None of your friends want to see you being successful.

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Think about it, do you really think anybody really cares about you being successful in the future or even in the present?

Once you are successful or on the way to being it, you will see how people will try to take you down like they never liked you to begin with.

Real friends aren't those that encourage you to smoke weed or drink alcohol, real friends are the ones that try to drag you to the finish line.

I came to that conclusion because I realized that not a lot of my supposed friends really care about me on a deeper level and I got betrayed by one in the last weeks.

He basically talked behind my back to impress girls, he dumped our friendship for them basically.
 
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I feel like shit right now, please take the time and read :feelsrope:
 
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I feel like shit right now, please take the time and read :feelsrope:
can agree tbh,~
 
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water normies secretly hate you if ur subhuman
 
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can agree tbh,
Did you read actually or are you just acting 😭

I experienced brutal friendshippill these last days in real life
 
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Did you read actually or are you just acting 😭

I experienced brutal friendshippill these last days in real life
i did nigga🤌 , capiche?
 
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water normies secretly hate you if ur subhuman
It's not only that, normies literally hate on anybody. Take any celebrity as an example, everyone starts to get hate at some point in their life.
 
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you will see how people will try to take you down like they never liked you to begin with.
never got sucessful so
real friends are the ones that try to drag you to the finish line.
i feel like i am always the one who tries to drag the people that i consider my friends but it doesnt go to same way for me as i see tbh :Comfy:
I came to that conclusion because I realized that not a lot of my supposed friends really care about me on a deeper level and I got betrayed by one in the last weeks.
my friends betrayed me one by one when i was at my lowest i feel your pain bruder
He basically talked behind my back to impress girls
he basically lied about me to the whole group even saying i assaulted him :forcedsmile: this guy was my "bestfriend" btw
 
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It's not only that, normies literally hate on anybody. Take any celebrity as an example, everyone starts to get hate at some point in their life.
normies hate on others because it gives them a dopamine rush :lul:
 
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never got sucessful so

i feel like i am always the one who tries to drag the people that i consider my friends but it doesnt go to same way for me as i see tbh :Comfy:

my friends betrayed me one by one when i was at my lowest i feel your pain bruder

he basically lied about me to the whole group even saying i assaulted him :forcedsmile: this guy was my "bestfriend" btw
Everyone is experiencing that brutal friendship-pill I guess at some point in their life, the only people that want to see us up are really just our parents with the exchange that we don't do the mistakes they did in the past.

The only solution I see is to really just focus on yourself 100% every time and to put my emotions aside when I need to take important decisions.

I guess humans are just created this way though, its nobodys fault really that people do negative things to other people.
 
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normies hate on others because it gives them a dopamine rush :lul:
Whatever makes them better really, humans are egoistical but we can't blame anyone. It is our nature to be this way.
 
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yes they do lol u just have shitty friends
 
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Only someone who likes themselves like yourself
 
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Whatever makes them better really, humans are egoistical but we can't blame anyone. It is our nature to be this way.
humans are inherently shit and evil beings :feelsokman:
 
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How old are you btw?
 
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If youre under 20 this is more common, people tend to mature with age
 
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Only someone who likes themselves like yourself
I don't really understand this, please explain. Do you mean it in a way like "the only person that wants to see you up is yourself" type way?
humans are inherently shit and evil beings :feelsokman:
There is no good with the absence of evil though, maybe life is just a test at the end of the day to influence the world in a positive way.
 
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yes can confirm
 
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If youre under 20 this is more common, people tend to mature with age
That's true, it is just more brutal the younger you are. Life should be easier when younger not the other way around :ogre: But I guess this "difficulty" gets balanced by having other responsibilites as an adult.
 
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none of my who:lul::lul::lul:?
 
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Very true. They're literally hoping for me to fail. Always tryna demotivate me
 
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Think about it, do you really think anybody really cares about you being successful in the future or even in the present?

Once you are successful or on the way to being it, you will see how people will try to take you down like they never liked you to begin with.

Real friends aren't those that encourage you to smoke weed or drink alcohol, real friends are the ones that try to drag you to the finish line.

I came to that conclusion because I realized that not a lot of my supposed friends really care about me on a deeper level and I got betrayed by one in the last weeks.

He basically talked behind my back to impress girls, he dumped our friendship for them basically.
This is just water, a kid discovering how humans work ahh
 
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I have a friend who is a great person, they are rare but they are there
 
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He basically talked behind my back to impress girls, he dumped our friendship for them basically.
Yea this unfortunately seems to be pretty common. I’ve experienced it and many guys I know had as well.

Pretty related to this, you should check this out. 37:18 to 38:9
 
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You cannot trust someone who lack girlfriends, or money or other special things

He is gonna betray you in matter of time
 
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Very true. They're literally hoping for me to fail. Always tryna demotivate me
Don't let them get to you, try to create a mental barrier between you and them. It is really sickening having friends like this, if you have the option change your social circle or maintain a few to have alternatives.
This is just water, a kid discovering how humans work ahh
Some people don't get this during their whole life time, it may be slightly water but it is a good reminder anyone needs to hear from time to time.
Yea this unfortunately seems to be pretty common. I’ve experienced it and many guys I know had as well.

Pretty related to this, you should check this out. 37:18 to 38:9

That "friend" I talked about in the beginning was exactly like this, now suddenly he talked about my secrets openly without feeling bad.
 
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@mrmogger2882 @REGULUS @itzyaboyJJ @DR. NICKGA @menas

I feel like shit right now, please take the time and read :feelsrope:
Why be sad of losing a faggot, fuck him then

You lost nothing in value
 
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Don't let them get to you, try to create a mental barrier between you and them. It is really sickening having friends like this, if you have the option change your social circle or maintain a few to have alternatives.
Thanks. I don't actually hang out with anyone outside of school so it doesn't really affect me :unsure:
 
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Edgy ahh nigga

Let the kid discover
Not like I never ever experienced this type of betrayal before, but it was a good reminder.
You cannot trust someone who lack girlfriends, or money or other special things

He is gonna betray you in matter of time
Lack of x or y + You have x or y -> He will rip it out of your hands as fast as he can

Literally how chemistry works with atoms etc., the one that needs it the most will win :ogre:
 
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There’s no such thing as friend. It’s what you can provide and what you get in return. People who get a gf forget their „friends“ or would backstab you for any girl that comes along
 
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Think about it, do you really think anybody really cares about you being successful in the future or even in the present?

Once you are successful or on the way to being it, you will see how people will try to take you down like they never liked you to begin with.

Real friends aren't those that encourage you to smoke weed or drink alcohol, real friends are the ones that try to drag you to the finish line.

I came to that conclusion because I realized that not a lot of my supposed friends really care about me on a deeper level and I got betrayed by one in the last weeks.

He basically talked behind my back to impress girls, he dumped our friendship for them basically.
Except your parents, children and maybe siblings and spouse no one really cares about you. Even whether you live or die. I have had a friend die in a motorcycle crash and I didnt feel much except some transient shock and sorrow. I myself was shocked at how little I felt and came to the conclusion that that is what others will feel when I die. Not much really.
 
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Lack of x or y + You have x or y -> He will rip it out of your hands as fast as he can

Literally how chemistry works with atoms etc., the one that needs it the most will win :ogre:
More like just basic human urges like

Woman (reproduction)
Money (power, more resources)
or even worse
seeing others being beautifull, having a good body (jelousy??)
 
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