Never honestly answer questions.

[Deleted member 275]

Counts equally for men and for women. Autists/unsocialized people will assume when someone asks them a question, they should give a honest answer. This is never in your benefit.

Social interaction is about knowing what answer someone is looking for, and what answer is in your own best interest to give.

This is where aspies always go wrong because they answer honestly, truthfully, objectively. But nobody that is NT does this.

 

[buckchadley31]

Unironically just don't have a personality

 

[R@m@]

also never justify yourself, for example "why dont you speak more or less?", no need to justify

 

[Deleted member 275]

also never justify yourself, for example "why dont you speak more or less?", no need to justify

This. Never assume anything you did is wrong and requires justification/defending.

Negging is extremely common in social interactions and taking on a defensive posture is exactly the opposite of what you should do in those situations. It shows you are unconfident and easily aggravated by people making fun of your lifestyle/choices.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Unironically just don't have a personality

You can be honest/truthfull to people real close to you. There's legit 0 reason for any of it in normal social interaction.

Nobody is truly interested in other people unless it's entertaining or usefull. Having a fake personality is still a personality.

 

[subhuman incel]

True. Never say you are a virgin if you are actually a virgin. People will just mock and make fun of you.

 

[Deleted member 6380]

Negging

Nigga*

 

[buckchadley31]

You can be honest/truthfull to people real close to you. There's legit 0 reason for any of it in normal social interaction.

Nobody is truly interested in other people unless it's entertaining or usefull. Having a fake personality is still a personality.

People are different so what works with person A may not work with person B.
So I just agree with anything anyone says, literally.
Debating with people you don't know is extremely retarded and useless

 

[Deleted member 275]

True. Never say you are a virgin if you are actually a virgin. People will just mock and make fun of you.

There's no social situation in which it is beneficial for you to say you are doing poorly with women. Unless you are talking with your therapist or a really close friend or something.

People aren't going to pity you and stand up to help you get laid or give you usefull advice lol. Has never happened before in the history of humanity.
People are going to look down on you and that's all. Great job.

 

[Deleted member 275]

People are different so what works with person A may not work with person B.
So I just agree with anything anyone says, literally.
Debating with people you don't know is extremely retarded and useless

Legit, you get it.

This is also why I hate my current friends so much. If I get into an argument with someone, or in a fight, they don't support me afterwards. Instead they will say shit like:

'oh you shouldn't have done that' 'you shouldve walked away' 'you shouldn't have said that' 'i can understand why they got mad on you'.
'look at it from their point of view' 'its your own fault' 'learn from it'

Like nigga, wtf are you? A jury? You're my friend, not their friend. Why the fuck are you not supporting me but instead taking this soyboy neutral stance?


I learned a lot from this the last few years. When friends come to me with issues, I just support them 100% of the time, even if I think they did a poor shitty ass job and it was their own fault. That's not what they need, and it's not why they come to you to tell you about their problems. This way you become a better friend in that person's eyes, which can prove to be usefull in the future.

 

[buckchadley31]

Legit, you get it.

This is also why I hate my current friends so much. If I get into an argument with someone, or in a fight, they don't support me afterwards. Instead they will say shit like:

'oh you shouldn't have done that' 'you shouldve walked away' 'you shouldn't have said that' 'i can understand why they got mad on you'.
'look at it from their point of view' 'its your own fault' 'learn from it'

Like nigga, wtf are you? A jury? You're my friend, not their friend. Why the fuck are you not supporting me but instead taking this soyboy neutral stance?


I learned a lot from this the last few years. When friends come to me with issues, I just support them 100% of the time, even if I think they did a poor shitty ass job and it was their own fault. That's not what they need, and it's not why they come to you to tell you about their problems. This way you become a better friend in that person's eyes, which can prove to be usefull in the future.

Yeah most people have zero self awareness.
And like you said, no one gives a shit about another person if there's nothing beneficial for them.
People like to get their egos stroked so that's what I always do. They may come in handy if you need a favour from them one day.

 

[MikeMew'sBitch]

Niggas here turned into bunch of Machiavellis. Its true though, being honest is one of the stupidest things you can do

 

[redpilledboomer]

 

[redpilledboomer]

Unironically just don't have a personality

cope I let my balls hang low

 

[GreenHat500]

Very legit actually.

 

[Deleted member 4106]

Finally a useful tread, I make almost all the errors listed

 

[Need2Ascend]

True, I just answer private questions usually extremely vague tbh, like if a good friend I haven't seen in months asks me how I'm doing with girls I just say something like: "Not going on much recently, what about you" meanwhile I haven't dated a girl for 3 years lul
Don't really like revealing much about myself in general(introvert trait tbh), rather talk about whats on my mind, try to learn something from/about the other person or future plans. Just talking is boring af, hate situations where you just sit still like train, bus, classroom. Always prefer to combine it with an acitivity like working out, gaming, sports, etc