Non-NT= struggling with commitment

[Deleted member 31519]

Autistic people (level 1) is pretty much Asperger’s syndrome which is what most people on this forum probably have.


mild autism will affect your ability to maintain relationships not only with women but with everybody . Even if somebody is good looking , they will still struggle if they are on the autism spectrum. This non sense about autism being “ shy and awkward” is bullshit. Most aspies have a friend group , but their friends have adhd, autism or both , OR their neurotypical friends have an interest that they like, and that friendship will eventually end ( happened to me plenty of times back than )


The best way to succeed with Asperger’s is to find women who have the same disorder or at least adhd, most have both anyways. You’re fucked if you go for neurotypical women especially if you haven’t learned any masking techniques. If a girl just has ADHD , that’s fine too because people with adhd Do have normal social skills except they love to talk and symptoms overlap so, your autistic behaviour might not bother them so much. Overall the relationship will have a better outcome if both people are autistic , and autism doesn’t mean you are a sub 5, theres plenty of different kinds of girls who have it.


Problem is many people do not realize they are on the spectrum because level 1 autism can be very difficult to notice depending on how it presents itself . Overall , NT matters for dating, friends, and employment .



Chances are if you are autistic w/decent to good looks , women will often get really excited to meet you, and then when they finally meet you , they ghost you right after . This means , if you were to run redpill game and learn masking techniques you can do hook ups.



Height is also important , but as long as you are taller than the girl , you should be alright .

 

[Sprinkles]

 

[Deleted member 23115]

Tbh u got everything right

 

[Deleted member 31519]

Tbh u got everything right

Yep, pretty much . My high school experience was brutal and that’s why, I was called attractive by a lot of people , and Even had normal people talk to me but nothing ever lasted, because of neurodivergence . Maintained 0 friendships

 

[Nasi Lemak]

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[Deleted member 23115]

Yep, pretty much . My high school experience was brutal and that’s why, I was called attractive by a lot of people , and Even had normal people talk to me but nothing ever lasted, because of neurodivergence . Maintained 0 friendships

Looks>nt when it comes to girls

 

[Deleted member 23115]

If ur non nt and have looks all u need to do is find a specific kinda girl even if many eventually reject u. Looks is always above nt

 

[Deleted member 31519]

Looks>nt when it comes to girls

And height . If you are good looking but manlet you will still get girls just not as much as tall ones

 

[Deleted member 31519]

If ur non nt and have looks all u need to do is find a specific kinda girl even if many eventually reject u. Looks is always above nt

There’s many autistic cute girls too.

 

[Deleted member 31519]

I don't wanna be with a mentally ill girl

Neurotypical life or death

Neurotypical doesn’t mean mental illness

 

[InSplit]

Yep, pretty much . My high school experience was brutal and that’s why, I was called attractive by a lot of people , and Even had normal people talk to me but nothing ever lasted, because of neurodivergence . Maintained 0 friendships

Do you mean the friendships didn't last while you were in highschool? It ends after highschool anyways its very rare to maintain it.

 

[Deleted member 31519]

Do you mean the friendships didn't last while you were in highschool? It ends after highschool anyways its very rare to maintain it.

I lost all my friends before it ended, I only had 1 friend after it ended which was only maintained because he had the same exact interests as me . My friendships were always interest based. It’s all I talked out .

 

[Deleted member 31519]

.... no shit?



THAT WAS LITERALLY ME

Because you have a social problem lol, if what I said matched up to you . I was treated well at the start , at end everyone hated my guts.

 

[Kater Maxxing]

No nigga here wants a relationship. Only one night stand

 

[autistic_tendencies]

All this babble to say looks height still matter in the end
Wtf hahahahah

 

[Deleted member 31519]

No nigga here wants a relationship. Only one night stand

Than your fine lolo, it’s not hard to do redpill game especially with dating apps. Just post professional photos and copy and paste pick up lines . Unless you are a legit sub 5 , it’s do able.

 

[Deleted member 31519]

I just wanna magically shake off the autism and call it a day

Impossible because even if you learn some social skills , your still going to have special interests and sensory issues

 

[Entschuldigung]

I hate committing that's true

 

[Deleted member 31519]

All this babble to say looks height still matter in the end
Wtf hahahahah

Lol looks and height obviously matter , but if you take away every other aspect you are going to be selling yourself short .

 

[Deleted member 31519]

fuck off nihilist

but elaborate?

Because autism isn’t just being a reclused awkward stereotype , many undiagnosed people have these highly focused interests that neurotypical people see as wierd. You can’t suppress your special interests because without them your miserable .

 

[Deleted member 31519]

Mine is music and art and philosophy so I think it's NT enough

I can't stand videogames

If your special interests are socially acceptable you won’t get made fun of as much .

 

[Sprinkles]

If your special interests are socially acceptable you won’t get made fun of as much .

Yeah my special interests are taxidermy and scat pornography .

 

[ezio6]

Its over for mildautism chadcel

 

[Deleted member 32486]

My special interests are .org, electrical engineering, microtonality, and luthierie. Specifically niches within the latter 3 categories. Hopeful or ropefuel?

 

[Deleted member 31519]

Yeah my special interests are taxidermy and scat pornography

You sure they are actually special interests ?

 

[Deleted member 27746]

Yep, pretty much . My high school experience was brutal and that’s why, I was called attractive by a lot of people , and Even had normal people talk to me but nothing ever lasted, because of neurodivergence . Maintained 0 friendships

exactly the same for me i dont know how i wasnt diagnosed with autism when i was younger

 

[Deleted member 31519]

exactly the same for me i dont know how i wasnt diagnosed with autism when i was younger

Because there is stigma with autism, there’s a whole bunch of undiagnosed autistics out there . Also, it’s a spectrum so it looks different in everyone . Some have speech issues and some don’t .

 

[NotoriousLoser]

Thank god im happy alone

 

[Xangsane]

Autistic people (level 1) is pretty much Asperger’s syndrome which is what most people on this forum probably have.


mild autism will affect your ability to maintain relationships not only with women but with everybody . Even if somebody is good looking , they will still struggle if they are on the autism spectrum. This non sense about autism being “ shy and awkward” is bullshit. Most aspies have a friend group , but their friends have adhd, autism or both , OR their neurotypical friends have an interest that they like, and that friendship will eventually end ( happened to me plenty of times back than )


The best way to succeed with Asperger’s is to find women who have the same disorder or at least adhd, most have both anyways. You’re fucked if you go for neurotypical women especially if you haven’t learned any masking techniques. If a girl just has ADHD , that’s fine too because people with adhd Do have normal social skills except they love to talk and symptoms overlap so, your autistic behaviour might not bother them so much. Overall the relationship will have a better outcome if both people are autistic , and autism doesn’t mean you are a sub 5, theres plenty of different kinds of girls who have it.


Problem is many people do not realize they are on the spectrum because level 1 autism can be very difficult to notice depending on how it presents itself . Overall , NT matters for dating, friends, and employment .



Chances are if you are autistic w/decent to good looks , women will often get really excited to meet you, and then when they finally meet you , they ghost you right after . This means , if you were to run redpill game and learn masking techniques you can do hook ups.



Height is also important , but as long as you are taller than the girl , you should be alright .

I've got Aspergers but I want commitment. I'd say I'm anxiously attached so I tend to double/triple text my GF.

 

[Deleted member 31519]

I've got Aspergers but I want commitment. I'd say I'm anxiously attached so I tend to double/triple text my GF.

commitment is better

 

[Xangsane]

commitment is better

I feel anxious if things aren't set in stone relationship wise. I'm always on the lookout for my gf.

 

[Deleted member 31519]

I feel anxious if things aren't set in stone relationship wise. I'm always on the lookout for my gf.

I get anxious and panic when anything changes happen , plan wise or at my job . Change is a big issue with Asperger’s, but my job is janitorial , so I can do my own thing. I actually like cleaning , it’s soothing and calms me down . Anything that involves multitasking or group work i can’t function

 

[Xangsane]

I get anxious and panic when anything changes happen , plan wise or at my job . Change is a big issue with Asperger’s

Would you say having an anxious attachment style is indicative of Asperger's?

 

[Deleted member 31519]

Would you say having an anxious attachment style is indicative of Asperger's?

Could be, neurotypicals can be like that too if they enough trauma. Most aspies have trauma from disorder alone . Main thing is your childhood to look at it . You’ll know if you are autistic if you research it and it all makes sense

 

[TUSSELEIF]

Autistic people (level 1) is pretty much Asperger’s syndrome which is what most people on this forum probably have.


mild autism will affect your ability to maintain relationships not only with women but with everybody . Even if somebody is good looking , they will still struggle if they are on the autism spectrum. This non sense about autism being “ shy and awkward” is bullshit. Most aspies have a friend group , but their friends have adhd, autism or both , OR their neurotypical friends have an interest that they like, and that friendship will eventually end ( happened to me plenty of times back than )

Yeah aspergers is very brutal. I struggle heavily with getting to know people, getting close with them and such. I have never really had true friends, always kinda been the second or third choice, but since 2016 I haven’t had any friends at all. Even on this forum I notice people form cliches, but I haven’t really made any close connections on here except for another aspie

The best way to succeed with Asperger’s is to find women who have the same disorder or at least adhd, most have both anyways. You’re fucked if you go for neurotypical women especially if you haven’t learned any masking techniques. If a girl just has ADHD , that’s fine too because people with adhd Do have normal social skills except they love to talk and symptoms overlap so, your autistic behaviour might not bother them so much.

I went on a date with a girl with adhd, and she made fun of her autistic classmate who did weird similar stuff I did as a kid (but I didn’t tell her that). She ghosted me after the second date

Problem is many people do not realize they are on the spectrum because level 1 autism can be very difficult to notice depending on how it presents itself . Overall , NT matters for dating, friends, and employment .

Didn’t realize I was autistic until middle school, when I couldn’t keep new friends at all at my new school. Old friends ostracized me, classmates ostracized me, etc, and I didn’t know why or understand why I was different, until I dropped out, went into therapy and got diagnosed

Chances are if you are autistic w/decent to good looks , women will often get really excited to meet you, and then when they finally meet you , they ghost you right after .

This has happened to me lots of times. Initial interest from the girls is there. A lot of them initiated the dates and everything, but when we met up, they ghosted me after the date. A lot of my dates say to me that I’m serious and without emotion, and that I’m "difficult to read"

 

[Graham]

Chances are if you are autistic w/decent to good looks , women will often get really excited to meet you, and then when they finally meet you , they ghost you right after . This means , if you were to run redpill game and learn masking techniques you can do hook ups.

Autistic people have it harder, sure, but this is kinda cope. I know GL autistic guys and they still get girls.

This is usually cope from stylemaxxed autistic MTNs who think they're HTN+, and therefore come to the conclusion that looks don't halo out aspergers (I used to fall into this group too).

Granted, MTNs overrating themselves isn't exclusive to autistic people - the vast majority of bluepilled and redpilled people overestimate their looks too.

 

[oldcelcel1983]

If your special interests are socially acceptable you won’t get made fun of as much .

Since when are video games not socially acceptable? It's a billion dollar industry.

 

[Maalik]

Autistic people (level 1) is pretty much Asperger’s syndrome which is what most people on this forum probably have.


mild autism will affect your ability to maintain relationships not only with women but with everybody . Even if somebody is good looking , they will still struggle if they are on the autism spectrum. This non sense about autism being “ shy and awkward” is bullshit. Most aspies have a friend group , but their friends have adhd, autism or both , OR their neurotypical friends have an interest that they like, and that friendship will eventually end ( happened to me plenty of times back than )


The best way to succeed with Asperger’s is to find women who have the same disorder or at least adhd, most have both anyways. You’re fucked if you go for neurotypical women especially if you haven’t learned any masking techniques. If a girl just has ADHD , that’s fine too because people with adhd Do have normal social skills except they love to talk and symptoms overlap so, your autistic behaviour might not bother them so much. Overall the relationship will have a better outcome if both people are autistic , and autism doesn’t mean you are a sub 5, theres plenty of different kinds of girls who have it.


Problem is many people do not realize they are on the spectrum because level 1 autism can be very difficult to notice depending on how it presents itself . Overall , NT matters for dating, friends, and employment .



Chances are if you are autistic w/decent to good looks , women will often get really excited to meet you, and then when they finally meet you , they ghost you right after . This means , if you were to run redpill game and learn masking techniques you can do hook ups.



Height is also important , but as long as you are taller than the girl , you should be alright .

i see no reason to believe something like what you described should even be labelled as a hard mental illness. It just seems like a personality trait somebody may or may not have and may or may not develop/remove. Nowadays the psychiatrists just look for literally any deviation from the norm and label it as mental illness. Except wanting to transform into the opposite gender. That's normal and healthy in soyciety

 

[Deleted member 31519]

Anybody can get a mental illness .


Autism is what you are born with.

 

[Deleted member 31519]

Autistic people have it harder, sure, but this is kinda cope. I know GL autistic guys and they still get girls.

This is usually cope from stylemaxxed autistic MTNs who think they're HTN+, and therefore come to the conclusion that looks don't halo out aspergers (I used to fall into this group too).

Granted, MTNs overrating themselves isn't exclusive to autistic people - the vast majority of bluepilled and redpilled people overestimate their looks too.

Autistic people have it harder, sure, but this is kinda cope. I know GL autistic guys and they still get girls.

This is usually cope from stylemaxxed autistic MTNs who think they're HTN+, and therefore come to the conclusion that looks don't halo out aspergers (I used to fall into this group too).

Granted, MTNs overrating themselves isn't exclusive to autistic people - the vast majority of bluepilled and redpilled people overestimate their looks too.

I never said they can’t get women, they struggle more compared to normal
People

 

[Graham]

they struggle more compared to normal
People

Not if GL. I know an autistic chadlite/chad, and I really don't think being NT would help much when you already have that level of success. He easily does better than NT MTNs and probably NT HTNs too.

 

[gribsufer1]

girls are more nt than boys on average its so fucked if i was female i would be in a huge social circle