nothing more disgusting than "PLANNING FOR BABIES"

[slayer69]

people who say -- "oh we r gonna wait 2 years after our wedding until we have kids" - they need to DIE
they think having babies is some sort of game thing. absolutely disgusting.

having babies ought to happen naturally. in the flow.
u shouldnt be having sex and cumming inside her because u guys "planned it"

having babies is the most beautiful natural thing, it should naturally happen when u r having good normal passionate sex.
u should never know when u impregnated her.
sex is beautiful, u came inside her, it happened, u procreated, all in the moment.
thats legit nature.

yes its important to have sufficient economic resources in hand to raise a baby, and u should focus on that first, before u even focus about getting into an LTR. and not thinking about "well i'll marry now and i'll have a baby after x years and i make abc amount of money"

if u r one of those robotic satanic people who think making babies is a lab experiment just off urself.

 

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[slayer69]

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not even funny, the least u could've done is read the whole thing and given ur comprehensive opinion
but alas
u lack the brain to apprehend such topics.

 

[Mr.Proper]

Arguably, having children while not planning them/not having resources for them is worse.
Overall, having children is a kind of cope. "Muh son will be a Mogger Chad, beautiful rich and powerful, not wageslave a day in his life! Muh genes, muh heritage..." yeah, sure...

 

[slayer69]

Arguably, having children while not planning them/not having resources for them is worse.
Overall, having children is a kind of cope. "Muh son will be a Mogger Chad, beautiful rich and powerful, not wageslave a day in his life! Muh genes, muh heritage..." yeah, sure...

Looks like someone didn't read the whole thing

yes its important to have sufficient economic resources in hand to raise a baby, and u should focus on that first, before u even focus about getting into an LTR. and not thinking about "well i'll marry now and i'll have a baby after x years and i make abc amount of money"

 

[Splinter901]

You shouldn't have kids if u can't buy them their own house, car and pay for everything they want and have them do whatever they want without having to ever work, having kids and expecting them to be a slave is extremely immoral.

 

[slayer69]

You shouldn't have kids if u can't buy them their own house, car and pay for everything they want and have them do whatever they want without having to ever work, having kids and expecting to be slave is extremely immoral.

especially true in 2023

u need to focus of maxxing ur resources before starting a family

 

[The Grinch]

Who tf needs kids when you can have dogs and cats

 

[Splinter901]

especially true in 2023

u need to focus of maxxing ur resources before starting a family

Personally I don't give a shit about starting anything, I'm disgusted by ''families'', children, old hags, aging, work, I will rope soon after going ER.

 

[Mr.Proper]

Looks like someone didn't read the whole thing

I read, and say it's okay to LTR and having kids later, it's not trad society when it was expected to have your wife pregnant shortly after marriage (but it came with its own set of previlegies and responsibilities for husband) . Way better to see if you can tolerate girl in common life and then deciding than having a kid and then "oops, she is a such a bitch" and having yourself baby trapped (or alimony trapped) and raising the kid in shitty family (not guaranteed but chances are better).

 

[Sub0]

people who say -- "oh we r gonna wait 2 years after our wedding until we have kids" - they need to DIE
they think having babies is some sort of game thing. absolutely disgusting.

having babies ought to happen naturally. in the flow.
u shouldnt be having sex and cumming inside her because u guys "planned it"

having babies is the most beautiful natural thing, it should naturally happen when u r having good normal passionate sex.
u should never know when u impregnated her.
sex is beautiful, u came inside her, it happened, u procreated, all in the moment.
thats legit nature.

yes its important to have sufficient economic resources in hand to raise a baby, and u should focus on that first, before u even focus about getting into an LTR. and not thinking about "well i'll marry now and i'll have a baby after x years and i make abc amount of money"

if u r one of those robotic satanic people who think making babies is a lab experiment just off urself.

Nah it's better to plan that, you should be retaining your seed for atleast 72 days before cumming inside her

 

[slayer69]

I read, and say it's okay to LTR and having kids later, it's not trad society when it was expected to have your wife pregnant shortly after marriage (but it came with its own set of previlegies and responsibilities for husband) . Way better to see if you can tolerate girl in common life and then deciding than having a kid and then "oops, she is a such a bitch" and having yourself baby trapped (or alimony trapped) and raising the kid in shitty family (not guaranteed but chances are better).

you seem to be doing a good amount of mental gymnastics to not be able to wrap your head around this.
that or, you've never talked to a woman before or been in a relationship.

you need to have a good amount of resources. you need a good house, money, and the energy to make a family.
you take ur time with the girl of course but, when u commit to her, thats when it becomes a long term relationship.
u will know it when u commit to her. it will be different from slaying or just "dating" a girl for fun. thats when it becomes an actual LTR.

u need more real world experience, go talk to girls.

all those baby traps are with bluepilled naive reddit tier retards who got famous by some shitty music or instagram post. not people who have actual virtues and ethics.

 

[slayer69]

Nah it's better to plan that, you should be retaining your seed for atleast 72 days before cumming inside her

mirin trolling incels here

 

[Mr.Proper]

you seem to be doing a good amount of mental gymnastics to not be able to wrap your head around this.
that or, you've never talked to a woman before or been in a relationship.

you need to have a good amount of resources. you need a good house, money, and the energy to make a family.
you take ur time with the girl of course but, when u commit to her, thats when it becomes a long term relationship.
u will know it when u commit to her. it will be different from slaying or just "dating" a girl for fun. thats when it becomes an actual LTR.

u need more real world experience, go talk to girls.

all those baby traps are with bluepilled naive reddit tier retards who got famous by some shitty music or instagram post. not people who have actual virtues and ethics.

I have an experience and I'm not too young. Define "commitment". Marriage? Living together? Kids?
My point is that even if you have resources, you have to be picky whom you choose, especially with modern culture and divorce laws. Living for some time and going through various life situations together before having kids usually allows you to do it better.

 

[Zer0/∞]

Having children is immora, your son could be autistic and be rotting on Looksmax.org for the rest of their life

 

[slayer69]

I have an experience and I'm not too young. Define "commitment". Marriage? Living together? Kids?
My point is that even if you have resources, you have to be picky whom you choose, especially with modern culture and divorce laws. Living for some time and going through various life situations together before having kids usually allows you to do it better.

Commitment as in "Yeah I'd want this girl to be the mother of my kids", that sort of feeling, not a binary black and white decision, more of a perception.
Yeah you have to be picky for sure with choosing the girl.

I think you're confused here, I'm not talking about the girl, I'm talking about after you've chosen a girl to be urs and u have decided that she is urs.
the two of u shouldnt "plan", thats what the thread is about.

 

[Mr.Proper]

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Commitment as in "Yeah I'd want this girl to be the mother of my kids", that sort of feeling, not a binary black and white decision, more of a perception.
Yeah you have to be picky for sure with choosing the girl.

I think you're confused here, I'm not talking about the girl, I'm talking about after you've chosen a girl to be urs and u have decided that she is urs.
the two of u shouldnt "plan", thats what the thread is about.

I think technically you can have a situation when you get "Yeah I'd like her to be mother of my kids" feeling but can suddenly become temporary occupied by something and feeling like it's not the best time to have kids at the moment, so it can be postponed a bit. Ideally, of course, to have it "all set" before making family and such, but life can be surprising at times.

 

[slayer69]

I think technically you can have a situation when you get "Yeah I'd like her to be mother of my kids" feeling but can suddenly become temporary occupied by something and feeling like it's not the best time to have kids at the moment, so it can be postponed a bit. Ideally, of course, to have it "all set" before making family and such, but life can be surprising at times.

no such thing
only pussies and cucks have such feelings

its always a good time to make babies when u have a good wife, money, and a good house.