NT vs. Non-NT is Mostly Cope—Height and Looks are why you suck Irl.

[KingCell]

I don’t really buy into the whole "NT vs. Non-NT" (neurotypical vs. neurodivergent) concept for the most part. Yeah, sure, some people have genuine issues, but I personally believe that if I were a 6'3" PSL god, every single social issue I have would vanish.

People love to act like social struggles are rooted in brain chemistry when, in reality, they’re mostly about how others perceive you. If you're tall, lean, and have top-tier facial aesthetics, suddenly you're "charismatic," "confident," and "charming" instead of "awkward" or "weird."

This is why you are able to pass as normal on online voice calls with people who don't know you're face

I knew a tall chadlite kid at my hs who used to make werid noises randomly and everyone thought he was funny

 

[Сигма Бой]

I knew a tall chadlite kid at my hs who used to make werid noises randomly and everyone thought he was funny

School is NT.

 

[Lawton88]

I don’t really buy into the whole "NT vs. Non-NT" (neurotypical vs. neurodivergent) concept for the most part. Yeah, sure, some people have genuine issues, but I personally believe that if I were a 6'3" PSL god, every single social issue I have would vanish.

People love to act like social struggles are rooted in brain chemistry when, in reality, they’re mostly about how others perceive you. If you're tall, lean, and have top-tier facial aesthetics, suddenly you're "charismatic," "confident," and "charming" instead of "awkward" or "weird."

This is why you are able to pass as normal on online voice calls with people who don't know you're face

I knew a tall chadlite kid at my hs who used to make werid noises randomly and everyone thought he was funny

Yep confidence to females is your height and looks mostly. It's why some average looking guys that are outgoing and in the right social circle can struggle getting a relationship.

 

[Foreverbrad]

Looks theory is like Pascal’s wager.
NT-copers play a dangerous game.

 

[anthony111553]

Cope

 

[Altruist]

yeah.

do people here really think "normies" are always super smooth and don't have awkward moments in conversations with people?

most of the time, whether someone will interpret what you say as "cool", normal or cringe depends on how they perceive your status/position in the social hierarchy.

of course, this is heavily positively correlated with good looks, but extends beyond just your appearance, in absence of preexisting knowledge about you - to manners, the way you talk, the way you are dressed etc; phenotype is plays a big role too, because you have those obviously low class and primitive people who still look "good" in the sense that they have some primitive sex appeal

 

[Nick.Harte]

People love to act like social struggles are rooted in brain chemistry

If you’re a social outcast, then you need to visit a plastic surgeon.

 

[Sayonara]

Cope. Neurotypicality matters more

 

[Snicket]

I don’t really buy into the whole "NT vs. Non-NT" (neurotypical vs. neurodivergent) concept for the most part. Yeah, sure, some people have genuine issues, but I personally believe that if I were a 6'3" PSL god, every single social issue I have would vanish.

People love to act like social struggles are rooted in brain chemistry when, in reality, they’re mostly about how others perceive you. If you're tall, lean, and have top-tier facial aesthetics, suddenly you're "charismatic," "confident," and "charming" instead of "awkward" or "weird."

This is why you are able to pass as normal on online voice calls with people who don't know you're face

I knew a tall chadlite kid at my hs who used to make werid noises randomly and everyone thought he was funny

People who make this argument are under the misconception that we think "NT" makes you more attractive.
The average guy is spectacularly uncharismatic and by definition not good looking - but still gets a girlfriend.

Why?

Because NT gives you a social circle to meet people and therefore more opportunities.
More opportunities = more chance of success.
Proximity > Looks

 

[FiendFiend]

I don’t really buy into the whole "NT vs. Non-NT" (neurotypical vs. neurodivergent) concept for the most part. Yeah, sure, some people have genuine issues, but I personally believe that if I were a 6'3" PSL god, every single social issue I have would vanish.

People love to act like social struggles are rooted in brain chemistry when, in reality, they’re mostly about how others perceive you. If you're tall, lean, and have top-tier facial aesthetics, suddenly you're "charismatic," "confident," and "charming" instead of "awkward" or "weird."

This is why you are able to pass as normal on online voice calls with people who don't know you're face

I knew a tall chadlite kid at my hs who used to make werid noises randomly and everyone thought he was funny

dawg i am living proof of it and also i have posted plenty of threads, even of literal atlanto med actual CHAD whos 6'5 whos gf is a ugly as fuck latina because hes a ND streamer who plays WoW and csgo all day.

On the internet with camera on I am low inhib, dont give a fuck what i say, a lot of girls like me on omegle and find me cute. IRL i am very high inhib, self hating etc.

When I look in the mirror im happy, but when i dont see how i look like i am always nervous if i look ugly as fuck as cuz im a ND autist. I have even been asked out by girls in secondary school multiple times. I am super high inhib irl, and its not as bad when im out with a friend. I struggled making friends in college and would literally not say a word to anyone. I dont pick up on signs of girls liking me. When I look back at shit I realise yeah the girl probably liked me but i am so self hating that i tell myself no it cant possibly be.

Jfl would literally have girls come up to me and say i like ur eyes and be flirtatous, and after said we should be friends. And then I would tell myself shes just being nice vrooo.

Nigga is acting like NDs dont exist jfl go fucking rope nigger

 

[FiendFiend]

Looks theory is like Pascal’s wager.
NT-copers play a dangerous game.

what if ur actually ND and get compliments when u go on omegle, but ur just mega autist and basically say no words and give really dry responses to people irl and fear people ur not familiar with like the bubonic plauge

 

[FiendFiend]

I knew a tall chadlite kid at my hs who used to make werid noises randomly and everyone thought he was funny

ND =/= actually being a fucking retarded sped

 

[superpsycho]

neurotypicality is life

 

[andro35]

People who make this argument are under the misconception that we think "NT" makes you more attractive.
The average guy is spectacularly uncharismatic and by definition not good looking - but still gets a girlfriend.

Why?

Because NT gives you a social circle to meet people and therefore more opportunities.
More opportunities = more chance of success.
Proximity > Looks

I'm trying to create a "bite sized" way to remind myself of the "NT or ND way", because at the end of the day being "NT or ND" isn't about some "magic" pill or superpower, but rather the capacity to endure through hardship. It's the endurance to not easily fold under everyday stress.

Thats what I am getting out of the book: "The Masculine in Relationship" by GS Youngblood, and am in the process of distilling the main ideas and concepts into memorable bite sized chunks.

What do you think, am I realistic in my "expectations" to use this "knowledge" to create a social circle that would give me more options?

 

[yoshisand]

I don’t really buy into the whole "NT vs. Non-NT" (neurotypical vs. neurodivergent) concept for the most part. Yeah, sure, some people have genuine issues, but I personally believe that if I were a 6'3" PSL god, every single social issue I have would vanish.

People love to act like social struggles are rooted in brain chemistry when, in reality, they’re mostly about how others perceive you. If you're tall, lean, and have top-tier facial aesthetics, suddenly you're "charismatic," "confident," and "charming" instead of "awkward" or "weird."

This is why you are able to pass as normal on online voice calls with people who don't know you're face

I knew a tall chadlite kid at my hs who used to make werid noises randomly and everyone thought he was funny

Well no fucking shit but PSL gods are .02-1 of the populuai and being 6'3 is rare as shit too