AlexAP
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If you are somehow "nerdy" or others call you a "nerd", the only solution is to change yourself and become non-nerdy (basically, popular and NT). If you choose to self-identify as nerd, this is a path that only has bad outcomes:
- You will only attract other "nerds", meaning social outcasts with zero prospects for ascension.
- You will start coping with "I might be virgin, lonely and wasting my youth, but at least I'm smart!"
- Ascension will become more difficult later when you realize you made a mistake by being a loner, as you have to get rid of your whole "identity."
Just never be a "nerd." Try to be NT, fit into the crowd, have many friends with normal interests. You can still enjoy history, sci-fi franchises, video games, etc., but never make it everything about yourself.
- You will only attract other "nerds", meaning social outcasts with zero prospects for ascension.
- You will start coping with "I might be virgin, lonely and wasting my youth, but at least I'm smart!"
- Ascension will become more difficult later when you realize you made a mistake by being a loner, as you have to get rid of your whole "identity."
Just never be a "nerd." Try to be NT, fit into the crowd, have many friends with normal interests. You can still enjoy history, sci-fi franchises, video games, etc., but never make it everything about yourself.