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I have innatentive adhd, and i am awkward as the fuck and physically can not make eye contact and get red in situations does adhd have a factor on this or am i just yh awkward
 
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It’s sound like you have Abused Dog Syndrome as it’s called on this site
 
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could you explain what tht is buddy
Basically your experience of trauma has left you with low self confidence and fearfulness socially.

Pretty likely your parents raised you with subpar social skills and/or subpar sense of belonging.

Usually it’s because they themselves are like this and just pass on what they know.

SSRIs and therapy helped me.
 
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Basically your experience of trauma has left you with low self confidence and fearfulness socially.

Pretty likely your parents raised you with subpar social skills and/or subpar sense of belonging.

Usually it’s because they themselves are like this and just pass on what they know.

SSRIs and therapy helped me.
Tbh ive never had “trauma” but as a kid i was very jolly not shy but after 12 i jus became some super awkward person im 17 now i wnna fix it but ssris is not something i would ever consider, maybe therapy will help. Thanks
 
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Tbh ive never had “trauma” but as a kid i was very jolly not shy but after 12 i jus became some super awkward person im 17 now i wnna fix it but ssris is not something i would ever consider, maybe therapy will help. Thanks
It’s always the people who need them the most that are most sceptical


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I have innatentive adhd, and i am awkward as the fuck and physically can not make eye contact and get red in situations does adhd have a factor on this or am i just yh awkward
i have inattentive adhd too
it can def cause social problems
more so my autism though:feelscry:
 
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I have innatentive adhd, and i am awkward as the fuck and physically can not make eye contact and get red in situations does adhd have a factor on this or am i just yh awkward
As stupid as it sounds, Just be confident. People will always like you more or view you as way cooler if you larp being confident
 
As stupid as it sounds, Just be confident. People will always like you more or view you as way cooler if you larp being confident
Not trynna get on to you because it does sound simple, but i hate when people say that like if your in my pov like its just idk like u cnt man u just cant , appreciate the support tho
 
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Not trynna get on to you because it does sound simple, but i hate when people say that like if your in my pov like its just idk like u cnt man u just cant , appreciate the support tho
gotchu gotchu
 
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I have innatentive adhd, and i am awkward as the fuck and physically can not make eye contact and get red in situations does adhd have a factor on this or am i just yh awkward
I am curious why when I get touched it’s so overly sensitive :fuk:man
 
yeah, I am on guanfacine.
Thats a non stimulant right, how droes it work for you is it effective in terms of studying, focusing, bc i mean its not the stimulant version
 
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Thats a non stimulant right, how droes it work for you is it effective in terms of studying, focusing, bc i mean its not the stimulant version
I dont really know tbh because I'm so used to it that I only notice the effects of me NOT taking it, which are fucking INSANE
guanfacine withdrawals are fucking crazy bro I TWEAK OUT
 
I dont really know tbh because I'm so used to it that I only notice the effects of me NOT taking it, which are fucking INSANE
guanfacine withdrawals are fucking crazy bro I TWEAK OUT
Really? Im guessing its effective if u can notice effects not taking it, but can u study if u want to nowadays if ur on it tho
 
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I have innatentive adhd, and i am awkward as the fuck and physically can not make eye contact and get red in situations does adhd have a factor on this or am i just yh awkward
Become a man. Be a problem-solver. Dedicate yourself to something very masculine, like mechanics for example, and get really good at it. You’ll attract people.
 
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Really? Im guessing its effective if u can notice effects not taking it, but can u study if u want to nowadays if ur on it tho
Nah I can't lmao
I've given up
Too distracted, procrastination, my ability to get tasks done on time is fucked

rep btw:PepoHappy:
 
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Nah I can't lmao
I've given up
Too distracted, procrastination, my ability to get tasks done on time is fucked

rep btw:PepoHappy:
If thats the case, why not try maybe get ur hands on some stimulants
 
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If thats the case, why not try maybe get ur hands on some stimulants
good idea, like what are you thinking of? I'm also on melatonin btw.
 
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good idea, like what are you thinking of? I'm also on melatonin btw.
bro, sleep is what im struggling with alot like very bad legit i kid u not last week i did 2 all nighters in a ROW after the 2nd all nighter when i came back from school i had a nap for 4 hours when night came that night i still couldnt sleep and went to bed at the usual time at 4am as i always do and get up for 8am, i am 100% going to get on melatonin also for the stimulant im not too educated on it im just saying what ive heard from others but stims like vyvanse, elvanse i heard they help focus like crazy thats what i hope they prescribe me
 
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bro, sleep is what im struggling with alot like very bad legit i kid u not last week i did 2 all nighters in a ROW after the 2nd all nighter when i came back from school i had a nap for 4 hours when night came that night i still couldnt sleep and went to bed at the usual time at 4am as i always do and get up for 8am, i am 100% going to get on melatonin also for the stimulant im not too educated on it im just saying what ive heard from others but stims like vyvanse, elvanse i heard they help focus like crazy thats what i hope they prescribe me
yea dude my sleep is atrocious, I completely fucked up my sleep schedule during Winter break. I decided to up my dosage by a milligram and even more without telling my psychiatrist or parents cuz my prescription of 2mg wasnt doing shit.
Matter of fact im writing this at 01:25 because i had to stay up to do my homework, and I gotta get up at 07:30. I doubt I'll be asleep before 2. Proves everything I said in this thread JFL. fuck my life:feelscry:
 
ADHD is not real
 
good idea, like what are you thinking of? I'm also on melatonin btw.

yea dude my sleep is atrocious, I completely fucked up my sleep schedule during Winter break. I decided to up my dosage by a milligram and even more without telling my psychiatrist or parents cuz my prescription of 2mg wasnt doing shit.
Matter of fact im writing this at 01:25 because i had to stay up to do my homework, and I gotta get up at 07:30. I doubt I'll be asleep before 2. Proves everything I said in this thread JFL. fuck my life:feelscry:
Ayy u from the uk? Same but btw just wondering is it easy to get melatonin do u jus describe ur sleeping trouble also sorry one last question when u was diagnosed with innatentive adhd was the first option a non stimulant or did u have a choice between stimulant or non stimulant?
 
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Ayy u from the uk?
close brother, I'm from Ireland:feelsyay:🇮🇪
just wondering is it easy to get melatonin do u jus describe ur sleeping trouble
I'm not too sure as I was quite young or maybe only a few years ago when I got prescribed so I think my mom guided the process.
It is because I go to a psychiatrist, who diagnosed me all my medications. It's just constant problems I had with sleeping at night.
also sorry one last question when u was diagnosed with innatentive adhd was the first option a non stimulant or did u have a choice between stimulant or non stimulant?
no worries brotha feel free to ask! Again though, I'm not sure. This all happened with little clarity to me as a young patient. They probs just picked whats best for me.
 
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ADHD is not real
“adhd is not real” theres literal sceintific studies showing ppl with adhd have lower dopamine activity in the brain cortex and other brain areas that control focus n impulse, every legit medical org agrees its real ppl all over the world but bc “clqs” on org says its fake its fake guys 😂 people had issues way before phones n social media and meds actually work bc they fix brain chemisty, not bc its fake ur not bein smart or woke, ur a dumbass
 
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I have innatentive adhd, and i am awkward as the fuck and physically can not make eye contact and get red in situations does adhd have a factor on this or am i just yh awkward
Same
 
I have innatentive adhd, and i am awkward as the fuck and physically can not make eye contact and get red in situations does adhd have a factor on this or am i just yh awkward
Even with close friends and stuff I’m still awkward
 
close brother, I'm from Ireland:feelsyay:🇮🇪

I'm not too sure as I was quite young or maybe only a few years ago when I got prescribed so I think my mom guided the process.
It is because I go to a psychiatrist, who diagnosed me all my medications. It's just constant problems I had with sleeping at night.

no worries brotha feel free to ask! Again though, I'm not sure. This all happened with little clarity to me as a young patient. They probs just picked whats best for me.
Thanks bro, but for sure im going to get on melatonin soon
 
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“adhd is not real” theres literal sceintific studies showing ppl with adhd have lower dopamine activity in the brain cortex and other brain areas that control focus n impulse, every legit medical org agrees its real ppl all over the world but bc “clqs” on org says its fake its fake guys 😂 people had issues way before phones n social media and meds actually work bc they fix brain chemisty, not bc its fake ur not bein smart or woke, ur a dumbass
Whatever helps you cope, buddy

If lying to yourself about some imaginary condition keeps you sane, then keep on doing it

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Whatever helps you cope, buddy

If lying to yourself about some imaginary condition keeps you sane, then keep on doing it

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buddy i cn link u some studies that have been done to debunk what ur saying in every aspect, but wait that would make u look even more dumb seems u didnt have any knowledge on the topic and said something stupid about it not being real and when i replied to ur bs with facts u was embrassed and didnt know what to say so u just made even more bullshit talking about “cope” when theres litral evidence but yeah u keep “coping” stop deflecting buddy ur the coper not me bro ur a iqlet why am i wasting my time replying to u 😂 what am i doing with my time these days
 
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buddy i cn link u some studies that have been done to debunk what ur saying in every aspect, but wait that would make u look even more dumb seems u didnt have any knowledge on the topic and said something stupid about it not being real and when i replied to ur bs with facts u was embrassed and didnt know what to say so u just made even more bullshit talking about “cope” when theres litral evidence but yeah u keep “coping” stop deflecting buddy ur the coper not me bro ur a iqlet why am i wasting my time replying to u 😂 what am i doing with my time these days
Are you allergic to proper punctuation?

And please stop coping with these fake conditions and the victim mentality. That's most likely the reason why you're unhappy in life. Coping instead of working towards a solution.

You don't need meds, you need to grow a pair of balls, son
 
buddy i cn link u some studies that have been done to debunk what ur saying in every aspect, but wait that would make u look even more dumb seems u didnt have any knowledge on the topic and said something stupid about it not being real and when i replied to ur bs with facts u was embrassed and didnt know what to say so u just made even more bullshit talking about “cope” when theres litral evidence but yeah u keep “coping” stop deflecting buddy ur the coper not me bro ur a iqlet why am i wasting my time replying to u 😂 what am i doing with my time these days
Also please show me who funded these muh studies you're talking about and their early life
 

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