Normies' advice and my parents' mindset gave me depression

[Matrix88]

When you feel bad and people understand it and treat you like it is bad, then you feel better. But when you feel bad and people don't take you seriously, and think it's all "in your mind" or that it doesn't really affect you, then you get depressed.

My fucking dad would tell me to "just accept" my balding AT 17, how can you be so cruel? At least my mom always cared about me and thanks to her I'm on medication. The reason I joined this forum is because no one IRL understands how I've felt, I swear that not one single person in my family would take me seriously.

This was my hair last year, when my dad would tell me to not care about it.

Spoiler: Shit hair

How can you be so cruel and naive to think that DISGUSTING SHIT wouldn't affect my life and made me depressed??? That's just wild

At least I know there's a little hope, because it's been getting better, though I'm still shedding and will have to wait 5 months more AT THE LEAST.

Spoiler: Still shit hair, but not as bad

 

[1966Ford]

Worst vice is advice

 

[1966Ford]

Damn, lot's if not the overwhelming majority of people should not have children....


Imagine bring a child in this world just for the child to and adult and suffer, or even suffer as yours


Brutal shit....


I don't inflict this type of shit to nobody

 

[Matrix88]

Damn, lot's if not the overwhelming majority of people should not have children....


Imagine bring a child in this world just for the child to and adult and suffer, or even suffer as yours


Brutal shit....


I don't inflict this type of shit to nobody

exactly, that's why even If I could get a wife who loves me, I wouldn't have children

 

[Matrix88]

Imagine bring a child in this world just for the child to and adult and suffer, or even suffer as yours

they had me just for the illusion of having a kid, not for who I'd become once an adult

 

[jio gon]

When you feel bad and people understand it and treat you like it is bad, then you feel better. But when you feel bad and people don't take you seriously, and think it's all "in your mind" or that it doesn't really affect you, then you get depressed.

My fucking dad would tell me to "just accept" my balding AT 17, how can you be so cruel? At least my mom always cared about me and thanks to her I'm on medication. The reason I joined this forum is because no one IRL understands how I've felt, I swear that not one single person in my family would take me seriously.

This was my hair last year, when my dad would tell me to not care about it.

Spoiler: Shit hair

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How can you be so cruel and naive to think that DISGUSTING SHIT wouldn't affect my life and made me depressed??? That's just wild

At least I know there's a little hope, because it's been getting better, though I'm still shedding and will have to wait 5 months more AT THE LEAST.

Spoiler: Still shit hair, but not as bad

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w bro, dont let anyone bring u down, mirin the prog

 

[Matrix88]

w bro, dont let anyone bring u down, mirin the prog

thanks

If I'd gone that deep into this shithole last year, I'd probably be subhuman

 

[Matrix88]

@blinkers

 

[Manletsteinberg]

When you feel bad and people understand it and treat you like it is bad, then you feel better. But when you feel bad and people don't take you seriously, and think it's all "in your mind" or that it doesn't really affect you, then you get depressed.

My fucking dad would tell me to "just accept" my balding AT 17, how can you be so cruel? At least my mom always cared about me and thanks to her I'm on medication. The reason I joined this forum is because no one IRL understands how I've felt, I swear that not one single person in my family would take me seriously.

This was my hair last year, when my dad would tell me to not care about it.

Spoiler: Shit hair

View attachment 5130942View attachment 5130945View attachment 5130946

How can you be so cruel and naive to think that DISGUSTING SHIT wouldn't affect my life and made me depressed??? That's just wild

At least I know there's a little hope, because it's been getting better, though I'm still shedding and will have to wait 5 months more AT THE LEAST.

Spoiler: Still shit hair, but not as bad

View attachment 5130962View attachment 5130965View attachment 5130966

I agree, but i can't help but feel bad

My mum tries her best to help me cope with being so short and it works sometimes and it makes me happy, but then the reality hits me that when my parents die, i will be alone in this world with nothing and no one, and i just wanna die and breakdown

 

[Matrix88]

I agree, but i can't help but feel bad

My mum tries her best to help me cope with being so short and it works sometimes and it makes me happy, but then the reality hits me that when my parents die, i will be alone in this world with nothing and no one, and i just wanna die and breakdown

I've had those same thoughts when I've felt very depressed and nihilistic

Idk how to explain what makes me feel better, but I do remind myself I only live once and then it's nothingness for eternity (I'm atheist) so I should live the best life possible

 

[Acquiescence]

The older I get the more I’d wager that parents are categorically incapable of truly understanding the pain of their children

 

[Matrix88]

The older I get the more I’d wager that parents are categorically incapable of truly understanding the pain of their children

My dad should've not been a father ever. He doesn't even pay enough money now that he's divorced

He pays 200 dollars a month useless bastard