NT Guide Request: (very simple) how do you make people agree with you

[Deleted member 3270]

People I know that are my friends with with nothing else on their hands for the day will deny my invitations to hang out. for example after hanging out with this group I know at the skate park, at the end of the day no one wants to hang out or eat or some shit. they just hang out with eachother. Multiple people in these groups don't mog me too

I can't get to someone's "soul" and make them like me or follow me i have to battle just for the smallest amount of trust.

Almost everyone who's lower iq than me can do that. even when they stay because I offer to pay for shit they visibly still want to go home after having used my ass. or be plotting to take advantage of my generosity. Regardless of my pretty good PSL and nt clothing, honestly i'm starting to notice you just have to be born a certain way

 

[Deleted member 9003]

They’re not your friends. If they wanted to hang with you they would.

 

[Danish_Retard]

Get new friends.

 

[Deleted member 3270]

They’re not your friends. If they wanted to hang with you they would.

damn bro

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

They’re not your friends. If they wanted to hang with you they would.

he might just be the friend they like but isnt fun to be with

 

[Deleted member 13197]

Ask two of the guys you’re closest to in the group to hang out. If they make an excuse then they’re not your friends and you need to get new ones

 

[Deleted member 3270]

he might just be the friend they like but isnt fun to be with

Facts because in school I have a group of friends who like me but never reach out to go to mcdonalds right down the street or whatever after school. And I know i'll probably get humiliated if I ask. What's the deciding factor of reputation. invisible vibes or some shit that you can't detect? bc I know I have a jaw lmao

 

[Deleted member 9003]

he might just be the friend they like but isnt fun to be with

So basically a acquaintance

 

[Deleted member 13197]

he might just be the friend they like but isnt fun to be with

Yea or this. Ppl in my group get left out of events and group chats bc they ruin the vibe or they’re not fun to be around. You got to have a standout thing that ur known for in t he group. Like the funny guy, the slayer, the entertaining story guy

 

[Deleted member 3270]

Yea or this. Ppl in my group get left out of events and group chats bc they ruin the vibe or they’re not fun to be around. You got to have a standout thing that ur known for in t he group. Like the funny guy, the slayer, the entertaining story guy

It's the Curse of having zero Niche imo

 

[R@m@]

Don't try too hard, don't give people too much attention, don't say dumb shit, you can easily make friends this way

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

So basically a acquaintance

not like that im saying they like him as a person but hes just not fun to be with
he sounds like he comes off a bit forceful when they just want to fuck around imo

 

[Deleted member 3270]

Don't try too hard, don't give people too much attention, don't say dumb shit, you can easily make friends this way

Nah there's nothing wrong with what I ever said in particular but i just lack a "vibe"

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

Yea or this. Ppl in my group get left out of events and group chats bc they ruin the vibe or they’re not fun to be around. You got to have a standout thing that ur known for in t he group. Like the funny guy, the slayer, the entertaining story guy

or be too standout when they want to blend in like normies. some groups hate it when a guy tries to act too "alpha"

 

[Deleted member 8744]

You

Facts because in school I have a group of friends who like me but never reach out to go to mcdonalds right down the street or whatever after school. And I know i'll probably get humiliated if I ask. What's the deciding factor of reputation. invisible vibes or some shit that you can't detect? bc I know I have a jaw lmao

have to build a solid base with them first. If there’s a group you specially want to be apart of then you need to do the whole immitation is highest form of flattery type of thing. Before trying to join though stay close by just to get the vibe of the whole group. Get a sense of music clothes language etc and slowly integrate it into your own style and you’ll likely have success with it. Also don’t be too loud especially at first. People hate it when newbies start off acting like their the macho or whatver

 

[Deleted member 8744]

Nah there's nothing wrong with what I ever said in particular but i just lack a "vibe"

And that’s perfectly fine too. I’d actually say good because now u can develop one and u won’t have to change “vibes” which can cause questioning about why from others.

 

[Deleted member 3270]

And that’s perfectly fine too. I’d actually say good because now u can develop one and u won’t have to change “vibes” which can cause questioning about why from others.

Aight brody glooks check ur DMs

 

[Deleted member 6380]

damn bro

I agree with these 2 ignored niggas, get new friends that you click with & are like you

 

[Deleted member 6380]

Didn't you say you had adhd? No chance you'll get along with neurotypicals, get friends with adhd/asd(autism)

 

[Deleted member 3270]

Didn't you say you had adhd? No chance you'll get along with neurotypicals, get friends with adhd/asd(autism)

Lol bro non NT friends are toxic and hold you back from real success. At least half of NT people are about their grind and I want to get better at collaborating with them. to actually make money. They also don't hold grudges unlike non NT people

 

[Deleted member 13495]

People I know that are my friends with with nothing else on their hands for the day will deny my invitations to hang out. for example after hanging out with this group I know at the skate park, at the end of the day no one wants to hang out or eat or some shit. they just hang out with eachother. Multiple people in these groups don't mog me too

I can't get to someone's "soul" and make them like me or follow me i have to battle just for the smallest amount of trust.

Almost everyone who's lower iq than me can do that. even when they stay because I offer to pay for shit they visibly still want to go home after having used my ass. or be plotting to take advantage of my generosity. Regardless of my pretty good PSL and nt clothing, honestly i'm starting to notice you just have to be born a certain way

just learn to be independent and if anyone likes you along the way then thats a bonus ig, its the safest (mentally) route you can take

 

[eduardkoopman]

there are people, that only do something when they have immedate personal benifits.

there are people, that will do something for potential future benifits.

there are pople, that have a helping others attitude without personal gains as the main thing in the forefront.

Treat friends, wherever they fall in above type of persons. accordingly.
Not all friends are made equal.

For chilmaxxing friends, the bar doesn't have to be that high.