Eduardo DOV
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never do that.
I know it's a common redpill knowledge, but it's always good to remember.
If you idealize her as pure or something like that, you are running a serious risk of getting hurt.
That's why this whole "oneitis" thing is a big mistake. You can see your wife as your friend and play with her sexually. NEVER IDEALIZE her as a pure being or anything like that, not even if she's a virgin. If she's a virgin, it might change her psychologically, but she's still a woman who can mess up and hurt you.
It's funny because I always had that in mind(this anti-romantic idea), but recently there was this girl, even though she gave signs that it wasn't this thing. I saw her that way and ended up getting hurt.
Me getting hurt was entirely my mistake; I deluded myself.
Never do that.
I know it's a common redpill knowledge, but it's always good to remember.
If you idealize her as pure or something like that, you are running a serious risk of getting hurt.
That's why this whole "oneitis" thing is a big mistake. You can see your wife as your friend and play with her sexually. NEVER IDEALIZE her as a pure being or anything like that, not even if she's a virgin. If she's a virgin, it might change her psychologically, but she's still a woman who can mess up and hurt you.
It's funny because I always had that in mind(this anti-romantic idea), but recently there was this girl, even though she gave signs that it wasn't this thing. I saw her that way and ended up getting hurt.
Me getting hurt was entirely my mistake; I deluded myself.
Never do that.
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