Of course you are responsible for your actions. It's still stupid to give such advice. If I had a son, I would advice him to use his youth to live carefree and make good memories.
that really just depends on the situation youre living, alot of people cant just say " oh ill take a year or two off college and have fun! " alot of people dont have that kind of money or their parents wont financially support their 21 year old kid doing nothing but having fun with their life, the average american lives paycheck to paycheck and its not as easy as just partying your entire youth, for the 99% of young people out there you either go to college or you work full time, if you work full time anywhere from 8 to 12 hours shifts you wont have the energy to party everyweek and have fun, and if youre in college you probably will have a little bit more of freedom than working but still will have homework and classes to attend, alot of people just party and have fun their entire youth and achieve nothing.
Yes, there is a difference, but it's not "most" young men.Which is why most young men aren't very sexually active.
Just blatantly ignore the data I linked.
As an ex-nerd but with pretty good social skills, I hanged around a lot with these kind of people and I have to say that the situation is pretty much hopeless for them, I have friends from high-school who are almost 40 and still virgins, besides being ugly/bald/short/fat they are also aspie/autistic and their interactions with normies are often weird and awkward.
That's why you have to try to ascend when you're young. If you're approaching 40 and still the same subhuman, just rope unironically.
There was no ascension for them even when young, they were too ugly, too aspie, they didn't accept any advice about acting more normal, dressing nicer, getting a better haircut, getting rid of their dorky glasses, etc., many didn't even seem like they cared much about girls anyway, interesting enough their fathers were quite similar - ugly, dorky, awkward, etc. - but since they lived in different times, they didn't have problems in finding a wife when they were young...
I know women have more sex when young, but it's still not true that "most" men aren't very sexually active. Even when the difference is the biggest (at age 21), the average man is sexually active 3-4 times a month, and the people asked were Redditors. Being incel or semi-incel means almost never having sex.
In that case, they wasted their lives and have only themselves to blame.
That's cope.
yeah but he was ugly tho
Naaah, I've also met another type of incels who were obsessed with sex and porn, always talked about it, but besides being ugly they were also losers and lazy and didn't actually do anything like approaching girls, asking them out, etc.; the hardcore nerdy types however seemed to be completely asexual, when I would ask them about girls or sex, they were just like "Ehhh...." and refuse to elaborate, discuss, or say anything. Porn, masturbation, visiting escorts, etc. were also taboo subjects to them, they didn't want to talk about it.
Basically like a two year apprenticeship here in usa. I went to trade school for electrical then fillied all these application for different apprenticeships. IN talks right now for a electrical helper position at the mta in new york. Its about getting the right job and training and certification.
You need a balance of both. If your doing 8-12 hour shifts working 40 hours a week your gonna be to tired to party all weekend, your gonna want to relax sleep etc. folks in college usually work part time jobs and go to school. So in the end you up spending maybe 16 hours a week on campus for classes, and maybe 15-20 hours at your part time job. Not only that school isnt physically or mentally demanding like a real job.
Show him the rope
That is true. But making money is something that you can achieve later if you missed out when young, while living carefree with other young people is over after 25.
Meanwhile, Chaddam in your country:
he will learn the hard way sooner or later, either he is semi neet or is an white normie with good financial connections, that can afford to have empty years on his resume
Most guys go into finance, or banking thinking their gonna be making crazy 6 figures 110-180k a year. Usually its shitty consulting or sales job were you get payed 50-75k a year and you have to work 50-60 hours a week. You looks matter even more in anything with sales or presentations. And those top tier chads work 15-20 hours a week, they only come in for meetings and to check up on things and are
on salary.
