Noone socializes after high school/first year of college

[InnerVoid]

im in a volunteering group and most guys and girls in it arent friends with each other. they barely interact and the very few ones that have a friendly relationship do so because they are in the same class in college so they knew each other before joining.

thats why the socialiizing advice is cope. i have been trying to socialize for a decade its impossible no mater where you go. people always have friend groups from high school or super early college days and they absolutely never bother creating new ones. its crazy.

as a result you cannot have a social circle, you cannot have a social life and you become rotter. your entire life is determined in the 12-18 year range but tbh, if you dont have established a friend gorup in hs, you wont be doing so in college either.

this is a brutal truth that a lot wont admit and it also ties in with the overall deterministic nature of society and how people are confined to a specific posistion in social equilibrium till they die. For example, i will never have, no matte how mnay girls i meet, they system will aways make it so tat i regress to inceldom.

You CANNOT escape your predestined place, you can deviate from it all you want, the matrix will eliminate all deviations eventually and you will be back where you started. Life is a simulation.

 

[Bojack]

you just don't have the social skills or your just ostracized for one reason or another. Normies are always normieing with eachother 24/7 lol.

 

[InnerVoid]

you just don't have the social skills or your just ostracized for one reason or another. Normies are always normieing with eachother 24/7 lol.

cope. they dont, at least in my country. eveyrone sticks to their friend group from hs or early college

 

[Allornothing]

People always socialise with each other but friends are made very early on.

 

[romanstock]

Real shit.

 

[InnerVoid]

People always socialise with each other but friends are made very early on.

life is decided at 12-18

 

[XtrovertNTnormalfag]

Normies have been building social networks since kindergarden.

 

[Lebgfinal]

Normies have been building social networks since kindergarden.

not possible when you are like me and you move out different cities multiples times during your childhood jfl
If i didnt move out i probably wouldnt be friendless

 

[InnerVoid]

Normies have been building social networks since kindergarden.

yep and you cant magically become a normie like copers here claim

 

[XtrovertNTnormalfag]

yep and you cant magically become a normie like copers here claim

I think people in USA can because they have a culture of often moving cities ans states.
In Europe it is different, everything is more determinted early on.

 

[InnerVoid]

In Europe it is different, everything is more determinted early on.

europe is a deterministic shithole especially the south

 

[WayneBraaaah]

im in a volunteering group and most guys and girls in it arent friends with each other. they barely interact and the very few ones that have a friendly relationship do so because they are in the same class in college so they knew each other before joining.

thats why the socialiizing advice is cope. i have been trying to socialize for a decade its impossible no mater where you go. people always have friend groups from high school or super early college days and they absolutely never bother creating new ones. its crazy.

as a result you cannot have a social circle, you cannot have a social life and you become rotter. your entire life is determined in the 12-18 year range but tbh, if you dont have established a friend gorup in hs, you wont be doing so in college either.

this is a brutal truth that a lot wont admit and it also ties in with the overall deterministic nature of society and how people are confined to a specific posistion in social equilibrium till they die. For example, i will never have, no matte how mnay girls i meet, they system will aways make it so tat i regress to inceldom.

You CANNOT escape your predestined place, you can deviate from it all you want, the matrix will eliminate all deviations eventually and you will be back where you started. Life is a simulation.

nigger, you have 10K+ in less than 3 months. Mostly all in offtopic section.

You are in no position to waffle about socializing.

 

[Allornothing]

yep and you cant magically become a normie like copers here claim

Only if you’re Chadlite+

 

[InnerVoid]

Only if you’re Chadlite+

you can do anything then lol

 

[Luffymaxxing]

If you're born in Greece it's ova

 

[InnerVoid]

If you're born in Greece it's ova

greece is a deterministic shithole

 

[New Poster]

socialization is pointless anyway

 

[News]

socialization is pointless anyway

 

[Pikabro]

Normies have been building social networks since kindergarden.

Well tbh ofc they would be considering having friendship is a basic need. People like me already developed mental issues by 10 yo. But ngl I am a soft pussy

 

[National Rodgerism]

cope. they dont, at least in my country. eveyrone sticks to their friend group from hs or early college

which country?

 

[copemaxxeer]

im in a volunteering group and most guys and girls in it arent friends with each other. they barely interact and the very few ones that have a friendly relationship do so because they are in the same class in college so they knew each other before joining.

This is true, I even see lots of friends that are not even that compatible with each other sticking together because they dont bother talking with other people, lots of the really brutal looks disparity levels couples happen because there is no one else to pick from, either some ex or the guy that treats you fine and its somewhat popular (in a jester way) with your friends

 

[InnerVoid]

his is true, I even see lots of friends that are not even that compatible with each other sticking together because they dont bother talking with other people, lots of the really brutal looks disparity levels couples happen because there is no one else to pick from, either some ex or the guy that treats you fine and its somewhat popular (in a jester way) with your friends

yeah, you always need to know people from before otherwise you are screwed which is why im probably gonna rope

 

[InnerVoid]

which country?

greece

 

[copemaxxeer]

yeah, you always need to know people from before otherwise you are screwed which is why im probably gonna rope

Why don't you enroll in another bachelor degree instead?

 

[IntelligentCel]

Life ends at 18. After the age of 18, you become a wage-slave that exists under the rule of the consumerist-capitalist system and the so-called rat race.

Very few people will escape the rat race Matrix.

 

[InnerVoid]

Why don't you enroll in another bachelor degree instead?

dude, i know a 35 yo MTB that did that and even she, despite being a woman, could not socialize

 

[copemaxxeer]

dude, i know a 35 yo MTB that did that and even she, despite being a woman, could not socialize

Oh, damn are you around 35 years old?, I guess it would only work if you are chadlite

In that case do geomaxxing if white, if not.. also do geomaxxing but this time go to the safest yet poorest place you can see yourself being capable to live in

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

being good at socializing is more of a personality trait and has many factors not only the environment where you are placed but your family dynamics growing up and overall genetical personality makeup

but for men environment plays a bigger factor than with foids because men socialize in the basis of common interests usually workplace

 

[InnerVoid]

Oh, damn are you around 35 years old?, I

im 28 but it doesnt matter

 

[InnerVoid]

being good at socializing is more of a personality trait and has many factors not only the environment where you are placed but your family dynamics growing up and overall genetical personality makeup

cope

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

cope

brutal

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

im 28 but it doesnt matter

same i socialize with college JBs on facebook

 

[copemaxxeer]

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[Maalik]

same i socialize with college JBs on facebook