No girl will love an antisocial incel

[Leo]

If you aren't socially compatable with other people like everyone else then she won't love you. Yes being Chad will attract her but that alone won't make her stay, and thats the harsh truth. Thing is that people being "weird" and doesn't fit social norms isn't even their fault either, it could be due to having a condition or past trauma, but none of that matters when talking to the opposite gender. Some say they wan't a lonely loser, but they mean a man with self respect that knows when to be quiet and got a small friend group, not a traumatised dude with crippling social anxiety.

 

[Johan]

true

 

[Heretic]

NT pill

 

[Leo]

true

NT pill

Height pill and nt pill might be considered the top 3 worst ones in my opinion

 

[Sacrifice]

No Instagram, No Snapchat, Never once texted a girl before and I suck at long term conversations

I just wish I could have long conversations man, and not be a social freak when it comes to 'social' media

 

[Leo]

NT pill

Holy, mirin the signature

 

[Johan]

Height pill and nt pill might be considered the top 3 worst ones in my opinion

im nt decent height mtn and i still cant pull

first love pill is literally the most brutal shit ever

every girl would leave u for their first love

 

[annenisikeyim]

If you aren't socially compatable with other people like everyone else then she won't love you. Yes being Chad will attract her but that alone won't make her stay, and thats the harsh truth. Thing is that people being "weird" and doesn't fit social norms isn't even their fault either, it could be due to having a condition or past trauma, but none of that matters when talking to the opposite gender. Some say they wan't a lonely loser, but they mean a man with self respect that knows when to be quiet and got a small friend group, not a traumatised dude with crippling social anxiety.

h2o

 

[getratioedbozo]

Dang then she is lying when she said she loves me? yeah i gotta end this

 

[Leo]

No Instagram, No Snapchat, Never once texted a girl before and I suck at long term conversations

I just wish I could have long conversations man, and not be a social freak when it comes to 'social' media

I got like 8 followers on Insta and 3 of them are porn bots No girls on snap either, just my friends, i feel you.

If only girls could give you some time to get comfortable and give you a chance, not just filter you it within a second if "talking to you"

 

[Deleted member 330603]

every girl would leave u for their first love

I was a girl's first love but she left me

 

[Leo]

Dang then she is lying when she said she loves me? yeah i gotta end this

Never trust a girl, learnt that the hard way

 

[Leo]

I was a girl's first love but she left me

She wanted to try the bbc pill brutal

 

[Deleted member 330603]

I got like 8 followers on Insta and 3 of them are porn bots No girls on snap either, just my friends, i feel you.

If only girls could give you some time to get comfortable and give you a chance, not just filter you it within a second if "talking to you"

That's my ig and I also never had a girl in my dms

 

[trueteentriad]

If you aren't socially compatable with other people like everyone else then she won't love you. Yes being Chad will attract her but that alone won't make her stay, and thats the harsh truth. Thing is that people being "weird" and doesn't fit social norms isn't even their fault either, it could be due to having a condition or past trauma, but none of that matters when talking to the opposite gender. Some say they wan't a lonely loser, but they mean a man with self respect that knows when to be quiet and got a small friend group, not a traumatised dude with crippling social anxiety.

not trying to stir the pot, but im by no means an extrovert, but not saying as much seems to do well imo. I have been trying some things out and by talking less, when you do talk there seems to be more attention so idk bhai

 

[swaggyp1]

This is college or high school dominant

I’m 28 years old and have seen enough social systems, and in that environment, people operate in a vacuum of localized social status

If you go beyond that environment, you can get by with above average looks and good conversational skills

 

[Deleted member 330603]

I have been trying some things out and by talking less, when you do talk there seems to be more attention so idk bhai

I'll do this from now on

 

[Leo]

That's my ig and I also never had a girl in my dms
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not trying to stir the pot, but im by no means an extrovert, but not saying as much seems to do well imo. I have been trying some things out and by talking less, when you do talk there seems to be more attention so idk bhai

I used to be more social, and some where in the middle is perfect, don't wanna be loud and annoying but more chill and still be able to have a good conversation when wanted

 

[JohnDoe]

NT pill

Do you think exposure therapy works for becoming NT?

 

[trueteentriad]

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I used to be more social, and some where in the middle is perfect, don't wanna be loud and annoying but more chill and still be able to have a good conversation when wanted

real, sweet spot will give you maximum amount of charisma

 

[swaggyp1]

No Instagram, No Snapchat, Never once texted a girl before and I suck at long term conversations

I just wish I could have long conversations man, and not be a social freak when it comes to 'social' media

There’s 2 types of social skill

Individual and group

Individual is conversational skills and personal connection - making people feel good

Group is about vibes, social signaling, and peer alignment

 

[Deleted member 330603]

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I remember getting this message and crying in my room. Never again

 

[Heretic]

Do you think exposure therapy works for becoming NT?

I never tried it, I only went to normal therapy which never helped cause I have a physical issue

 

[Leo]

Do you think exposure therapy works for becoming NT?

Sort of worked for me but its mainly trauma and not talking to anyone for years (stayed at home).

Just talking to someone on the gym or going there is a good step itself, saying hi to the cashier when buying food or trying to talk with the teachers help alot.

 

[trueteentriad]

I'll do this from now on

good, now don't go around and be non talkative incel, just answer on things that need an answer. also wait a sec before answering, good communication trick trust me

 

[Leo]

I remember getting this message and crying in my room. Never again

Shit my bad i thought it was a joke

I never tried it, I only went to normal therapy which never helped cause I have a physical issue

Ye normal therapy is ass, didn't help me at all either, idk what they even tried to achieve with it

 

[Sacrifice]

There’s 2 types of social skill

Individual and group

Individual is conversational skills and personal connection - making people feel good

Group is about vibes, social signaling, and peer alignment

I can talk to girls one on one fine, its just maybe holding the conversation is kind of ass for me.

But holy shit, I just cant use any of the 'social' media apps I hate it.

So basically Irl Im fine with just about any person, but social media is just

 

[JohnDoe]

I never tried it, I only went to normal therapy which never helped cause I have a physical issue

Exposure therapy if I'm not mistaken just means getting exposure, e.g. a job where you are forced to socialise etc which will naturally make you more NT after 6 months of it

 

[uksucks]

My only hope is to learn Russian and move to some Siberian village to find a virgin girl that has never seen a man before, 0 social circle or friends.

100% even if a girl accepted me, her friends never would. If she has friends (all modern women), it's over

 

[Heretic]

Ye normal therapy is ass, didn't help me at all either, idk what they even tried to achieve with it

Every therapist I went to was a retard, they can't do much

 

[Leo]

I can talk to girls one on one fine, its just maybe holding the conversation is kind of ass for me.

But holy shit, I just cant use any of the 'social' media apps I hate it.

So basically Irl Im fine with just about any person, but social media is just

Same, i just need a little conversation starter and for her to make me feel comforted or else i will just get scared and not be able to talk.

Have you tried practicing conversations with teachers, cashiers, gym people, friends etc?

 

[JohnDoe]

My only hope is to learn Russian and move to some Siberian village to find a virgin girl that has never seen a man before, 0 social circle or friends.

100% even if a girl accepted me, her friends never would. If she has friends (all modern women), it's over

The village girls these days are sluts getting their back blown out by the local village jock

 

[Leo]

Every therapist I went to was a retard, they can't do much

"tell me about problem" you tell them... then what? Fuck are they gonna do now that they know about it

 

[pslturi]

true

mirin avi and sig

 

[uksucks]

The village girls these days are sluts getting their back blown out by the local village jock

Yes but not all

 

[Sacrifice]

Same, i just need a little conversation starter and for her to make me feel comforted or else i will just get scared and not be able to talk.

Have you tried practicing conversations with teachers, cashiers, gym people, friends etc?

I get anxious about getting my pizza or some shit from the driver, I hate it. But I swear If I can just talk to people more often and not OVERTHINK it I'd maybe be fine.

I even have a bunch of tiktoks saved on how to be charismatic n shit

 

[Leo]

I get anxious about getting my pizza or some shit from the driver, I hate it. But I swear If I can just talk to people more often and not OVERTHINK it I'd maybe be fine.

I even have a bunch of tiktoks saved on how to be charismatic n shit

"How to talk to people" "How to be more likeable" on youtube

 

[GoErOnFoids]

I got like 8 followers on Insta and 3 of them are porn bots No girls on snap either, just my friends, i feel you.

If only girls could give you some time to get comfortable and give you a chance, not just filter you it within a second if "talking to you"

after i ascend im buying 500-1000 followers to ig

 

[pslturi]

If you aren't socially compatable with other people like everyone else then she won't love you. Yes being Chad will attract her but that alone won't make her stay, and thats the harsh truth. Thing is that people being "weird" and doesn't fit social norms isn't even their fault either, it could be due to having a condition or past trauma, but none of that matters when talking to the opposite gender. Some say they wan't a lonely loser, but they mean a man with self respect that knows when to be quiet and got a small friend group, not a traumatised dude with crippling social anxiety.

only girls that will want guys like this (sadly most of us)
are girls that are the same way but they wont appeal to us

 

[GoErOnFoids]

I get anxious about getting my pizza or some shit from the driver, I hate it. But I swear If I can just talk to people more often and not OVERTHINK it I'd maybe be fine.

I even have a bunch of tiktoks saved on how to be charismatic n shit

me too a little

 

[swaggyp1]

I can talk to girls one on one fine, its just maybe holding the conversation is kind of ass for me.

But holy shit, I just cant use any of the 'social' media apps I hate it.

So basically Irl Im fine with just about any person, but social media is just

to people like us forum users, conversation is informational transfer, with some emotional diplomacy

To most people, conversation is more emotional alignment than information transfer

That’s the best way to explain it

 

[Leo]

only girls that will want guys like this (sadly most of us)
are girls that are the same way but they wont appeal to us

I want one of those girls, but almost impossible to find one.

Almost all girls have bodies, friends, are social etc, people like us but of the opposite gender would be a pure miracle to spot

 

[Sacrifice]

"How to talk to people" "How to be more likeable" on youtube

So real I hate it

I used to search how to tell if someone finds you annoying n shit, to this day I still just only really spoke when spoken to, or, rarely, say something that relates to the conversation the group is having, I just dont wanna be annoying

 

[pslturi]

I get anxious about getting my pizza or some shit from the driver, I hate it. But I swear If I can just talk to people more often and not OVERTHINK it I'd maybe be fine.

I even have a bunch of tiktoks saved on how to be charismatic n shit

i feel the same way
i can talk to the pizza guy cuz ik he'll be gone in the next 2min

but i cant look the cashier in the face and talk to them

this one time i was out getting some food and i went to go pay as the cashier was telling me the price i went to pull out my money and DROPPED it all.. i went ahead and put the money down on the table and went out without saying a word (i left like 12$ on the floor)

 

[pslturi]

I want one of those girls, but almost impossible to find one.

Almost all girls have bodies, friends, are social etc, people like us but of the opposite gender would be a pure miracle to spot

id also like a girl like that but at the same time i feel as if id get bored of her and see too much of myself in her..

and that will make me not want her anymore

 

[Sacrifice]

i feel the same way
i can talk to the pizza guy cuz ik he'll be gone in the next 2min

but i cant look the cashier in the face and talk to them

this one time i was out getting some food and i went to go pay as the cashier was telling me the price i went to pull out my money and DROPPED it all.. i went ahead and put the money down on the table and went out without saying a word (i left like 12$ on the floor)

As soon as I start to overthink something, something always goes wrong

I went to pay for shit while I was at the mall and tried to insert my card, it didn't work and the cashier just sighed and tapped my card to pay. I wanted to kms

 

[pslturi]

As soon as I start to overthink something, something always goes wrong

I went to pay for shit while I was at the mall and tried to insert my card, it didn't work and the cashier just sighed and tapped my card to pay. I wanted to kms

the problem is i dont like to speak up..

i always feel if i say something to anyone i'll be a problem and it'll make me seem like a weirdo

i dont know maybe it is cuz we overthink too much

 

[Sacrifice]

the problem is i dont like to speak up..

i always feel if i say something to anyone i'll be a problem and it'll make me seem like a weirdo

i dont know maybe it is cuz we overthink too much

Yes 1000%

I dread speaking for some reason, my throat goes heavy and I pray I dont say something stupid (I always do)

And im like 90% sure its because im overthinking it too much

 

[pslturi]

Yes 1000%

I dread speaking for some reason, my throat goes heavy and I pray I dont say something stupid (I always do)

And im like 90% sure its because im overthinking it too much

overthinking is the death of us all..