normies just have this strive to meet any and everyone, be everywhere at all times

[fuxkdakikez]

i don’t get where this motivation comes from

 

[sarmatian]

Some of them just want to know people so they become known.
Others are genuinely friendly and hungry for new experiences.

 

[fuxkdakikez]

Some of them just want to know people so they become known.
Others are genuinely friendly and hungry for new experiences.

im scared of getting made fun of or laughed at so i make myself seem as unfriendly as possible

 

[thorns]

The reason you have access to the things you do (as the iphone/computer used to write this post) is rooted in this behavior. We evolved to cooperate to such an extent that everyone's life became significantly easier. On the other hand, as a direct consequence, we were forcibly and brutally removed from nature.

 

[chad_prodigy]

i have a couple of people like that in my closer circles and it gets really annoying sometimes. i think it's mostly what sarmatian wrote, specially the first part

 

[sarmatian]

im scared of getting made fun of or laughed at so i make myself seem as unfriendly as possible

That's even worse. Just do your own thing, if you don't like being around people. If you act unfriendly on purpose... It's just worse.

 

[valentine]

pisses me tf off how energetic they are like you need to stfu

 

[Vermilioncore]

I don’t know either. I hate myself as it is so I know deep down I’ll hate others too

 

[thorns]

im scared of getting made fun of or laughed at so i make myself seem as unfriendly as possible

That's the worst thing you can possibly do. It’s the fastest way to be ostracized. As a general rule, humans are naturally kind, but only if kindness is shown first. This behavior is part of our mechanism to avoid enemy tribes and potential dangers. If you deliberately give off negative cues to those around you, you’re essentially signaling that you’re a threat or a problem.

I enjoy socializing a lot. Reading your perspective makes evident how our behavior is shaped by our experiences and how much our environment can influence, for better or worse, our experience in this world.

 

[fuxkdakikez]

That's the worst thing you can possibly do. It’s the fastest way to be ostracized. As a general rule, humans are naturally kind, but only if kindness is shown first. This behavior is part of our mechanism to avoid enemy tribes and potential dangers. If you deliberately give off negative cues to those around you, you’re essentially signaling that you’re a threat or a problem.

I enjoy socializing a lot. Reading your perspective makes evident how our behavior is shaped by our experiences and how much our environment can influence, for better or worse, our experience in this world.

i grew up around many unfriendly people im just a product of my environment

 

[thorns]

i grew up around many unfriendly people im just a product of my environment

It's not easy, but not impossible to escape this. Exposure treatment is usually the way to go.