Normie friends do not ask me to hangout

[asian_ascender]

I’m 6 foot HTN living in SEA.

I do not have a large social circle to begin with. But whenever someone asks me to hangout it’s my 6 foot HTN friend only and it’s to club.

My MTN and below friends do not usually initiate to meet up with me. What could be the reason??

 

[𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚛|𝚜𝚜𝚘𝚗]

I’m 6 foot HTN living in SEA.

I do not have a large social circle to begin with. But whenever someone asks me to hangout it’s my 6 foot HTN friend only and it’s to club.

My MTN and below friends do not usually initiate to meet up with me. What could be the reason??

Boring or non nt

 

[asian_ascender]

Boring or non nt

Perhaps. But I hate group gatherings anyways I rather meet friends 1-1 and have meaningful convos

 

[𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚛|𝚜𝚜𝚘𝚗]

Perhaps. But I hate group gatherings anyways I rather meet friends 1-1 and have meaningful convos

''I hate small talk'' but doesn't read (jk I get wym)

 

[asian_ascender]

''I hate small talk'' but doesn't read (jk I get wym)

How do I become more sociable and NT though. I legit think it’s an unfixable personality trait.

Im def good looking tho some random girl pulled me in to make out with her that day in the club. I illicit positive reactions from girls mostly without even trying

 

[MoggerGaston]

How do I become more sociable and NT though. I legit think it’s an unfixable personality trait.

cocaine

 

[hilley]

Try vyvanse

 

[LooksOrDeath]

As a fellow 6ft HTN it's over for you
it never began for your social life
My social circle consists of a 5'9 cl, 5'10 HTN, and 5'11 HTN. MTNs avoid us because of our low social status
I reccommend you find some neurodivergent HTNs, preferably the same height as you

 

[neurosis]

my normie friends blatantly talk about the other group chat they have without me in the groupchat im in

 

[asian_ascender]

my normie friends blatantly talk about the other group chat they have without me in the groupchat im in

over

 

[LooksOrDeath]

How do I become more sociable and NT though. I legit think it’s an unfixable personality trait.

Im def good looking tho some random girl pulled me in to make out with her that day in the club. I illicit positive reactions from girls mostly without even trying

ngl you dont need to be "NT" or very sociable
just find people who have the same interests and similiar mindset to you, thats what I did and I feel i have better friendships than almost everyone around me

 

[𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚛|𝚜𝚜𝚘𝚗]

How do I become more sociable and NT though. I legit think it’s an unfixable personality trait.

Im def good looking tho some random girl pulled me in to make out with her that day in the club. I illicit positive reactions from girls mostly without even trying

Spend so much time acting nt that u believe that all this stuff is bs. And you're cured

 

[LooksOrDeath]

my normie friends blatantly talk about the other group chat they have without me in the groupchat im in

fuck them and leave
respect yourself

 

[asian_ascender]

As a fellow 6ft HTN it's over for you
it never began for your social life
My social circle consists of a 5'9 cl, 5'10 HTN, and 5'11 HTN. MTNs avoid us because of our low social status
I reccommend you find some neurodivergent HTNs, preferably the same height as you

Our low social status? I thougt it’s because they don’t want to get mogged so they avoid mixing with HTN+ as much as possible

ND HTN are almost impossible to find lol. Anyways I think I’m pretty NT, Cus I can hold convos fine. I’m just anti social at times but it would be nice to have people invite me out

 

[asian_ascender]

Spend so much time acting nt that u believe that all this stuff is bs. And you're cured

I find it tiring to socialise in big groups when I need to constantly talk to many people. If I club I don’t need to talk as much and alcohol naturally lowers inhib

 

[Yeagerist]

my normie friends blatantly talk about the other group chat they have without me in the groupchat im in

Same thing but mentioning it irl instead

 

[RapeAllFemales]

Being alone mogs

 

[𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚛|𝚜𝚜𝚘𝚗]

I find it tiring to socialise in big groups when I need to constantly talk to many people. If I club I don’t need to talk as much and alcohol naturally lowers inhib

Drink alcohol in groups not only parties trust me. Since I'm sober I don't have friends anymore

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Our low social status? I thougt it’s because they don’t want to get mogged so they avoid mixing with HTN+ as much as possible

ND HTN are almost impossible to find lol. Anyways I think I’m pretty NT, Cus I can hold convos fine. I’m just anti social at times but it would be nice to have people invite me out

im joking man

anyway depends on what you mean by ND. If you mean someone who rots all day and has 0 friends then maybe, but if you mean someone who isnt very social and doesnt think like most people and doesnt follow whatever is trending, then I don't think so.

in my experience, I make a point not to be a people pleaser and make friends with everyone, and so dont get invites from people I dont like, and get invited and messaged by people I do like.

 

[neurosis]

fuck them and leave
respect yourself

im just using them for social proof

when the semester ends ill cut them off

 

[LooksOrDeath]

im just using them for social proof

when the semester ends ill cut them off

wym by social proof

i dont think I would like people who are drawn to me cause they think im popular

 

[neurosis]

wym by social proof

being the victim in a group of failed normies is preferable to being the school loner

 

[LooksOrDeath]

being the victim in a group of failed normies is preferable to being the school loner

thats pathetic ngl
just be alone instead of getting disrespected by people you dont even like

 

[neurosis]

thats pathetic ngl
just be alone instead of getting disrespected by people you dont even like

no because from an outsider (foid) perspective i look higher status when im hanging around other normgroids.

i see it as a mutually beneficial symbiotic relationship

 

[LooksOrDeath]

no because from an outsider (foid) perspective i look higher status when im hanging around other normgroids.

i see it as a mutually beneficial symbiotic relationship

If you want to hookup then whatever, even though hooking up is bad mentally in the first place

but if you are doing this to find someone long term you are shooting yourself in the foot

 

[Alienfromserpo1]

I’m 6 foot HTN living in SEA.

I do not have a large social circle to begin with. But whenever someone asks me to hangout it’s my 6 foot HTN friend only and it’s to club.

My MTN and below friends do not usually initiate to meet up with me. What could be the reason??

Go fuck a ladyboy