[Not Looks] Most important things for maximizing LONG TERM LIFE OUTCOME

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1. Financial Stability and Growth


A. The Power of Consistency and Patience


Financial stability is foundational to long-term security, but it is built over time through consistent and strategic actions. The first key to financial health is saving and investing early. Compound interest is often referred to as the "eighth wonder of the world" for good reason. Even if you can only set aside a small amount, doing so early can result in significant growth over time.


B. Diversification


Avoid putting all your eggs in one basket. Financial success over the long term requires diversification—whether that’s investing in a mix of stocks, bonds, real estate, or businesses. In addition to diversifying your investments, it’s crucial to diversify your skills and income streams. This ensures you're not reliant on a single source of income, which can be precarious in uncertain times.


C. Financial Literacy


Financial literacy is key to understanding how to manage money, debts, investments, taxes, and insurance. Without knowledge, people often make poor financial decisions. Make it a priority to understand financial principles, such as budgeting, debt management, and investing. Even in complex areas like tax laws and retirement planning, a little knowledge can go a long way.


D. Long-term Planning


Think about your financial future in terms of decades, not years. Plan for things like retirement, medical emergencies, and other long-term needs. Building a budget that includes both short- and long-term goals, and regularly reassessing it, will ensure that you're always moving forward financially.




2. Emotional Well-being


A. Emotional Intelligence (EQ)


Understanding and managing your emotions—and those of others—is crucial for emotional well-being. High EQ helps you build healthy relationships, navigate stress, and improve your decision-making. To develop EQ, practice mindfulness, self-awareness, empathy, and resilience.


B. Therapeutic Support


While some people manage emotions effectively on their own, therapy or counseling can offer invaluable insights and coping mechanisms. Regular check-ins with a therapist or counselor can help address ongoing emotional challenges or prevent them before they become serious.


C. Building Healthy Relationships


Your support system—the people you surround yourself with—affects your mental and emotional state. Cultivate relationships with people who support you, challenge you to grow, and offer you love and compassion. Whether it’s a partner, friends, or mentors, having emotionally healthy relationships enhances your sense of fulfillment.


D. Stress Management


Chronic stress can lead to burnout and a decrease in life satisfaction. Effective stress management includes adopting healthy coping strategies, such as exercise, meditation, hobbies, and time management. Stress management techniques, when practiced consistently, increase resilience and prevent emotional exhaustion.




3. Health: Physical and Mental


A. Exercise and Physical Activity


Regular physical activity is essential for maintaining physical health and mental clarity. It’s not just about the aesthetics or body shape; consistent exercise improves heart health, lung capacity, bone density, and mental clarity. It reduces the risk of chronic diseases such as diabetes, heart disease, and arthritis.


B. Diet and Nutrition


A balanced diet is crucial for long-term health. Aim for whole, nutrient-dense foods that provide the essential vitamins, minerals, and macronutrients your body needs to function at its best. This includes healthy fats, lean proteins, fruits, vegetables, and whole grains. Proper hydration is also essential, so aim for adequate water intake throughout the day.


C. Sleep Hygiene


Good sleep is often underestimated, but it is one of the cornerstones of a healthy life. Lack of sleep negatively impacts cognitive function, emotional regulation, and physical health. Establishing a consistent sleep routine, limiting screen time before bed, and ensuring your sleeping environment is conducive to rest are all strategies that maximize sleep quality.


D. Preventative Healthcare


Rather than waiting for a problem to arise, focus on preventive care. Regular checkups with a physician, dental visits, eye exams, and screenings can catch potential health issues before they become serious. Vaccinations and regular tests help prevent the onset of diseases or identify them in their early stages, where they can be most easily managed.


E. Mental Health Maintenance


Caring for your mental health is just as important as your physical health. Regular self-care activities like journaling, taking mental health days, practicing mindfulness, and engaging in hobbies contribute to a stable and resilient mind. When feeling overwhelmed, it’s crucial to reach out for support.




4. Identity and Personal Development


A. Self-Awareness


Understanding who you are, your values, your strengths, and your weaknesses is central to personal growth. Engage in self-reflection and be mindful of your motivations, fears, and desires. Journaling, meditation, or even personality tests like the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator or StrengthsFinder can give you a clearer picture of yourself.


B. Growth Mindset


A growth mindset—the belief that you can develop and improve over time—is one of the most powerful tools for long-term success. Challenges and failures become opportunities for learning and growth rather than obstacles. By viewing setbacks as part of your journey, you empower yourself to keep improving.


C. Pursuit of Passion


Your identity is shaped not just by what you do, but also by what excites and motivates you. Pursuing your passions, whether through hobbies, career paths, or projects, fosters a sense of purpose. A life lived in alignment with your interests will provide you with joy, creativity, and a deep sense of fulfillment.


D. Resilience


Life will inevitably throw challenges your way, whether personal, professional, or financial. The ability to bounce back from adversity is critical for maintaining a positive outlook. Building resilience involves emotional flexibility, having a strong support system, and reframing challenges as opportunities for growth.




5. Stability and Security


A. Financial Security


As mentioned above, achieving financial stability involves more than just earning an income; it requires saving, investing, and managing debt. Being debt-free, owning property, or having a robust savings account provides a sense of security that can withstand economic downturns or unexpected personal setbacks.


B. Social Stability


In addition to financial security, social stability is crucial. Building a network of supportive relationships—family, friends, colleagues, and mentors—creates a safety net for you during life’s unpredictable moments. These social connections also provide opportunities for growth and support when needed most.


C. Career Stability and Purpose


While pursuing wealth is important, career satisfaction and stability are also necessary for a balanced life. Seek career paths that offer growth opportunities, align with your values, and provide purpose. A fulfilling career, one that contributes to your sense of identity and provides a steady income, is a key factor in long-term stability.




6. Fulfillment and Legacy


A. Living with Purpose


A life of purpose is more than just having goals; it’s about finding meaning in everything you do. Whether your purpose is tied to family, a profession, a cause, or your own personal growth, a clear sense of purpose creates fulfillment. It drives you to work harder, stay motivated, and overcome challenges.


B. Giving Back


True fulfillment often comes from contributing to the well-being of others. Volunteering, mentoring, or supporting a cause close to your heart adds meaning to your life and strengthens your connections to the world around you. The impact you leave on others is one of the most lasting legacies you can create.


C. Experiences Over Material Possessions


While accumulating wealth is important, investing in experiences often leads to more lasting joy and fulfillment than material possessions. Travel, learning new skills, and exploring new hobbies provide growth opportunities and create memories that last far longer than things.


D. Continuous Learning


A fulfilling life is often one of constant learning. Pursuing new knowledge, exploring different cultures, acquiring new skills, and expanding your horizons can reinvigorate your life and keep it fresh and exciting. Never stop learning; the process of learning itself adds depth and richness to your experience.




In Conclusion: A Holistic Approach​


Maximizing your long-term life outcome isn’t about perfecting any one area—it’s about creating balance across all of them. Each element—financial security, emotional well-being, health, personal growth, and fulfillment—intersects and supports the others. By intentionally investing in each of these areas, you ensure a future that is not only successful but deeply meaningful and satisfying.


The journey is ongoing, and life will throw challenges your way. However, when you develop the resilience, habits, and mindset necessary to thrive in all areas of life, you build a foundation that will carry you through the ups and downs, ensuring your long-term success and happiness.
 
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W message but half the people on this forum are so focused on their looks nothing else matters
 
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If your looks are subpar the rest will just fall to pieces. Plus the agepill makes most of the slow life strategy stuff pointless.
 
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If your looks are subpar the rest will just fall to pieces. Plus the agepill makes most of the slow life strategy stuff pointless.
jbs arent attracted to you
 
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jbs arent attracted to you

Yeah it’s over for me, this is for benefit of younger users who might think it’s a good idea to act like a middle aged man while the clock is ticking on JB appeal.
 
Where does blowing the vast majority of my life savings on a futile trip to Rome next year for muh ascension surgery fit into all of this?
 
Where does blowing the vast majority of my life savings on a futile trip to Rome next year for muh ascension surgery fit into all of this?
Surgerycelling is brutal.

Do you expect to just fall into a tribe and "fit in" somewhere after your surgery and "because of it"?

Surgeries are not panaceas. Treat the surgery just as if you are going about your life, moving forward. But you still move forward afterward.

The surgery isn't the "end goal". Just like getting laid or getting a gf isn't.

Just do your surgery but drop any and all expectations of what you think will "change", then just embrace your life thereafter.

If you feel renewed confidence afterward, then that's brilliant!
 
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Just do your surgery but drop any and all expectations of what you think will "change", then just embrace your life thereafter.
Don’t I know it.

Surgery is cope, I’m just doing it because it’s the last thing that has even a sliver of a chance of significantly improving my life, before I finally read the room and embrace being a rotting wageslave for the next 40+ years
 
Don’t I know it.

Surgery is cope, I’m just doing it because it’s the last thing that has even a sliver of a chance of significantly improving my life, before I finally read the room and embrace being a rotting wageslave for the next 40+ years
You're not wageslaving already. What are you doing? How did you get the funds for surgery?
 
You're not wageslaving already. What are you doing? How did you get the funds for surgery?
I am.

Low tier grunt labor warehouse work currently

But I will be getting back into a sparky apprenticeship later this year, one in which I foolishly dropped out of a couple years back, because my desperation for financial independence and surgery money wasn’t great enough to overcome the stresses and expectations of the job at the time. But it certainly is now

I am fortunate enough that my parents are willing to let me live with them rent free, so I can throw what would’ve been consumed entirely by rent + utilities into a surgery fund at the end of every month. I still have to pay for a lot of my own living expenses and put away for retirement (at a minimal level at least), but I can still save up well enough I suppose
 
I am fortunate enough that my parents are willing to let me live with them rent free
This is good, so work and save. Automate a bunch of money into a pension (ISA account if you are a UKcel).

Acquire skills and try to get into careers where you leach off and learn from high social class cels. Realise that transformation is a long long game. But the tail end of cumulative effort pays off more exponentially than you can imagine right now.

So the gameplan is to learn what's important for your progression, and acquire skills that make you more valuable and employable.

Don't sacrifice long-term planning for falsely perceived outcomes as they fall into the "short term".

Master your craft. Only truly pivot when you are completely sold on it. Like 100% ready to pivot.
 
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This is good, so work and save. Automate a bunch of money into a pension (ISA account if you are a UKcel).

Acquire skills and try to get into careers where you leach off and learn from high social class cels. Realise that transformation is a long long game. But the tail end of cumulative effort pays off more exponentially than you can imagine right now.

So the gameplan is to learn what's important for your progression, and acquire skills that make you more valuable and employable.

Don't sacrifice long-term planning for falsely perceived outcomes as they fall into the "short term".

Master your craft. Only truly pivot when you are completely sold on it. Like 100% ready to pivot.
Appreciate the generic supportive words Mr ChatGPT
 
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