No Surgery for your Personality.

[Deleted member 12330]

@Forum chads, I could use some advice. I've been trying to LTR a few women in the past who are so into me, but as soon as they realized that I'm not neurotypical, they lost interest and left me. It's frustrating because I want to find a meaningful long-term relationship, but it seems like most women only care about their first impressions of me (I.e physical appearance) .

Additionally, I find it difficult to relate to women when they talk about their everyday naggings. I'm not sure if it's because of my non-neurotypicality or something else, but I feel like I can't really connect with them on a deeper level. Often times Our conversation revolves around "How's your day?" and that shit is so fucking repetitive and what makes it boring is the fact that I have to be the one initiating the convo. Every Fucking Day.

EVEN FILIPINA BECKIES CAN BREAK MY HEART. IT'S OVER.

So my question is: how do you NON NT ASPIE guys navigate the dating world and establish a meaningful relationship with someone without her losing interest on you after realizing you're actually devoid of emotion?

 

[MoggerGaston]

but as soon as they realized that I'm not neurotypical, they lost interest and left me.

cope

they dont like the way you look else they wouldn't care

 

[Deleted member 12330]

cope

they dont like the way you look else they wouldn't care

Interesting take, So you're telling me women would date guys they don't like for a few weeks Just for fun and to waste the man's money?

 

[MoggerGaston]

Interesting take, So you're telling me women would date guys they don't like for a few weeks Just for fun and to waste the man's money?

yes

 

[Aypo129]

@Forum chads, I could use some advice. I've been trying to LTR a few women in the past who are so into me, but as soon as they realized that I'm not neurotypical, they lost interest and left me. It's frustrating because I want to find a meaningful long-term relationship, but it seems like most women only care about their first impressions of me (I.e physical appearance) .

Additionally, I find it difficult to relate to women when they talk about their everyday naggings. I'm not sure if it's because of my non-neurotypicality or something else, but I feel like I can't really connect with them on a deeper level. Often times Our conversation revolves around "How's your day?" and that shit is so fucking repetitive and what makes it boring is the fact that I have to be the one initiating the convo. Every Fucking Day.

So my question is: how do you NON NT ASPIE guys navigate the dating world and establish a meaningful relationship with someone without her losing interest on you after realizing you're actually devoid of emotion?

Tbh
You might be a stone cold nigger
Try making friends first
Not bastard ones to mellow down a bit

 

[Aypo129]

No face for your dead inside

 

[Deleted member 17872]

No face for your dead inside

No face for my crippling pure-ocd

 

[Deleted member 12330]

Tbh
You might be a stone cold nigger
Try making friends first
Not bastard ones to mellow down a bit

Thanks, I guess what's making it worse is the fact that I only have one friend irl and he's inkel.
I get thousands of IOI/cold approach from women every month whenever I go out, but once they get to know me, they'd literally 0 me.

 

[Deleted member 16970]

Well you have to unbottle ur emotions. Obviously things make u happy and laugh but u probably think she wont like it.

Just be urself. If it doesn’t work, oh well?

 

[Deleted member 12330]

Well you have to unbottle ur emotions. Obviously things make u happy and laugh but u probably think she wont like it.

Just be urself. If it doesn’t work, oh well?

I mean, were all ascending to chads just to be ourselves. I guess being ourselves isn't enough sometimes. It's brutal knowing that even @Amnesia who's just being himself though he does often mog the foids he dates to the moon and back can still be treated like shit. Is it because women are just unpredictable?

 

[garoupilled_]

I mean, were all ascending to chads just to be ourselves. I guess being ourselves isn't enough sometimes. It's brutal knowing that even @Amnesia who's just being himself though he does often mog the foids he dates to the moon and back can still be treated like shit. Is it because women are just unpredictable?

yes that's exactly it

you're trying to find a rational explanation for an irrational sex

 

[Deleted member 12330]

yes that's exactly it

you're trying to find a rational explanation for an irrational sex

Brutal ngl, Dating is Rigged.