head high, make eye contact, and walk confidently. It’s like I become a different version of myself depending on who’s around.
Here’s the thing though I don’t know how to get a girlfriend i had some gfs in the past but they were pure luck haha. I can talk to girls in my class easily, like if I need help or they ask about a test score. But when it comes to making a move or approaching them for something more than school talk, I freeze up. I just can’t do it, and I don’t know why. Is there something mentally wrong with me? I don’t get it. I have friends, I’m social, I’m not invisible but when it comes to dating, I feel stuck.
How do I fix this? How do I get a girlfriend or slay this summer?
In class, I sit with my friends, talk every period, joke around, do dumb teenage stuff, and try to make money just regular things. I don’t feel excluded from the class. I seem confident, I talk and laugh a lot. But sometimes, when people laugh at my jokes, a part of me thinks they’re actually laughing at me at my “MTN face” or at my flaws that i see.
When I walk alone, I tend to put my head down. I avoid looking people in the eyes because I’m scared they’ll think I’m ugly or judge me but it's kinda hard because i'm 1.90m because when i put my head down they can still see me. But when I’m with my friends, I don’t care I hold my head high, make eye contact, and walk confidently. It’s like I become a different version of myself depending on who’s around.
Here’s the thing though I don’t know how to get a girlfriend i had some gfs in the past but they were pure luck haha. I can talk to girls in my class easily, like if I need help or they ask about a test score. But when it comes to making a move or approaching them for something more than school talk, I freeze up. I just can’t do it, and I don’t know why. Is there something mentally wrong with me? I don’t get it. I have friends, I’m social, I’m not invisible but when it comes to dating, I feel stuck.
How do I fix this? How do I get a girlfriend or slay this summer?
