No matter how much you looksmax you will always be that insecure kid

[Chadmog]

I have been looksmaxxing for about 2 years. I used to think throughout my life i never had any girl interested in me because i was ugly. So i did almost every softmax and ascended quiet hard. But now i know even if i become Prime Vasiliy Stepanov i will still deep down be that little kid who was bullied for his looks was made fun of when i tried showing my interest in a girl. When i was a kid i used to make it clear that i like a girl but this world made me something i am not.

Today a girl(who was interested in me) and I together were eating ice cream. And she asked for a bite from my ice cream,she even said that she wants me to feed her with my spoon and guess what I literally said I can’t feed you with my spoon as it has been used by me. And when she tried to feed me her ice cream with her spoon I literally even denied it. That girl was very beautiful with a nice personality who was literally a good human. But my traumas from the past made me think in that moment as if “is she made why does she want to taste my ice cream with my spoon”. And it is not the first time it happened everytime any girl shows interest in me I literally get a voice in my head “is she blind why is she showing interest in me”. I think there is no way to forgetmaxx your old self. NO MATTER HOW GOOD LOOKING YOU BECOME BUT DEEP DOWN YOUR MIND WILL REMIND YOU WHO YOU REALLY ARE.

 

[Emiqrox]

Having a good social upbringing as a kid is quite important

 

[Chadmog]

Having a good social upbringing as a kid is quite important

It doesn’t matter when you were laughed at just because of the way you look

 

[itssooverropecope]

It doesn’t matter when you were laughed at just because of the way you look

thats what he just said

 

[Emiqrox]

It doesn’t matter when you were laughed at just because of the way you look

Then you dont have a good social upbringing if you get treated like a subhuman because of your looks

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

mental health issues takes time but you can heal, don't ask me how I haven't fully ascended yet.
what helps imo is being well rested, energetic and present (I like coffee for that) and then its much easier to be confident, just don't take it so seriously

 

[Chadmog]

Then you dont have a good social upbringing if you get treated like a subhuman because of your looks

Sadly this world is not filled with only good people

 

[Chadmog]

mental health issues takes time but you can heal, don't ask me how I haven't fully ascended yet.
what helps imo is being well rested, energetic and present (I like coffee for that) and then its much easier to be confident, just don't take it so seriously

Thnx for the help man

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I have been looksmaxxing for about 2 years. I used to think throughout my life i never had any girl interested in me because i was ugly. So i did almost every softmax and ascended quiet hard. But now i know even if i become Prime Vasiliy Stepanov i will still deep down be that little kid who was bullied for his looks was made fun of when i tried showing my interest in a girl. When i was a kid i used to make it clear that i like a girl but this world made me something i am not.

Today a girl(who was interested in me) and I together were eating ice cream. And she asked for a bite from my ice cream,she even said that she wants me to feed her with my spoon and guess what I literally said I can’t feed you with my spoon as it has been used by me. And when she tried to feed me her ice cream with her spoon I literally even denied it. That girl was very beautiful with a nice personality who was literally a good human. But my traumas from the past made me think in that moment as if “is she made why does she want to taste my ice cream with my spoon”. And it is not the first time it happened everytime any girl shows interest in me I literally get a voice in my head “is she blind why is she showing interest in me”. I think there is no way to forgetmaxx your old self. NO MATTER HOW GOOD LOOKING YOU BECOME BUT DEEP DOWN YOUR MIND WILL REMIND YOU WHO YOU REALLY ARE.

You and your "traumas".

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Sadly this world is not filled with only good people

All are bad bad bad.

 

[Chadmog]

You and your "traumas".

If don’t have traumas than it just a sarcasm for you

 

[Chadmog]

All are bad bad bad.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

If don’t have traumas than it just a sarcasm for you

There's no such thing as trauma.

 

[Chadmog]

There's no such thing as trauma.

It’s over for mentalcels

 

[Lefty Rankin]

It’s over for mentalcels

Just stop being a mentalcel.

 

[renos]

I have been looksmaxxing for about 2 years. I used to think throughout my life i never had any girl interested in me because i was ugly. So i did almost every softmax and ascended quiet hard. But now i know even if i become Prime Vasiliy Stepanov i will still deep down be that little kid who was bullied for his looks was made fun of when i tried showing my interest in a girl. When i was a kid i used to make it clear that i like a girl but this world made me something i am not.

Today a girl(who was interested in me) and I together were eating ice cream. And she asked for a bite from my ice cream,she even said that she wants me to feed her with my spoon and guess what I literally said I can’t feed you with my spoon as it has been used by me. And when she tried to feed me her ice cream with her spoon I literally even denied it. That girl was very beautiful with a nice personality who was literally a good human. But my traumas from the past made me think in that moment as if “is she made why does she want to taste my ice cream with my spoon”. And it is not the first time it happened everytime any girl shows interest in me I literally get a voice in my head “is she blind why is she showing interest in me”. I think there is no way to forgetmaxx your old self. NO MATTER HOW GOOD LOOKING YOU BECOME BUT DEEP DOWN YOUR MIND WILL REMIND YOU WHO YOU REALLY ARE.

i really understand you, for me its quite the same, but it's slowly getting better

A thought that is killing me, is that the girls I'm talking to wouldn't even pay attention to me if i looked like I did 2 years ago

The damage is already done, and it probably will never go fully away, but it will get better, and you will learn to live with it

 

[MrMinimalist]

I have been looksmaxxing for about 2 years. I used to think throughout my life i never had any girl interested in me because i was ugly. So i did almost every softmax and ascended quiet hard. But now i know even if i become Prime Vasiliy Stepanov i will still deep down be that little kid who was bullied for his looks was made fun of when i tried showing my interest in a girl. When i was a kid i used to make it clear that i like a girl but this world made me something i am not.

Today a girl(who was interested in me) and I together were eating ice cream. And she asked for a bite from my ice cream,she even said that she wants me to feed her with my spoon and guess what I literally said I can’t feed you with my spoon as it has been used by me. And when she tried to feed me her ice cream with her spoon I literally even denied it. That girl was very beautiful with a nice personality who was literally a good human. But my traumas from the past made me think in that moment as if “is she made why does she want to taste my ice cream with my spoon”. And it is not the first time it happened everytime any girl shows interest in me I literally get a voice in my head “is she blind why is she showing interest in me”. I think there is no way to forgetmaxx your old self. NO MATTER HOW GOOD LOOKING YOU BECOME BUT DEEP DOWN YOUR MIND WILL REMIND YOU WHO YOU REALLY ARE.

Good read,thanks bro

 

[renos]

Then you dont have a good social upbringing if you get treated like a subhuman because of your looks

Der kriminelle Pistolen-lord?

 

[Emiqrox]

Der kriminelle Pistolen-lord?

Klar

 

[renos]

Klar
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[Chadmog]

i really understand you, for me its quite the same, but it's slowly getting better

A thought that is killing me, is that the girls I'm talking to wouldn't even pay attention to me if i looked like I did 2 years ago

The damage is already done, and it probably will never go fully away, but it will get better, and you will learn to live with it

even knowing that the girl is showing interest in me i don’t feel she is showing interest in me. She is just showing interest in my ascended self

 

[VohnnyBoy]

Having a good social upbringing as a kid is quite important

difference between a normie and incel is this. We all see some mf who we SMV mog to Gandys heaven and back lifemogging us

 

[Chadmog]

difference between a normie and incel is this. We all see some mf who we SMV mog to Gandys heaven and back lifemogging us

That’s the reason why not every normie is an incel

 

[AryanSchizo]

brutal

 

[AverageCurryEnjoyer]

Brutally ovER for mentalcels. I semi ascended and had a girl like me but I fucked it up being aspie. Hardest pill to swallow ngl. Even ifyou ascend, its still your personality JFL.

 

[Chadmog]

Brutally ovER for mentalcels. I semi ascended and had a girl like me but I fucked it up being aspie. Hardest pill to swallow ngl. Even ifyou ascend, its still your personality JFL.

Brutual for mentalcels. Thats why it’s over

 

[JustCallMeKash]

Copium i'll test ts myself after I ascend If I still have your problems amma just take beta blockers of pregab or sum shit

 

[Chadmog]

Ascend then come back. I’ll be waiting for you

 

[Onewithmoss]

I have been looksmaxxing for about 2 years. I used to think throughout my life i never had any girl interested in me because i was ugly. So i did almost every softmax and ascended quiet hard. But now i know even if i become Prime Vasiliy Stepanov i will still deep down be that little kid who was bullied for his looks was made fun of when i tried showing my interest in a girl. When i was a kid i used to make it clear that i like a girl but this world made me something i am not.

Today a girl(who was interested in me) and I together were eating ice cream. And she asked for a bite from my ice cream,she even said that she wants me to feed her with my spoon and guess what I literally said I can’t feed you with my spoon as it has been used by me. And when she tried to feed me her ice cream with her spoon I literally even denied it. That girl was very beautiful with a nice personality who was literally a good human. But my traumas from the past made me think in that moment as if “is she made why does she want to taste my ice cream with my spoon”. And it is not the first time it happened everytime any girl shows interest in me I literally get a voice in my head “is she blind why is she showing interest in me”. I think there is no way to forgetmaxx your old self. NO MATTER HOW GOOD LOOKING YOU BECOME BUT DEEP DOWN YOUR MIND WILL REMIND YOU WHO YOU REALLY ARE.

I understand this feeling alot. I was never bullied when I was younger but I was completely invisible, like nobody even paid enough attention to me to want to bully me. As I've gotten older and I started softmaxxing and became significantly better looking I still become surprised or somewhat have a feeling of imposter syndrome when I realize that people take interest in me, and actually like me now. Sometimes I'll be feeling somewhat shit about myself and wonder what it is about me that makes women not like me but then I remember that actually quite a lot of women have liked me, and each time I remember that its like somebody just disproved something I thought was 100% true, its a very strange feeling. I think it'll likely go away with time once we get more used to being a better person than we were before. The body can change quickly but for the most part thought patterns that were instilled in us throughout our childhood will take much longer to shift.

 

[Chadmog]

I understand this feeling alot. I was never bullied when I was younger but I was completely invisible, like nobody even paid enough attention to me to want to bully me. As I've gotten older and I started softmaxxing and became significantly better looking I still become surprised or somewhat have a feeling of imposter syndrome when I realize that people take interest in me, and actually like me now. Sometimes I'll be feeling somewhat shit about myself and wonder what it is about me that makes women not like me but then I remember that actually quite a lot of women have liked me, and each time I remember that its like somebody just disproved something I thought was 100% true, its a very strange feeling. I think it'll likely go away with time once we get more used to being a better person than we were before. The body can change quickly but for the most part thought patterns that were instilled in us throughout our childhood will take much longer to shift.

I also feel the same but i just can’t accept that i have changed. I still see myself as i was before looksmaxxing. It may take sometime. Wait for the best

 

[AverageCurryEnjoyer]

I understand this feeling alot. I was never bullied when I was younger but I was completely invisible, like nobody even paid enough attention to me to want to bully me. As I've gotten older and I started softmaxxing and became significantly better looking I still become surprised or somewhat have a feeling of imposter syndrome when I realize that people take interest in me, and actually like me now. Sometimes I'll be feeling somewhat shit about myself and wonder what it is about me that makes women not like me but then I remember that actually quite a lot of women have liked me, and each time I remember that its like somebody just disproved something I thought was 100% true, its a very strange feeling. I think it'll likely go away with time once we get more used to being a better person than we were before. The body can change quickly but for the most part thought patterns that were instilled in us throughout our childhood will take much longer to shift.

soon

 

[SeiGun]

nah man, understand previous lack of love and then getting it now, spike my dopemine far higher, accept your new life and enjoy the privilage that you dint have before

 

[Chadmog]

nah man, understand previous lack of love and then getting it now, spike my dopemine far higher, accept your new life and enjoy the privilage that you dint have before

Maybe i just have to let go

 

[cheekbonesforlife]

Personally I think if you have enough positive experiences after looksmaxing, you’ll start to develop a more NT attitude automatically.
Btw what softmaxxes you did that ascended you hard?

 

[Chadmog]

Personally I think if you have enough positive experiences after looksmaxing, you’ll start to develop a more NT attitude automatically.
Btw what softmaxxes you did that ascended you hard?

Leanmaxx
Skinmaxx
Tanmaxx
Healthmaxx
Mewing
Dietmaxx
Fraudmaxx
Coloringmaxx
And a little more

 

[cheekbonesforlife]

Leanmaxx
Skinmaxx
Tanmaxx
Healthmaxx
Mewing
Dietmaxx
Fraudmaxx
Coloringmaxx
And a little more

How’d you skinmaxx and coloringmaxx? I’ve been trying to do that for a lot of time but failing. Also by healthmax I assume just general stuff like gym, diet, sleep etc.?

 

[SilverStCloud]

True, that s why looksmaxxing should be done in a quick yet sustainable matter. Too many people get into it and remain stuck in fixing imperfections that dont affect them that much and chasing PSL autist standards, yeah some people need surgery and hardmaxxing to ascend but the majority doesn t to get to a degree where they can get women at a decent rate. People forget that the reason they are looksmaxxing in the first place is to improve life quality and instead chase faggot tier standards that will only impress other men long term.
Looksmaxx to a degree YOU are content at and get good results and from there just maintain and live the life you always dreamed of

 

[Chadmog]

How’d you skinmaxx and coloringmaxx? I’ve been trying to do that for a lot of time but failing. Also by healthmax I assume just general stuff like gym, diet, sleep etc.?

For coloringmaxx just find out which hair colour will suit you better and for skinmaxxing eat good and use a little chemical stuff which your akin requires. And for healthmaxx basically means to do everything which is beneficial for your overall health like gym cardio enough sleep good diet and every other thing

 

[Chadmog]

True, that s why looksmaxxing should be done in a quick yet sustainable matter. Too many people get into it and remain stuck in fixing imperfections that dont affect them that much and chasing PSL autist standards, yeah some people need surgery and hardmaxxing to ascend but the majority doesn t to get to a degree where they can get women at a decent rate. People forget that the reason they are looksmaxxing in the first place is to improve life quality and instead chase faggot tier standards that will only impress other men long term.
Looksmaxx to a degree YOU are content at and get good results and from there just maintain and live the life you always dreamed of

Yeah the reason for looksmaxxing goes from looking better to looking best and then roping as we can’t become perfect. This should be eliminated the minute we ascend

 

[McSkziofren]

It doesn’t matter when you were laughed at just because of the way you look

deeply

 

[zharupodrugu]

being sexually active improves mental health

 

[Chadmog]

being sexually active improves mental health

you can’t fill the void just by sex. You need love

 

[aids]

I like that I am conscious of the struggles that relatively inferior-looking people experience. I think it makes me more in touch with people in general. Part of me would’ve wanted to never experience being worse looking but it’s a gift, not a curse.

 

[Chadmog]

I like that I am conscious of the struggles that relatively inferior-looking people experience. I think it makes me more in touch with people in general. Part of me would’ve wanted to never experience being worse looking but it’s a gift, not a curse.

I now feel bad for people who are inferior interms of look. Literally they are begging for kindness but this world literally is too hard on them. This is gift to feel the emotions of others

 

[zharupodrugu]

you can’t fill the void just by sex. You need love

sex with consent enjoyable for both not hookers. U cant cheat ur way out of it

 

[Chadmog]

sex with consent enjoyable for both not hookers. U cant cheat ur way out of it

Maybe maybe not