Not NT when talking to girls

[subhumanslayer193]

I feel like i have no problems getting a girl interested in me and talking together but i realised that pretty much all those times its been her being the one who talks and acts attracted to me, however this one girl and i vibe well but shes quieter than the other ones and im too autistic to find out something to say when im with her, its not because i have high inhib because i say whats pops to my head its just that nothing ever does come to my head.
How do people find shit to come up with after a month

 

[johan_af]

I feel like i have no problems getting a girl interested in me and talking together but i realised that pretty much all those times its been her being the one who talks and acts attracted to me, however this one girl and i vibe well but shes quieter than the other ones and im too autistic to find out something to say when im with her, its not because i have high inhib because i say whats pops to my head its just that nothing ever does come to my head.
How do people find shit to come up with after a month

this is happening to me too, it's so annoying

 

[Bryce]

its not because i have high inhib because i say whats pops to my head its just that nothing ever does come to my head.

Because you are high inhib

 

[laworg]

this is happening to me too, it's so annoying

Jus chill bra

 

[AlphaLooksmaxxer666]

its difficult

 

[Finn]

talk about things that are happening right now, idk. how was your day so far? what do you think of this and that. Last time i was at...

 

[AlphaLooksmaxxer666]

relax

 

[subhumanslayer193]

talk about things that are happening right now, idk. how was your day so far? what do you think of this and that. Last time i was at...

Yes i can do the small talk but its hard to get into deeper talk anything other than surface level, we both fw each other ive legit alr met her parents and been in her house, we used to talk years ago but i think it stopped because not much serious convo was there

 

[Finn]

Yes i can do the small talk but its hard to get into deeper talk anything other than surface level, we both fw each other ive legit alr met her parents and been in her house, we used to talk years ago but i think it stopped because not much serious convo was there

you want to be her bf?

 

[subhumanslayer193]

Because you are high inhib

I mean i got invited to her house by her parents whilst randomly out with her and i didnt feel nervous meeting them or even getting our first kiss because i just went for it

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I feel like i have no problems getting a girl interested in me and talking together but i realised that pretty much all those times its been her being the one who talks and acts attracted to me, however this one girl and i vibe well but shes quieter than the other ones and im too autistic to find out something to say when im with her, its not because i have high inhib because i say whats pops to my head its just that nothing ever does come to my head.
How do people find shit to come up with after a month

Just shut up. I don't want to hear your sissy stories about how you can't get a girlfriend.

 

[subhumanslayer193]

you want to be her bf?

I guess eventually, we have the chemistry, we literally go out and walk sometimes dead quiet but its not tense its just less straight on then what im used to, maybe bc i believe something with materialise with her

 

[subhumanslayer193]

Just shut up. I don't want to hear your sissy stories about how you can't get a girlfriend.

Fuck off then god forbid i ask for girl advice on a forum to appeal to more chicks

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Fuck off then god forbid i ask for girl advice on a forum to appeal to more chicks

I'll hold you down and give you kisses on the butt dude. In front of everyone. Better watch how you talk to me.

 

[subhumanslayer193]

I'll hold you down and give you kisses on the butt dude. In front of everyone. Better watch how you talk to me.

Im matching your energy, dont give it if u cant take it

 

[subhumanslayer193]

its difficult

Maybe im just not used to actually being fully interested, ive kinda just never let a chick know anything deep about me or what i think

 

[subhumanslayer193]

Bump

 

[Restitutor Orbis]

I feel like i have no problems getting a girl interested in me and talking together but i realised that pretty much all those times its been her being the one who talks and acts attracted to me, however this one girl and i vibe well but shes quieter than the other ones and im too autistic to find out something to say when im with her, its not because i have high inhib because i say whats pops to my head its just that nothing ever does come to my head.
How do people find shit to come up with after a month

You gotta escalate quickly enough so she doesn't lose interest. A month is stretching it already. Since you hate talking and women love hearing themselves, you're best off giving her opportunities to talk about herself. Don't talk abt work or school or anything serious too much, it's better to talk abt people and shit like music, tavelling, random bs, or even current events and politics if you feel safe talking abt that shit (don't do this if you're right wing and can't properly mask it)

 

[Restitutor Orbis]

Yes i can do the small talk but its hard to get into deeper talk anything other than surface level, we both fw each other ive legit alr met her parents and been in her house, we used to talk years ago but i think it stopped because not much serious convo was there

Deep talk is for when you're already in a relationship. Cruise on lighthearted bullshit talk mostly.

 

[Finn]

I guess eventually, we have the chemistry, we literally go out and walk sometimes dead quiet but its not tense its just less straight on then what im used to, maybe bc i believe something with materialise with her

you will find some things to talk about and eventually even flirt with her and then you will see how she reacts

 

[subhumanslayer193]

you will find some things to talk about and eventually even flirt with her and then you will see how she reacts

We both like each others presence and shit, at the start of a class with her 2 years ago i asked for her snap and we talked for a bit and it kinda faded out ig i forgot but shes always been in the back of my mind so mid exam season legit 2 years later i got high and i got the idea to message her to tell her what ive been reminiscing about and she said shes been thinking the same thing about me and was gonna come up to me on the last day of exams if i didnt first message her. So we like each other but shes the shy type and im just bad at going down the deep path about feelings and shit, i know what she does for fun and all that but ive never been tapped into to any of these emotions to do with relationship shit

 

[subhumanslayer193]

Deep talk is for when you're already in a relationship. Cruise on lighthearted bullshit talk mostly.

Im trying to get to know her more i guess? I already know all the boring shit and have done the lighthearted talk, i mentioned to her and she also says that it takes us a while to build a deep connection so maybe its that. Holy fuck im saying all this when i have psychoanalyse how i look and misconstrue every compliment given to me gonna have to take bluepill ig

 

[subhumanslayer193]

Bumping for more opinions ig✌

 

[Restitutor Orbis]

Im trying to get to know her more i guess? I already know all the boring shit and have done the lighthearted talk, i mentioned to her and she also says that it takes us a while to build a deep connection so maybe its that. Holy fuck im saying all this when i have psychoanalyse how i look and misconstrue every compliment given to me gonna have to take bluepill ig

She's into you. Escalate that shit a little. It's almost like she's the one dragging you into a potential relationship

 

[subhumanslayer193]

She's into you. Escalate that shit a little. It's almost like she's the one dragging you into a potential relationship

Yeah ima keep trying that, its just whens there potential for there to be something im not even being myself because i cant talk about it properly so im legit using chatGPT for opinions, thats what makes me feel autistic

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Im matching your energy, dont give it if u cant take it

Do you like to wear princess outfits and prance around in the parks?

 

[subhumanslayer193]

Do you like to wear princess outfits and prance around in the parks?

No i frolic in wheat fields in humid weather shirtless with a dildo that radiates EMFs inside my asshole

 

[Lefty Rankin]

No i frolic in wheat fields in humid weather shirtless with a dildo that radiates EMFs inside my asshole

What is "EMFs"?

 

[subhumanslayer193]

What is "EMFs"?

Electro magentic field, from what i gather its a form of radiation given off by things with an electrical current or something along those lines like a phone

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Electro magentic field, from what i gather its a form of radiation given off by things with an electrical current or something along those lines like a phone

You better get out of here. We don't take kindly to homosexuality on this forum. If you're shoving things up your butt then you just got to go.