Ngl seeming insecure about looks seems gay as fuck as a guy

[House Lannister]

Doesn’t feel right like I’m a grown ass make. And I say this as someone who is paranoid about it. I think we all need to just do a few soft maxes to not appear subhuman then unironically act like men. No confident social maxxed average+ man I know is incel

 

[JBcollector]

Women like gay men just identify as a queer or non binary
Which will open up a lot of possibility for you in society

 

[Amnesia]

go for it buddy, see how that works for ya

 

[dreamcake1mo]

I think what's even gayer are the rates used to rate women aesthetics, used by men to rate men. I don't get it tbh. You could show me some textbook celeb "chad" but what i would see is either a ugly normie, or if too aesthetic, a ugly meme. The whole thing about male attraction is that males are less aesthetically appealing than a women, to a male. But ironically, to a woman, what matters most about aesthetic appeal is preselection (if others are attracted to you) rather than physical aesthetics itself (im guessing its the psychological/differences between estrogen vs test).

Males dont calculate this phenom into their rates when they rate males and go based on alone aesthetics, and this is what is even more homosexual to me when a male does it, because it more so implicits being attracted to the male aesthetic physically alone, instead of what being drawn to what aesthetics as a male implies.

A lot of people are pushing feminine things to masculinity. When i first started doing research years ago on looksmax or redpill as a 10-12 year old, it wasn't because I was insecure but because i had a mentality of trying to maximize myself or "hack" the world/dating game. It was more experimental if anything. Nowadays its a lot of "be like Bieber" or a lot of people pushing and prizing certain aesthetics all the while some natty subhuman who maximized his preselection is living the life a lot of people here think you have to be "pretty" to live in.

 

[St.TikTokcel]

Doesn’t feel right like I’m a grown ass make. And I say this as someone who is paranoid about it. I think we all need to just do a few soft maxes to not appear subhuman then unironically act like men. No confident social maxxed average+ man I know is incel

You're right! I'll just stop giving a fuck and start acting alpha.

 

[dreamcake1mo]

You're right! I'll just stop giving a fuck and start acting alpha.
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I think the point is realizing that ascension is well within yourself. Not spiritually or anything like that but for ex, in that picture ascension would probably mean facial hair/stylemaxxing maybe attention to teeth and such. Everything within a persons individual capability. Softmaxxing is borderline, and really the only thing a male should do instead of all that crazy shit i see like lipos, or bone shit aesthetic surgerys.

The rest is best spent on non aesthetic endeavors.

 

[Deleted member 14160]

Women don’t care about looks

 

[Eduardo DOV]

you dont have to be insecure, you have to be aware