Normies who tell younger people "Focus on education and money"

[AlexAP]

Nearly all older Normies I met give advice to younger people that goes like "Study hard! Studying is the most important thing you have to do as a young person. I wish I had studied more, I could have a better career and more money now."

This is a ridiculously stupid advice. Youth is very short and can only be experienced once. Spending most of your youth with studying is a bad decision, unless you really love what you study or don't care about doing fun stuff ever in your life. Most people want to have fun at some point, and starting a career can be done at later age. There's nothing weird about someone having low-paid jobs until 25 and then starting to get serious about a career. Money starts to get important at 30+, and even if you fuck it up until there, you can start at 30 and earn good money at 35. The notion that you have to spend your youth like a stereotypically Asian student is absurd.

So why do Normies say to young people "Study hard, that's the most important thing when you're young"?

1. They never had a good career and are now poor at old age. Meaning, they didn't study hard in their teens, but they also never catched up and are now facing the consequences. Instead of regretting not having started at 25+ to get a good career, they think they should have studied hard already at 18.

2. Things like teen love, partying and making friends came natural to them. They think every person will have that. So they don't even give the advice "Hit on girls, go to partys and make friends", as they think they don't have to.

3. Maybe some say it because they were losers and want younger people to be losers like them.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

I don't hear men saying this as much as women, and with women it's blatant intrasexual competition by manipulation.

Most men have to work to gain sexual access (although going to college/university isn't necessarily the most efficient path).

 

[turkproducer]

rats who gaslight younger people like this deserve something special

 

[Deleted member 14478]

My truecel friend wants to solve all the Millenium Problems he think he will get laid because of it

 

[Beetlejuice]

Is ova

 

[.👽.]

this is basically what almost every ethnic parent is doing

 

[Deleted member 14478]

this is basically what almost every ethnic parent is doing

True but it's because they know their 5'3 ethnic subhuman manlet bluepilled framelet son won´t do shit

 

[germanlooks]

their 5'3 ethnic subhuman manlet bluepilled framelet son

Those are usually the ones who cope with studying the most

 

[Deleted member 14478]

Those are usually the ones who cope with studying the most

Yeah, and remember that they are latinos and technically they always get laid due to low standards poverty Low IQ and NT
But they don´t get shit and just become gays/ trannies

 

[Deleted member 7580]

I mean money is pretty important ….

 

[Gonthar]

For some young men it's obviously over, there's no point in telling them: "At your age you need to party, drink, and approach girls!", you're simply setting them up for failure, so telling them to study and work is actually pretty sensible advice...

 

[Deleted member 16215]

Nearly all older Normies I met give advice to younger people that goes like "Study hard! Studying is the most important thing you have to do as a young person. I wish I had studied more, I could have a better career and more money now."

This is a ridiculously stupid advice. Youth is very short and can only be experienced once. Spending most of your youth with studying is a bad decision, unless you really love what you study or don't care about doing fun stuff ever in your life. Most people want to have fun at some point, and starting a career can be done at later age. There's nothing weird about someone having low-paid jobs until 25 and then starting to get serious about a career. Money starts to get important at 30+, and even if you fuck it up until there, you can start at 30 and earn good money at 35. The notion that you have to spend your youth like a stereotypically Asian student is absurd.

So why do Normies say to young people "Study hard, that's the most important thing when you're young"?

1. They never had a good career and are now poor at old age. Meaning, they didn't study hard in their teens, but they also never catched up and are now facing the consequences. Instead of regretting not having started at 25+ to get a good career, they think they should have studied hard already at 18.

2. Things like teen love, partying and making friends came natural to them. They think every person will have that. So they don't even give the advice "Hit on girls, go to partys and make friends", as they think they don't have to.

3. Maybe some say it because they were losers and want younger people to be losers like them.

Moneymaxx part is kind of true tho, why chase girls as an ugly guy when you can moneymaxx and afford surgeries and live a good life

 

[Preoximerianas]

Growing up my parents focused on telling me more about studying and doing well in school and basically ignored the idea of me doing sports, or just being able to interact with others in a meaningful way. My dad even wanted me to go into karate or track but my mom was like "nope" and that was the end of the discussion I still made friends and went to parties but I feel like if they actually gave a shit and emphasized how important being social was I'd be doing a lot better in life. Hell, it wasn't even just my parents, parents of family friends and even extended family all said the same shit.

Like when I brought up the idea of going to the gym years ago they deadass turned it into a lecture and basically said "but if you do then how will you have time to study and get into a good university and then get a good paying job?" Do they not understand that to advance yourself career wise it helps being attractive?

Only in college have I been able to actually care about the way I look, and somehow having enough money to make it a reality, and socialize with people, it's been an absolute blessing. But yeah, 100% ignore you parent's advice when it comes to attraction, dating, etc. they grew up in a time that's completely foreign to us and whatever advice they give will either barely help you at best or make you worse off at worst.

 

[fras]

For some young men it's obviously over, there's no point in telling them: "At your age you need to party, drink, and approach girls!", you're simply setting them up for failure, so telling them to study and work is actually pretty sensible advice...

So much virginity in 3 pictures

 

[Deleted member 275]

Good topic. I hate my parents

 

[AlexAP]

For some young men it's obviously over, there's no point in telling them: "At your age you need to party, drink, and approach girls!", you're simply setting them up for failure, so telling them to study and work is actually pretty sensible advice...

Cope.

Even these men should softmaxx (leanmaxx, fashionmaxx, good haircut) and try to become low-inhib with girls, their youth is the best time for it. They don't have to become huge slayers, but at least they could get some girls around their looksmatch. Instead they wasted their youth and will have a beta mentality for the rest of their lives.

 

[AlexAP]

I don't hear men saying this as much as women, and with women it's blatant intrasexual competition by manipulation.

Most men have to work to gain sexual access (although going to college/university isn't necessarily the most efficient path).

I hear it with both men and women. Men almost always say "Study hard!", I very rarely hear them giving any other advice to young people.

 

[AlexAP]

I mean money is pretty important ….

You can starty moneymaxx at 25+. I'm not saying you shouldn't study hard if you really love it, but your youth is the only time when you are allowed to live carefree, it's sad if you waste it.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

You can starty moneymaxx at 25+. I'm not saying you shouldn't study hard if you really love it, but your youth is the only time when you are allowed to live carefree, it's sad if you waste it.

So live with parents until 25
You can money maxx and still have fun, my friends are moneymaxxers and some even studied engineering and still partied every weekend in college

 

[AlexAP]

So live with parents until 25

Of course not. I said you can have jobs until then to finance yourself.

You can money maxx and still have fun, my friends are moneymaxxers and some even studied engineering and still partied every weekend in college

I guess they were naturally extraverted. The average STEMcel is not really partying every weekend.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Of course not. I said you can have jobs until then to finance yourself.

I guess they were naturally extraverted. The average STEMcel is not really partying every weekend.

Yea most stemcels are introverted nerds

so just work till 25 and then go to college ? You’d be seen as an oldcel by everyone tho

 

[germanlooks]

For some young men it's obviously over, there's no point in telling them: "At your age you need to party, drink, and approach girls!", you're simply setting them up for failure, so telling them to study and work is actually pretty sensible advice...

Just shave it off at this point jfl

 

[AlexAP]

Yea most stemcels are introverted nerds

so just work till 25 and then go to college ? You’d be seen as an oldcel by everyone tho

I don't know if college is the gateway to everything in the U.S., in Germany you can get a job training at any age and start a new career. And there are fields where other things like certifications are more important, a programmer can start a service desk job and then climb the ladder with getting new certs.

 

[Cali Yuga]

elon musk was a truecel looking nigg and he ascended with career and got a good gi... oh wait he got a used up whore who left him after baby trapping lmao

 

[Deleted member 7580]

I don't know if college is the gateway to everything in the U.S., in Germany you can get a job training at any age and start a new career. And there are fields where other things like certifications are more important, a programmer can start a service desk job and then climb the ladder with getting new certs.

Most non minimum wage jobs here require you to have atleast a bachelors degree, unless you’re in trades/blue collar

 

[AlexAP]

Most non minimum wage jobs here require you to have atleast a bachelors degree, unless you’re in trades/blue collar

JFL that's brutal. My brother literally worked as a waiter and tried to start a business (failed) until his 30s, then he made something called "Umschulung" (means re-education in Germany, you get trained for a new job) for 2 years and got a good-paying programmer job after that. And he never went to university.

 

[Cali Yuga]

elon musk was a truecel looking nigg and he ascended with career and got a good gi... oh wait he got a used up whore who left him after baby trapping lmao

 

[AlexAP]

elon musk was a truecel looking nigg and he ascended with career and got a good gi... oh wait he got a used up whore who left him after baby trapping lmao

Yeah, and most Normies won't have 0,01% of the success Elon Musk had. They will just waste their lives and have regrets in old age.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

Cope.

Even these men should softmaxx (leanmaxx, fashionmaxx, good haircut) and try to become low-inhib with girls, their youth is the best time for it. They don't have to become huge slayers, but at least they could get some girls around their looksmatch. Instead they wasted their youth and will have a beta mentality for the rest of their lives.

gaslighting

These guys didn't "waste their youth."

 

[AlexAP]

gaslighting

These guys didn't "waste their youth."

Wdym? They could have tried to become more social at least, their biggest problem can already be seen in how they dress, they're all socially awkward.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

Wdym? They could have tried to become more social at least, their biggest problem can already be seen in how they dress, they're all socially awkward.

They're all ugly and autistic.

 

[Xangsane]

this is basically what almost every ethnic parent is doing

especially asians

 

[AlexAP]

They're all ugly and autistic.

Look at them. They're all below-average looking and socially awkward. What should they do? Accept their fate and that's it? They definitely could softmaxx and try to become low-inhib. I'm not talking about becoming Chads, just Normies who can talk to girls. That's achievable for them. Not doing that and instead wasting their youth with nerd stuff means giving up on life.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Look at them. They're all below-average looking and socially awkward. What should they do? Accept their fate and that's it? They definitely could softmaxx and try to become low-inhib. I'm not talking about becoming Chads, just Normies who can talk to girls. That's achievable for them. Not doing that and instead wasting their youth with nerd stuff means giving up on life.

I'm a slightly below average looking guy and that's a terrible idea. It just created a negative feedback loop that led me right to this site. Was coping with the redpill for a year slowly raking in approaches, starting conversations, etc and would get rejections and bad reactions time and time again so I finally found the blackpill.

The only reason someone doesn't fall into the blackpill is if they don't even try, which is what bluepilling aims to do.

 

[Deusmaximus]

Spending your youth on very good business or law degree is worth 10 times more than trying to get laid with whores/doing party and then having miserable money from 30-60. You guys all want this lifestyle because you never had it.
Living 5 years as a slayer < living from 30-60 as a guy with money/freedom and possibility to get rich.
Also the chances that you are attractive/tall enough to slay and really life the party adventure lifestyle are very small.

Short term vs long term

 

[datboijj]

elon musk was a truecel looking nigg and he ascended with career and got a good gi... oh wait he got a used up whore who left him after baby trapping lmao

elon musk is different coding was literally him having the time of his life
in motivational compilations they try to make it seem like he was dreading it
same thing with kobe going to practice at 2 am

 

[AlexAP]

I'm a slightly below average looking guy and that's a terrible idea. It just created a negative feedback loop that led me right to this site. Was coping with the redpill for a year slowly raking in approaches, starting conversations, etc and would get rejections and bad reactions time and time again so I finally found the blackpill.

The only reason someone doesn't fall into the blackpill is if they don't even try, which is what bluepilling aims to do.

Well, having social skills is necessary to have a good life. Nerds like shown in the pics often struggle with that. They have to learn it at young age or they will never have a good life. And it's not only about girls, it's about going to partys and making friends. Although I'm sure even a below-average guy can get his looksmatch if he actually becomes NT through extensive social exposure.

 

[AlexAP]

Spending your youth on very good business or law degree is worth 10 times more than trying to get laid with whores/doing party and then having miserable money from 30-60.

Of course, but you can moneymaxx after you're 25+ so you don't have miserable money from 30-60.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Of course, but you can moneymaxx after you're 25+ so you don't have miserable money from 30-60.

Best time to make money is 16-24. Afterwards you have to pay rent, bills, kids, etc so you can't take risks on starting new businesses and shit. Obviously this doesn't apply to normies who just wants to work for some company their whole life, it only applies to entrepreneurship.

 

[AlexAP]

Best time to make money is 16-24. Afterwards you have to pay rent, bills, kids, etc so you can't take risks on starting new businesses and shit. Obviously this doesn't apply to normies who just wants to work for some company their whole life, it only applies to entrepreneurship.

90-95% of men will work for some company and that's it.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

90-95% of men will work for some company and that's it.

Well obviously, so this advice is smart since they want their kid to be more than that.

 

[AlexAP]

Well obviously, so this advice is smart since they want their kid to be more than that.

Nearly all oldcels say "Just get a good job, starting a business isn't worth it". People who started a business often faced massive criticism from their families.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Nearly all oldcels say "Just get a good job, starting a business isn't worth it". People who started a business often faced massive criticism from their families.

Yeah but this was in response to this:

Spending your youth on very good business or law degree is worth 10 times more

Of course, but you can moneymaxx after you're 25+ so you don't have miserable money from 30-60.

 

[Deusmaximus]

Of course, but you can moneymaxx after you're 25+ so you don't have miserable money from 30-60.

Finance is a very competitive field. Without top tier degree and internships at the best investment banks or consulting you cant compete.

 

[AlexAP]

Finance is a very competitive field. Without top tier degree and internships at the best investment banks or consulting you cant compete.

You don't have to be top 1% in money, just be financially well-off is okay imo. If you become rich after a failed youth, you will feel like a betabuxxer and nothing else.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

I'm a slightly below average looking guy and that's a terrible idea. It just created a negative feedback loop that led me right to this site. Was coping with the redpill for a year slowly raking in approaches, starting conversations, etc and would get rejections and bad reactions time and time again so I finally found the blackpill.

The only reason someone doesn't fall into the blackpill is if they don't even try, which is what bluepilling aims to do.

I have a family member who was an ugly, manlet autist. He got a PhD and became a successful programmer. He got married as a cuck (stepfather) and worked as a plowhorse betabux, but at least never got divorced/cheated on. If he had gone the route of "having fun," then he would have ended up miserable.

The reality is that most men don't have the luxury to "have fun."

 

[AlexAP]

If he had gone the route of "having fun," then he would have ended up miserable.

The reality is that most men don't have the luxury to "have fun."

I'm not talking about slaying, I'm merely talking about not being socially awkward anymore and getting a girlfriend when it matters the most (15-21).

 

[Reckless Turtle]

I'm not talking about slaying, I'm merely talking about not being socially awkward anymore and getting a girlfriend when it mattered the most (15-21).

Most men have to give women survival benefits in order to have sex. Less money (or prospective money) means significantly less options.

 

[AlexAP]

Most men have to give women survival benefits in order to have sex. Less money (or prospective money) means significantly less options.

Women don't care about money when they're in their teens, Normie teens can get a girlfriend. The average man won't have to "improve himself" to get a gf, the ones who have to because they're mentalcels should do it when they're young instead of studycelling their youth away.

 

[Deleted member 14303]

elon musk was a truecel looking nigg and he ascended with career and got a good gi... oh wait he got a used up whore who left him after baby trapping lmao

he has always been rich, he went to the top private schools in south africa and his parents owned multiple emerald mines.