NTmaxxing is cringe and I will never do it

[Bitchwhipper2]

I can pass as NT if I want to despite having autism, But i choose not to because being NT is legit boring as fuck and autismmaxxing is the only joy i get in life

 

[Mongrelcel]

not being NT is by definition cringe

 

[Deleted member 15099]

Based, I hate normies

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

not being NT is by definition cringe

Dont care

 

[khvirgin]

being NT is actually boring if you're programmed to be an autist
I legit get annoyed by the amount of boring questions I ask to people, everything I do seems forced and I'm not interested in any of the answers

 

[Loko88]

worked for me, by being NT at parties I always end up slaying 1 girl
gotta have the looks required however

however in regular days I just act like myself, aka not giving a fuck about people, yet still getting a bit of social interactions

 

[coolguy1]

You should pretend to be NT, not actually become NT. Not like it's possible to become NT if ur autistic anyway.

 

[Loko88]

You should pretend to be NT, not actually become NT. Not like it's possible to become NT if ur autistic anyway.

agreed, it's all an act

 

[Deleted member 15099]

You should pretend to be NT, not actually become NT. Not like it's possible to become NT if ur autistic anyway.

Just be dark triad psychopathic badboy manipulator

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

You should pretend to be NT, not actually become NT. Not like it's possible to become NT if ur autistic anyway.

Yeh, thats what I meant. But i choose not to act NT

 

[RIPPED IRL]

you cant act as a NT bro

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

you cant act as a NT bro

Did it all throughout last year. Went to parties, and met lots of new people. Got sick of it because the parties got lame after a while so i stopped acting, and became autistic again.

Still have friends and go to a drinking night with friends once in a while. But I dont act normal at all anymore

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

you cant act as a NT bro

Btw thats also when im completely autismmaxxed. Pic taken 2 days ago in a random stairway where i had been sitting for 3 hours at 1am high as fuck. All while growing out my teenage pubestache and shitty goatee.

 

[Deleted member 4209]

get GL enough and u can act like an autist

 

[Deleted member 7725]

get GL enough and u can act like an autist

That's the dream. Just look at these autists:

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

get GL enough and u can act like an autist

Cant be fucked to get gl enough

 

[Deleted member 5189]

Just be dark triad psychopathic badboy manipulator

Lets see Paul Allen's manipulation

 

[Deleted member 5189]

Based, I hate normies

Lets see Paul Allen's base

 

[andro35]

I can pass as NT if I want to despite having autism, But i choose not to because being NT is legit boring as fuck and autismmaxxing is the only joy i get in life

New guy here! Really sorry for being a n00b, but what does NT stand for? Also is there a list of acronyms for this site? A lot of these acronyms just fly over my head. Thank you!

 

[reputation]

I can pass as NT if I want to despite having autism, But i choose not to because being NT is legit boring as fuck and autismmaxxing is the only joy i get in life

I'm Omnivert, being extroverted with locals leads nowhere since they have only scripted answers to give, waste of time, only friends matter

 

[sevensources]

How do people have long-term conversations with people and build a friendship/relationship? I'm only able to have like 2 minute conversations IRL with people at best, that's why I've never been in a relationsip.

People say that a 2 month LTR is short, but I'm thinking how do you even entertain a girl for 2 months without running out of things to talk about/things getting boring?

Seriously like my conversations with people just go like "hi" "how are you?" "how have you been" etc for like a minute and that's it, I literally spend 80% of my time alone.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

How do people have long-term conversations with people and build a friendship/relationship? I'm only able to have like 2 minute conversations IRL with people at best, that's why I've never been in a relationsip.

People say that a 2 month LTR is short, but I'm thinking how do you even entertain a girl for 2 months without running out of things to talk about/things getting boring?

Seriously like my conversations with people just go like "hi" "how are you?" "how have you been" etc for like a minute and that's it, I literally spend 80% of my time alone.

The key is adding emotions in to your convos.

Once you have emotions in what you say, it doesnt matter very much about what you say anymore. Its just how you say it.

Ive noticed that when I actively try to think of something to say to keep a convo alive it always becomes akward. Its when i dont think and just run off feeling that it goes well

 

[Richard_Hungwell]

The key is adding emotions in to your convos.

Once you have emotions in what you say, it doesnt matter very much about what you say anymore. Its just how you say it.

Ive noticed that when I actively try to think of something to say to keep a convo alive it always becomes akward. Its when i dont think and just run off feeling that it goes well

Yes, I've learnt that the hard way. It felt very unnatural and forced at first, but got easier with practice.

I've learned that saying literally anything (no matter how stupid/pointless/cliche I personally think it is) is much better than saying nothing (which is what I feel like doing most times). I've learned people love to hear cliche responses compared to silence (because I didn't feel the need to respond) and it's super important to them.

The worst possible thing is to be quiet and monotone to most people. Just say any stupid cliche or observe other people and copy their normie NPC responses and say it in a sing-songy voice and everyone will love you, pretty much. I still feel like an actor sometimes when socializing, but it is what it is.

I had to learn that people love when you use their name a lot when talking to them and it's also very important to them that you smile when talking to them, or at least a smirk or something. I was told that my neutral face looked too serious/angry to others, so I make an effort to try to smirk now. When I was younger, I had no idea just how important these things were to people because I personally didn't care if others smiled at me a lot or used my name a lot or talked in monotone.

I just hate when I sometimes say things that aren't always the most genuine because I feel forced into giving a response to something because I don't know what else to say (such as when someone's fishing for a compliment). It's something I'm still working on.

I've seen the other side of this though...because when I really like someone (for example, have a crush on a girl or whatever), we can talk about the most stupid, boring, pointless stuff but it's amazing and exciting because I'm just so happy to be talking to her... Is that what it's like for extroverts? They don't care about the subject matter? They just genuinely enjoy making small talk and get a kick out if it? It's very foreign to me...

The best is when you have family/friends who know and understand you and you can be yourself around them. The people who don't get personally offended when you don't talk or emote much and you can be more genuine around them and just relax.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Yes, I've learnt that the hard way. It felt very unnatural and forced at first, but got easier with practice.

I've learned that saying literally anything (no matter how stupid/pointless/cliche I personally think it is) is much better than saying nothing (which is what I feel like doing most times). I've learned people love to hear cliche responses compared to silence (because I didn't feel the need to respond) and it's super important to them.

The worst possible thing is to be quiet and monotone to most people. Just say any stupid cliche or observe other people and copy their normie NPC responses and say it in a sing-songy voice and everyone will love you, pretty much. I still feel like an actor sometimes when socializing, but it is what it is.

I had to learn that people love when you use their name a lot when talking to them and it's also very important to them that you smile when talking to them, or at least a smirk or something. I was told that my neutral face looked too serious/angry to others, so I make an effort to try to smirk now. When I was younger, I had no idea just how important these things were to people because I personally didn't care if others smiled at me a lot or used my name a lot or talked in monotone.

I just hate when I sometimes say things that aren't always the most genuine because I feel forced into giving a response to something because I don't know what else to say (such as when someone's fishing for a compliment). It's something I'm still working on.

I've seen the other side of this though...because when I really like someone (for example, have a crush on a girl or whatever), we can talk about the most stupid, boring, pointless stuff but it's amazing and exciting because I'm just so happy to be talking to her... Is that what it's like for extroverts? They don't care about the subject matter? They just genuinely enjoy making small talk and get a kick out if it? It's very foreign to me...

The best is when you have family/friends who know and understand you and you can be yourself around them. The people who don't get personally offended when you don't talk or emote much and you can be more genuine around them and just relax.

Relate a lot and have been through that. but now Im actually starting to go the other direction

For example when some normie tries to show me a video they find funny on their phone I usually give 0 reaction because I find it plain annoying

 

[Richard_Hungwell]

Relate a lot and have been through that. but now Im actually starting to go the other direction

For example when some normie tries to show me a video they find funny on their phone I usually give 0 reaction because I find it plain annoying

Based tbh. If you don't care and can just be your genuine self, that is ideal.