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My dad is an abusive narcy asshole and my mom is an allowing overbearing depressed also narcy piece of work
My dad financially stunted me and my mom socially stunted me, this pattern continued in my adulthood: I depended on other men to do shit for me when I felt like actually doing shit irl and getting my shit together and foids who actually didn't give a fuck about me suddenly starting to care about me bcuz of some shitty maternal instinct bullshit (i'm not humblebragging they actually were never interested in me romantically they just thought i was suicidal and tried to integrate me into society giving me bullshit advice)
Tho I knew better at that point than to listen to that advice or become emotionally attached to these women because of those experiences with my mom so that really didn't affect me
In the end I made it through alive somehow but what I'm left with now is the skills I lack because of overly depending on others
So yeah only one that can save you is you and evading problems in life by getting help from others will catch up to your ass before you know it
My dad financially stunted me and my mom socially stunted me, this pattern continued in my adulthood: I depended on other men to do shit for me when I felt like actually doing shit irl and getting my shit together and foids who actually didn't give a fuck about me suddenly starting to care about me bcuz of some shitty maternal instinct bullshit (i'm not humblebragging they actually were never interested in me romantically they just thought i was suicidal and tried to integrate me into society giving me bullshit advice)
Tho I knew better at that point than to listen to that advice or become emotionally attached to these women because of those experiences with my mom so that really didn't affect me
In the end I made it through alive somehow but what I'm left with now is the skills I lack because of overly depending on others
So yeah only one that can save you is you and evading problems in life by getting help from others will catch up to your ass before you know it
