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[smackstallion]

im speaking to a girl who went my school rn.

How to not make it too obvious that i’d like to speak to her on a deeper level but at least have her know that?
Should i bring school up for a good conversation or skip all of that shit?

 

[Softmax09]

im speaking to a girl who went my school rn.

How to not make it too obvious that i’d like to speak to her on a deeper level but at least have her know that?
Should i bring school up for a good conversation or skip all of that shit?

Do you not talk to her at all rn or?

 

[smackstallion]

Do you not talk to her at all rn or?

only just started today

 

[Hurly saint]

im speaking to a girl who went my school rn.

How to not make it too obvious that i’d like to speak to her on a deeper level but at least have her know that?
Should i bring school up for a good conversation or skip all of that shit?

Ask her what school she go to

 

[TemporaryName]

only just started today

let it evolve naturally, the longer you talk/type with her the more comfortable both of you get.

 

[smackstallion]

let it evolve naturally, the longer you talk/type with her the more comfortable both of you get.

she isn’t replying now. am i cooked

 

[TemporaryName]

she isn’t replying now. am i cooked

Eh i mean there's no magic involved in getting a girl to like you, she either wants you or doesn't.

If she's clearly not interested then it's not worth the bother.

Not replying isn't a clear sign tho, everyone has lives

 

[smackstallion]

Eh i mean there's no magic involved in getting a girl to like you, she either wants you or doesn't.

If she's clearly not interested then it's not worth the bother.

Not replying isn't a clear sign tho, everyone has lives

yeah true. should i put all my focus into this or expand onto other foids too? i dont really know if i want a gf or not

 

[ToDelirium]

The thing that wins her isn't gonna be your texts, she's either is already interested or not

 

[TemporaryName]

yeah true. should i put all my focus into this or expand onto other foids too? i dont really know if i want a gf or not

I always talked to one at a time personally

 

[ToDelirium]

I always talked to one at a time personally

Why?

 

[smackstallion]

I always talked to one at a time personally

i don’t feel content with that

 

[TemporaryName]

Why?

it's easier to give all attention into one girl than to divide your attention into multiple. If you're into LTR's then its always better this way

 

[ToDelirium]

it's easier to give all attention into one girl than to divide your attention into multiple. If you're into LTR's then its always better this way

Yeah I understand if you are committed and going on dates all the time but until then texting other girls takes minimal effort, and I dont trust any girl to not be doing the same till we are committed

 

[smackstallion]

it's easier to give all attention into one girl than to divide your attention into multiple. If you're into LTR's then its always better this way

whats a ltr

 

[ToDelirium]

whats a ltr

Come on youngin, Long term relationship

 

[smackstallion]

Come on youngin, Long term relationship

oh yeah right, dont think im mature or devoted enough ngl i wanna fuck a girl first

 

[ToDelirium]

oh yeah right, dont think im mature or devoted enough ngl i wanna fuck a girl first

Why nigga got boogie as his avi , also rep me bitch

 

[smackstallion]

Come on youngin, Long term relationship

oh yeah right, dont think im mature or devoted enough ngl i wanna fuck a girl

Why nigga got boogie as his avi

Couldnt find anything tuff

 

[Finalkiosk]

im speaking to a girl who went my school rn.

How to not make it too obvious that i’d like to speak to her on a deeper level but at least have her know that?
Should i bring school up for a good conversation or skip all of that shit?

what do you two have in common?

do both of you like a specific food?
thats a really good way to get to know her better

say some shit like "i got a buy 1 get 1 free coupon at this whatever place, do you wanna come? its going to go to waste if no one comes with me"

if your both gymcels ask her to gym sometime

 

[smackstallion]

what do you two have in common?

do both of you like a specific food?
thats a really good way to get to know her better

say some shit like "i got a buy 1 get 1 free coupon at this whatever place, do you wanna come? its going to go to waste if no one comes with me"

if your both gymcels ask her to gym sometime

im on delivered for 48 minutes it’s pissing me off because i wanna speak to her

 

[Finalkiosk]

im on delivered for 48 minutes it’s pissing me off because i wanna speak to her

was it something stupid like "yes"

if it was a basic answer to a question then dont expect an instant response

just go on with your day, worrying about it wont make it any better

 

[smackstallion]

was it something stupid like "yes"

if it was a basic answer to a question then dont expect an instant response

just go on with your day, worrying about it wont make it any better

i did say something pretty fucking corny now that i read it back

 

[Finalkiosk]

i did say something pretty fucking corny now that i read it back

give it time, dont over respond and dont expect an instant response to random shit

if your having a normal conversation and she suddenly disappears shes probably busy

but if your texting every 3min and responding to eachother throughout the day, she probably saw the notification and didnt bother responding because she doesnt have anything to say

thats not a bad thing, just give her time until she wants to say something back

 

[smackstallion]

yeah i’ll give her time but there’s a cut off point until it’s just ignoring me