Not having friends isn't looks related

[Deleted member 283995]

unless you're severely deformed, and you have a face that makes kids cry
there's no excuse as why you cant have friends
the ugliest, most autistic people i knew in my whole life
all of them, had friends
because they understood the social hierarchy and be friended those on their level
if you are subhuman to ltn your friends should be on that range, and this applies to every level of looks
if you're above your friends they will envy you
if you're under your friends they will make fun of you or exclude you
you just need to find which tribe you belong to
inb4 water inb4 i'm autistic and can't make friends

 

[remusss]

but your face really determines how they treat you, you can see in every group the ladder works like that

 

[Deleted member 283995]

but your face really determines how they treat you, you can see in every group the ladder works like that

but in a friend group where everyone is ltn how can your face determine how you're treated
youre all equal, all that will matter are your social dynamics

 

[FutureSlayer]

I refuse to befriend those on my level

 

[Deleted member 283995]

@Fridx @acm @sub5mumbaifinalboss

 

[Deleted member 283995]

I refuse to befriend those on my level

that's okay
be prepared to suffer, but it can be beneficial to befriend those on a higher level
social status is real, and having friends with status can open lots of doors
but you will be used in those kind of relationships
you have to be really smart to endure those kind of friendships and then lower them to you level by being powerful socially
friendships on equal levels are always more kind and less manipulative

 

[remusss]

but in a friend group where everyone is ltn how can your face determine how you're treated
youre all equal, all that will matter are your social dynamics

i dont think male friend groups work like that, at least in my friend group there are guys that go from sub 3 and guys hmtn

you will forever be treated for how you look, and for the majority the friend group is the guys you knew all your life, and if they treat you like shit you cant do nun, cause u cant get integrated somewhere else that easily, really my friend group is just a bunch of random guys that we have been going out a lot, and thats it

 

[Deleted member 283995]

i dont think male friend groups work like that, at least in my friend group there are guys that go from sub 3 and guys hmtn

you will forever be treated for how you look, and for the majority the friend group is the guys you knew all your life, and if they treat you like shit you cant do nun, cause u cant get integrated somewhere else that easily, really my friend group is just a bunch of random guys that we have been going out a lot, and thats it

my friend group goes from hltn to hmtn
and you can see who everyone targets some of the members and has strong respect for others depending on their looks
im just stating what i've observed from other groups i saw form on school and college

 

[Fridx]

Yeah social skills are important

 

[Deleted member 283995]

Yeah social skills are important

yeah
most people develop them subconsciously by trial and error
and also most manipulate other without really knowing that they are using manipulation tactics

 

[Anamnesis]

but not always youre gonna be in a sub5 group

in my school i have my group of friends and theres 1 fat sub5 friend and 1 skinny af 5’5 sub5 friend and another sub5 friend

and they are always the joke on the group nobody treat then serious amd they are the comedians and jesters of the group

 

[Fridx]

yeah
most people develop them subconsciously by trial and error
and also most manipulate other without really knowing that they are using manipulation tactics

I didnt develop them tbh

 

[Deleted member 283995]

I didnt develop them tbh

theres some really helpful books on that

but not always youre gonna be in a sub5 group

in my school i have my group of friends and theres 1 fat sub5 friend and 1 skinny af 5’5 sub5 friend and another sub5 friend

and they are always the joke on the group nobody treat then serious amd they are the comedians and jesters of the group

yeah the ugliest of the friend group will usually be the punching bag
even tho no one in the group will attribute this behavior towards them due to their looks
it will be excused to what they say or what they do but this is just the halo effect in reverse
when ugly people do shit it will be seen as worse

 

[FutureSlayer]

that's okay
be prepared to suffer, but it can be beneficial to befriend those on a higher level
social status is real, and having friends with status can open lots of doors
but you will be used in those kind of relationships
you have to be really smart to endure those kind of friendships and then lower them to you level by being powerful socially
friendships on equal levels are always more kind and less manipulative

Not going to suffer pal I'm used to it