
iblamemyself!
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it’s not about what you say. it never was. you could write the most poetic message, straight from the soul, carefully worded, full of emotion and honesty, and if it comes from the wrong face, it’s instantly pathetic. she’ll screenshot it. laugh with her friends. “omg look what this guy sent me
.”
but if a guy she’s into says the same thing? she melts. she rewatches the message ten times. posts it on her story with sparkles. “where do guys like this exist
.”
they say they want real love, real effort, real connection but only if it’s packaged in the right genetics. you hold the door open? she’s weirded out. he does it? she feels protected. you call her beautiful? she’s uncomfortable. he does it? her heart skips a beat.
there’s no winning unless you’re already chosen. romance isn’t universal. it’s exclusive. same words, different reaction. same action, different meaning. they don’t even realize they’re doing it. they just feel something when it comes from him. and nothing but disgust when it comes from you.
you keep thinking if you just say the right thing, if you’re kind enough, patient enough, genuine enough it’ll work. it won’t. they don’t care about your heart. they care about how your face makes them feel. romance is only real when they’re already attracted to you. otherwise it’s just noise.
We all should rope at this point jfl

but if a guy she’s into says the same thing? she melts. she rewatches the message ten times. posts it on her story with sparkles. “where do guys like this exist

they say they want real love, real effort, real connection but only if it’s packaged in the right genetics. you hold the door open? she’s weirded out. he does it? she feels protected. you call her beautiful? she’s uncomfortable. he does it? her heart skips a beat.
there’s no winning unless you’re already chosen. romance isn’t universal. it’s exclusive. same words, different reaction. same action, different meaning. they don’t even realize they’re doing it. they just feel something when it comes from him. and nothing but disgust when it comes from you.
you keep thinking if you just say the right thing, if you’re kind enough, patient enough, genuine enough it’ll work. it won’t. they don’t care about your heart. they care about how your face makes them feel. romance is only real when they’re already attracted to you. otherwise it’s just noise.
We all should rope at this point jfl